John L. Roberts, J.D., is an Elder Law Attorney serving clients in Hampden County, MA. After practicing for 15 years, he confronted the challenges of family caregiving when his own father developed dementia. The experience transformed his practice, enabling him to help clients who are family caregivers from a place of true understanding.

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Does a resident family member (with POA) have to pay nursing home, when resident can't?


Families are often overwhelmed by numerous nursing home admissions documents. Rest assured that family members cannot be required to sign... see more

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Can I take my husband's name off of our deed if I have a POA to make all decisions concerning the home?


Does your husband’s Power of Attorney document have a clause that allows “Self Dealing” ? This is the clause that a title examiner would... see more

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How deeply do you really think that Medicaid looks into assets when determining if a person qualifies for Medi...


Anyone who does not disclose all the income and assets that are relevant to a request for benefits should be losing sleep over their... see more

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Will Medicaid count the gross rent or the net rent against my mother?


The Medicaid regulations in your state should explain how you can calculate the rental income that must be contributed to payment for your... see more

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What to do with a husband that pees all over the bathroom?


Many memory loss patients have increasing difficulty with activities of daily living. But there are ways to help with capacity for daily... see more

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We are asking my wife's Mother to pay us $2000 a month to live in our home and be taking care of 24/7. Any opi...


The top response to your question by MaggieMarshall is very important. Without a Caregiver Contract, and records to verify the work that... see more

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How much does Medicaid pay for me to care for my Mom in my home?


The Medicaid program in your state may have several programs to help you and your mother. Whether you can provide sufficient care at home... see more

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Medicaid 5-year look back - what is looked at, and to what level of detail, as far as determining penalties?


Now is the time to talk to an elder law attorney who serves people in your area, to protect your mother in law's remaining assets, and... see more

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What do you do to distract Alzheimer's patients from going out so often?


Agingcare.com has a section devoted to memory loss care, and the Alzheimer's Association has a helpful brochure that outlines how you... see more

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My father-n-law is a WWII Veteran, but has never used any benefits, he now needs assisted care. Are there bene...


Basic information is at: https://www.agingcare.com/articles/veteran-aid-attendance-benefit-long-term-care-156656.htm... see more

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When Mom dies do I have to be appointed executrix to get her tax refund?


IRS Publication 559 explains that: If no personal representative has been appointed and if there is no surviving spouse, the person in... see more

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How can I set up the child caregiver exemption?


The caregiver child exception allows a person who applies for Medicaid nursing home coverage to make a penalty free transfer of their house... see more

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My brother has DPOA of health care for my Mother. Do I need his permission to access her medical records?


Has your brother told your mother's health care providers not to provide her health care information to you or other family members?... see more

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If my Mom has a live-in from Medicaid does she have to provide food/meals?


You question about meals raises many important issues, including your mother's liability for unexpected things that can happen in home... see more

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My mother is on medicaid and will be receiving an inheritance of approximately 250,000. How can she spend this...


Is your mother a resident of a facility, or is she receiving Medicaid benefits to pay for home care? The answer to your question about the... see more

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Can wrist restraints be used legally in SC for a dementia patient who is aggressive?


Federal laws and regulations talk about restraints on people who are residents of care facilities. Under Federal law, patients have the... see more

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Spousal impoverishment under VA healthcare/assisted living. Any advice?


An advocate in your city or town could help you sort out the confusion the discharge planners are having with your husband's level of... see more

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Money follows the person waivers. Have you used a waiver?


What state do you live in? In Massachusetts, Money Follows the Person (MFP) is a demonstration program that moves eligible elderly and... see more

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Can a guardian live in a different state than the ward?


Your question requires an understanding of how your mother is paying for nursing home care in Florida, and real estate title law in... see more

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Do we have to pay taxes on my Dad's cashed out life insurance policies?


In your question, you say: "We are filing for medicaid for my dad. he is in a nursing home" and "we will have to use all the... see more

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