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Eastern time zone. I'm in central Mass. It is 9:44 pm. Almost time to get Mom up to change her diaper, then it's off to bed for me. Rossella, I don't think I could concentrate enough to do both. I have troulblr finishing the dishes in one session!
I split the brain in different areas. And they work in the same time! It kind of protects me from thinking the same thing all the time. It protects me from sad thoughts.
Rip, How about that nose job on Anthony Quinn? Rossella, You'll have to teach us your brain splitting technique. It could come in handy, but I can't remember what I was doing 2 minutes ago!!!
miz, the Braves are winning over Florida 12-1, but I told my husband that they still had time to lose it! LOL The other night they were winning 10-1 & still ended up losing 12-10! Hope your team wins! I stopped caring about watching baseball as much when they did the strike for more money...Just how many millions do you need to get paid to play a game?!?!
deefer, I am a TRUE carnivoire!!! I LOVE meat!!! The redder, the better!!! For beef, that is...Everything else I like well done. Don't eat much pork. Mostly chicken...more affordable.
And deefer, my husband was switching back & forth between Lawrence of Arabia & the Braves game & we both know which one won! I'd rather have watched the movie! Hope you'll enjoy it for both of us!
Rossella, hope that you're feeling better soon! Wish energy were contagious!!! Never thought about lack of energy being because a lack of iron or vit. B...makes sense! Worth a try! Gotta do something! I FINALLY got enough energy this afternoon to vacuum...
tennessee, this might be a good time to start being a Vol's fan! lol Bet you hair looks pretty...you're just not used to it yet. And they're right that it'll tone down as you wash it. I used to color mine, but because of finances I stopped & now am a BIG part gray...wonder why?? Hum...Couldn't be the stress...Nah, that COULDN'T be it! lol
Rip, you'll feel better soon...we're all pulling for you!!!
I've known of dogs eating cat poop before, but thankfully Shelbie hasn't picked up that habit! I had heard that the reason for them doing that is because the cat hadn't digested the food good so there was actually nutrients left in it that the dog was smelling...I still say OOoo gross!!!
I'm TOO tired, ladies, just TOO flipping tired!!! Thank y'all for being there for me & making me laugh...it helps!!!
We all fotunate to be here. Dad & I watched the Katrina Hurricane aftermath last night. Dateline, or another news channel. Not sure Devastation everywhere .... Our hearts were in our throats.
The sad part about Katrina, is that the devastation should have been better taken care of by now. I don't know how those people have made it this far. It's just not right. Good night Georgia. Get some rest. Good night everyone else too! I'm fading fast and still have to change Mom. Same time, same place, tomorrow, ladies!
tennesse, you could be a University of Illinois Fighting Illini fan. Their colors are orange and blue. :)
Rossella, wow...what a fix you have with your animals. I'm sorry you're so tired. It could be anemia. My mom has it and she eats meat. I'm surprised I don't have it. I take a really good vegetarian vitamin though. It's too expensive but my health is worth it.
Watching the hurricanes can't help you recover your good mood!
I am going to tell you the story of how Alberto saved my life, in 1998. I worked in an office, I had a work which was as frustrating as Pirate's, and when I went home at night I was very tired. I lived alone in the country, my mother was in Rome, she was well, then. One night I put on the burner a pot full of water to cook pasta. When the water boiled, I poured the pasta in the pot. Then I sat on the couch and fell dead asleep. I woke up because I felt a great pain in the arm. I opened my eyes and I saw Alberto's olive green eyes staring at me. He seemed scared. He had stuck his claws in my arm. When I really woke up I saw grey smoke in the house (the pasta had burned/charred and the water of course had vaporised). There was a strong smell of gas. All the other cats and dogs were sound asleep, I think they were already under the effect of the gas. I think Alberto had gone for a walk, and coming back, he understood the danger and woke me up because I had to do something. If he had not been there, i would probably be dead, myself and all the other animals. It was winter and all the windows were closed, so the situation was really dangerous... This is not the only thing Alberto made to protect me, but it is the most striking one!
Rip, Hubby talking about driving down the West coast next year. Wants to see the sun set into the ocean before he dies! We see it rise over the ocean all the time! Have a good dinner with Dad. Good night! Kathy
tennessee, you are so right about stress draining you. I feel pretty much constant stress and I require 9 hours of sleep a night to feel human the next day. Sometimes mental stress is more tiring than physical stress.
