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Yes, that's it! I have a gardener like that Cwillie. I tried to explain it before when my dH is asked to dig a hole for a plant. If he was not supervised, he doesn't stop. A 4 gal. size hole gets as big as a 10 gal. sized hole. He might dig to China if I didn't stop him. OCD, maybe?

Digging around the foundation sounds a bit like that. Maybe your nephew needs supervision?

Interested about the Lasagne gardening.

It will have to wait until I recover from our last project/transplanting a big plant.
Dh is recovering too.
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I have a nephew who has been attempting to garden ever since he bought his house nearly 10 years ago but despite my advice he fails every year. He likes flowers and pretty plants. I don't know how to help him other than to do it for him (and I'm too old and just not willing to spend the time and effort), he's a grown azz man who can't seem to follow simple directions and once he gets a wrong idea in his head it is almost impossible to change it - nothing new here, this is a deficit that had us despairing that he wouldn't graduate high school (and he wouldn't have if not for a generous teacher that boosted his grades).
I told him to buy good soil, to start a compost pile and add organic matter, I've told him to bring cardboard home from work and lay it over the grass and weeds and to add soil and mulch on top of that, this year I told him how I started a new bed last year by simply cutting open bags of much and laying them over the grass, I told him to go online to read about lasagna gardening, and I have told him repeatedly to make a plan he/we can work at slowly over the years.....
He has apparently dug all the soil away from his foundation (because it was "sh!t") and rather than spending enough to fill it with better soil has planted in the depression. OK, this is wrong on so many levels... how do I help him understand that for the sake of proper foundation drainage beside his house he needs to fill this hole in??
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Yes, it has been a drought area. In then last 5-6 days we have received about 2" of moisture. So the rain and snow day s a welcome change from the winds of April and May. There has been enough to takes us out of extreme drought status.I


Go avs!
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Are you in the drought area Glad? I imagine even snow is welcome there (although a nice warm rain would be better).
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Snow, I am so jealous. We are triple digits and I am not ready for the summer.
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Got snow here overnight. Chilly few days. To warm over the weekend to more seasonal.
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Landscape company came today and moved several rose bushes and a couple of other bushes. I'm having a new wider handicap ramp built to accommodate my wheelchair. Have to have a bunch of bulbs transplanted.
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Penobscot? Don't think so.
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Native Americans are allowed to hunt year round on their reservation if they live there. It was a young bull.
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It is not moose season. Is that something to be proud of?! Maybe it was a mama with a baby? What the heck!!l! Or maybe just fos
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I suppose I could ask here rather than "google"
I have some Oriental Poppies that I would like to move. Has anyone had success moving poppies.
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Peas are up. My DIL and her dad planted second round of everything today. In bout 10 days they'll plant he third batch. My DIL shot a moose today.
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I've got most of my garden planted but there is always work to be done. I've been working on straightening edges, moving around plants that are getting crowded out and digging up a few of the perennials that are doing the crowding.
I've also been working on my very neglected deck prepping it to be stained, I've been down on my hands and knees scrubbing away because that seems to be the only method that is working to get up the mildew and crud. Oy.
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If I was closer I would take you up on that.

I make a dandelion salve that is great for bruises.
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Isthisrealyreal...
you are more than welcome to come to my yard and pick all you want. I will let you do it for FREE and keep the profits.
I think they are bitter. Not a fan of bitter.
I did try some dandelion wine once. "Once" being the important take away here.
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Grandma, dandelion greens are great to eat and full of nutrition.

