John L. Roberts, J.D., is an Elder Law Attorney serving clients in Hampden County, MA. After practicing for 15 years, he confronted the challenges of family caregiving when his own father developed dementia. The experience transformed his practice, enabling him to help clients who are family caregivers from a place of true understanding.

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Both parents with varying degrees of dementia live with my husband and myself now. Any advice about lookback?


Your parents can pay you for the housing, services and valuable geriatric care management you are providing now, without affecting their... see more

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Paying for assisted living?


In my state (Massachusetts) some assisted living centers have subsidized slots for low income residents who are on SSI. The program in my... see more

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I am 66 taking care of my 84 year old mom. Can I get paid to care for her?


An elder law attorney in your state can explain the Medicaid programs that can pay for care in your Mom's home. If you don't... see more

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My mother sends my brother $500 a month to assist with the rent. Will this be an issue when she has to go on M...


Suggest that your mom talk with an elder law attorney in her home state, to talk about ways she can continue to stay in the least... see more

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My mother sends my brother $500 a month to assist with the rent. Will this be an issue when she has to go on M...


Suggest that your mom talk with an elder law attorney in her home state, so she can continue to stay in the least restrictive living... see more

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Where do I get help interpreting my mother's long-term care insurance policy?


An Elder Law Attorney in your mother's state of residence can help you understand the policy, and you'll get other insights on care... see more

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Who deems someone as mentally competent or incompetent?


Your question is important and well worth talking about with your family members, and the people who care for your mother. A NIH summary... see more

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VA death pension vs Aid and Attendance?


Thrifty elders often respond well to the idea that care services can be covered by a government benefit or pension. Health and safety are... see more

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Can my son be my POA and my two brothers be my witnesses?


If it is properly drafted, the Power of Attorney document can be an effective tool in the hands of your Attorney-in-Fact. It can... see more

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Is an IRA exempt from estate recovery?


Your question about Social Security income is answered with an understanding of the concept of "Patient Paid Amount." The PPA is... see more

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Is it shameful to feel relieved when abusive parent dies?


One of the best treatments of this topic I have found to help clients who come to my office for help with elder care planning and estate... see more

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What to do with a tax refund?


Medicaid regulations in your state include "non-countable assets" and services that you can acquire for your mother using her tax... see more

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Will Medicaid count a condo that my sisters and I inherited from our dad as our mother's asset if we deeded it...


The answer to your question is determined by the Medicaid regulations in your state that govern "disqualifying transfers." If... see more

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My mother is in a nursing home. Can we move into her house rent free?


ForKing has supplemented the question post by explaining: her mother has a "partnership policy." This indicates that her mother... see more

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Will Medicaid pay for a private personal care aide?


Medicaid regulations are different in every state, and each state has different terms and jargon to describe the resources available You... see more

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My mother is in a nursing home. Can we move into her house rent free?


Your question seems to be about Medicaid Estate Recovery in the future. The first question to ask is: can your mother be eligible for... see more

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When my will says that the house is to be sold & divided up between 4 children & 1 of the children wants the h...


The postings in answer to this question suggest several scenarios for settling an estate and distributing the home equity to the children.... see more

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Any insight into "No progress" criteria for medicare rehab (SNF) 100 day benefit?


Years after a Federal Court tried to end this misunderstanding about Medicare coverage, the Center for Medicare Advocacy says it... see more

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Need advice when dealing with elder care lawyers....


Your explain how you have met with several Elder Law Attorneys, and end up feeling even more confused than when you first asked for advice... see more

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Has anyone hired private caregivers "under the table" and if so, how did it work out? What advice would you h...


If you plan to hire caregivers yourself, you’ll need to understand: 1 - Your state’s wage and hour laws and the federal Fair Labor... see more

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