I started highlighting my hair in my 20s cause I was getting gray. Finally, many years later a guy I was dating said why don't I just go all blond. I've been blond ever since except for the time I went red at my hubby's request. That didn't last long.
I had no idea that Miz and Rip are sick and feeling low. I'm so sorry ladies. here's hoping you're feeling better very soon.
Rossella: you're feeling tired and blue too? I love the Alberto story. smart cat.
Deef: I love the west Coast tour idea. Truly beautiful.
Almost got a cat today. another lady swooped in and got her. Adopt a cat at the Pet Smart.
They told me about a cat named Meatball. All the Shelter Ladies said: ooohhh... you and Meatball are a perfect match. It's hard to know how to take that when you're standing there in Pet Smart with your maternity top on and you're 59. so it looks like Meatball is around 17 pounds and if he lays around the boat, he'll be actually laying around the boat. The Shelter Ladies said that he likes to lay around on you. It's pretty hot here. A 17 pound furnace laying on your lap will turn your goodies into crab cakes. I might get to meet Meatball next Saturday if we don't head outta here because of weather. Might have to tuck in way inland to get away from the ocean. Earl can/will become a Cat 3 by thursday and will not be that far off the coast. the Atlantic is really warm right now and this is the time for drama.
Cat or hurricane or a Cat 3 hurricane. i would just like to see the kitty and not the cat 3.
deefer, you eat whatever you want. :) We shall not hold it against you. I have no problem with it. I just hate the animal cruelty that exists in this world. But that's all for another thread. ;)
The TOUGHEST part of living on this wonderful thread???
My ass is latey parked in a chair in front of my computer with one or two cats settlled on me ... I am not up & roving like my body wants! Like I used to be before Dad's dosabilities hit home.
I miss movement! Dad was very active! Running miles on trails. With our dogs. Up tp five miles a day! What a guy! He'd stop by my shop, gather my dogs for a run while I worked.
Until age caught up with him, not that long ago.
Has anyone else suffered that kind of loss? When your best friend & animal friends or lover can no longer move? I need to be with him now, help him with food. Help him to bed .... The days of running the trails with dogs weren't very long ago ... I thought... Now is today. I'm not sure how ti handle it all. Dad being disabled, dependent ....
chin up girl. remember the good times and enjoy todays moments. Hang in there and I know how sad it all is. we all do. Your dad is amazing and so are you. Whatta pair!!
Rossella, I know. I don't always get 9 hours and it doesn't give hubby and I much time together. I talked to my doc and we are gonna reduce one of my meds. So, if I don't go crazy, that could be a good thing. We'll see.
Miz-mental stress is much more draining than physical stress.Its hard to sleep soundly with so much on your mind.My daughter likes to listen to spa music to relax her at night while she sleeps.I like highlights,but this is in 2 inch blocks of color-bright color,guess I'M not very adventerous-it'll fade-just weird having folks looking at my head smiling.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
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Rossella, I don't think I could concentrate enough to do both. I have troulblr finishing the dishes in one session!
Rossella, You'll have to teach us your brain splitting technique. It could come in handy, but I can't remember what I was doing 2 minutes ago!!!
deefer, I am a TRUE carnivoire!!! I LOVE meat!!! The redder, the better!!! For beef, that is...Everything else I like well done. Don't eat much pork. Mostly chicken...more affordable.
And deefer, my husband was switching back & forth between Lawrence of Arabia & the Braves game & we both know which one won! I'd rather have watched the movie! Hope you'll enjoy it for both of us!
Rossella, hope that you're feeling better soon! Wish energy were contagious!!! Never thought about lack of energy being because a lack of iron or vit. B...makes sense! Worth a try! Gotta do something! I FINALLY got enough energy this afternoon to vacuum...
tennessee, this might be a good time to start being a Vol's fan! lol Bet you hair looks pretty...you're just not used to it yet. And they're right that it'll tone down as you wash it. I used to color mine, but because of finances I stopped & now am a BIG part gray...wonder why?? Hum...Couldn't be the stress...Nah, that COULDN'T be it! lol
Rip, you'll feel better soon...we're all pulling for you!!!
I've known of dogs eating cat poop before, but thankfully Shelbie hasn't picked up that habit! I had heard that the reason for them doing that is because the cat hadn't digested the food good so there was actually nutrients left in it that the dog was smelling...I still say OOoo gross!!!