They sell for 4.00 a bunch around here.
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I hear you about the different lilacs Grandma1954, I bought a standard for the front of my house and it is nothing like I imagined it would be - now I know to never buy unless they are in bloom!
The garden centre didn't have any deep purple lilacs, just white, light purple and a variegated one (didn't know those existed) so I ended up getting the little Japanese maple - third time's a charm?
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About the pollinators around here people have started "No Mow May" where people will not mow or spray during the month of May to allow the pollinators access to the early spring flowers. Yes this means yards are full of dandelions.
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cwillie...before you plant the lilac make sure you can smell the flowers. I have seen some smaller lilac I think the name is Miss Kimm and IMHO they STINK. Certainly not a nice lilac aroma.
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Black flies are horrible. They will be here in Maine until the middle of June. Then mosquitos the size of small hummingbirds will arrive until the middle of August. I love Maine but could due without the flying insects. Although they do make fishing at the lake good.
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Black flies are little midges that descend like a plague in the spring. They love to target the eyes and ears and they must take a little chunk of you when they bite because they leave bloody welts behind - they are especially bad in cottage country and the north. We get deer flies but not horse flies, they show up later in the summer.

I haven't heard anyone call moths millers for years and years, I think when it comes to things going bump in the night they aren't so bad... 🤣
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CW, would you rather a black fly bite or a miller in your face waking you in the middle of the night? Scared the bejezus out of me! We have horse flies here, they bite. Is that the same thing as black flies?
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After trying twice to get a Japanese maple started beside my deck only to have them both die after the 1 year warranty expired I decided I would plant a lilac instead, but it has to be a deep purple one. The garden centre didn't have any deep purple lilacs but they do have little Emperor Japanese maples for only $35.... dare I try again?
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The cold spell is over and it's time to plant! But of course now black fly season is here, I just came it to wash up and found a big bloody blotch by my chin.... nasty little @#%!, they always go for the face!
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Our soil is awful, very rocky with clay. I’ve amended the areas where I garden quite a lot and they’re slowly getting much better. It’s already full on summer here, hot and humid, spring was a wonderful blip while it lasted. I remember my mom getting chicken manure from a cousin and having beautiful, dark green ferns a few weeks later that were the envy of the neighbors! I enjoy reading all of your veggie gardening talk, I only grow flowers, but it reminds me of the big vegetable garden my dad grew while we were growing up. I was a picky eater as a child and tired quickly of butter beans and pole beans and would ask dad to please grow pork and beans! Ha!
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I'm unable to get down in the dirt any longer so no direct gardening for me. My DIL and her dad are using my garden space this year. They're planting extra for me. I'm going to teach my granddaughters freezing and canning, how to make sauerkraut and pickles.
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Techie, I feel sorry for anyone trying to garden with clay soil.   When I first began landscaping my house, before I planted a garden, I discovered clay soil around the perimeter of the house.   It wasn't clear is the soil was compacted and there was also mild subsidence, but I addressed the soil first.   Subsidence would have been very costly to address.

I can't remember what I added to my soil, but I did use some peat moss as well as garden soil from nurseries.    Eventually I stabilized the soil.    But all that digging was challenging, even decades ago.

Does your nephew compost?   That could certainly help loosen the clay soil.   I also fed the worms with coffee grounds; they helped turn clay soil as well (Nature's own rototillers!).
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But seriously, even if you don't appreciate how long it takes to grow corn how can anyone not understand that it's only early spring - most Ontario crops aren't even in the ground yet.

I learned from my many garden failures too and I'm always willing to try something new, if I can find the motivation I may experiment with growing some lettuce with the kratky method this year.
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Even people who are around gardens don't always learn what is needed to make them grow. A couple of years back my nephew planted two long rows of corn across his garden, then was disappointed his ears were not full. Next year he planted a "dense" patch with multiple rows in a small rectangle and experienced the full cobs he knew from his grandmother's gardens.

Because of the propensity of recent years many people do not garden. My family was never "poor" but my stay at home mother always grew gardens and canned to add quality to our food and as kids we were required to do many gardening chores. Good for everyone! This year my nephew and I have a challenge going on: who will have more yield - me in my limited container garden or him from his larger traditional garden spot? I am very confident because of my secret: I have better soil in my containers and better drainage than the clay based soil he uses for gardening. So far he's been unwilling to put manure on his clay field in the fall and turn it under to improve the soil. A little something I learned from my grandfather.
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I just came across a post on reddit from someone wondering why all the sweet corn in the stores is from Florida and not Ontario.... seriously? 🤯
I can't believe people can be so completely ignorant of where their food comes from, or how plants grow.
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