I'm TOO tired, ladies, just TOO flipping tired!!! Thank y'all for being there for me & making me laugh...it helps!!!
Love him ... & you.
We all fotunate to be here. Dad & I watched the Katrina Hurricane aftermath last night. Dateline, or another news channel. Not sure
Devastation everywhere ....
Our hearts were in our throats.
Earlier here, I'll be cooking Dad's diner as the sun sets in the west.
Sounds poetic, but happens every night & i love it!
Thank you every one for being here!
I'll have to check the nose job later. Is there a link?
Good night Georgia. Get some rest.
Good night everyone else too! I'm fading fast and still have to change Mom. Same time, same place, tomorrow, ladies!
Rossella, wow...what a fix you have with your animals. I'm sorry you're so tired. It could be anemia. My mom has it and she eats meat. I'm surprised I don't have it. I take a really good vegetarian vitamin though. It's too expensive but my health is worth it.
I am going to tell you the story of how Alberto saved my life, in 1998. I worked in an office, I had a work which was as frustrating as Pirate's, and when I went home at night I was very tired. I lived alone in the country, my mother was in Rome, she was well, then.
One night I put on the burner a pot full of water to cook pasta. When the water boiled, I poured the pasta in the pot. Then I sat on the couch and fell dead asleep. I woke up because I felt a great pain in the arm. I opened my eyes and I saw Alberto's olive green eyes staring at me. He seemed scared. He had stuck his claws in my arm. When I really woke up I saw grey smoke in the house (the pasta had burned/charred and the water of course had vaporised). There was a strong smell of gas. All the other cats and dogs were sound asleep, I think they were already under the effect of the gas. I think Alberto had gone for a walk, and coming back, he understood the danger and woke me up because I had to do something. If he had not been there, i would probably be dead, myself and all the other animals. It was winter and all the windows were closed, so the situation was really dangerous...
This is not the only thing Alberto made to protect me, but it is the most striking one!
Have a good dinner with Dad.
Good night!
Kathy
I had no idea that Miz and Rip are sick and feeling low. I'm so sorry ladies. here's hoping you're feeling better very soon.
Rossella: you're feeling tired and blue too?
I love the Alberto story. smart cat.
Deef: I love the west Coast tour idea. Truly beautiful.
Almost got a cat today. another lady swooped in and got her. Adopt a cat at the Pet Smart.
They told me about a cat named Meatball. All the Shelter Ladies said: ooohhh... you and Meatball are a perfect match.
It's hard to know how to take that when you're standing there in Pet Smart with your maternity top on and you're 59.
so it looks like Meatball is around 17 pounds and if he lays around the boat, he'll be actually laying around the boat.
The Shelter Ladies said that he likes to lay around on you. It's pretty hot here. A 17 pound furnace laying on your lap will turn your goodies into crab cakes.
I might get to meet Meatball next Saturday if we don't head outta here because of weather. Might have to tuck in way inland to get away from the ocean.
Earl can/will become a Cat 3 by thursday and will not be that far off the coast. the Atlantic is really warm right now and this is the time for drama.
Cat or hurricane or a Cat 3 hurricane. i would just like to see the kitty and not the cat 3.
love you ladies!
lovbob
I am just tired, not blue. People here suggested me to take iron. I shall do it and see what happens!
My ass is latey parked in a chair in front of my computer with one or two cats settlled on me ...
I am not up & roving like my body wants! Like I used to be before Dad's dosabilities hit home.
I miss movement! Dad was very active! Running miles on trails. With our dogs. Up tp five miles a day! What a guy! He'd stop by my shop, gather my dogs for a run while I worked.
Until age caught up with him, not that long ago.
Has anyone else suffered that kind of loss? When your best friend & animal friends or lover can no longer move?
I need to be with him now, help him with food.
Help him to bed ....
The days of running the trails with dogs weren't very long ago ...
I thought...
Now is today. I'm not sure how ti handle it all.
Dad being disabled, dependent ....
Thanks to all of you!
glad you're not blue.
yes an Able SeaCat. Maybe Meatball!
I tried Iron and got plugged up.
lovbob
chin up girl. remember the good times and enjoy todays moments.
Hang in there and I know how sad it all is. we all do.
Your dad is amazing and so are you. Whatta pair!!
lovbob