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A few years ago when my aunt came to visit, we went to a nice restaurant for dinner. She picked up the meat with both hands, bit into it and started chewing, holding it in one hand while she began eating other things on her plate. I asked her what was wrong with her fork to call her attention to what she was doing. She told me very emphatically that it was okay for her to eat however she wanted (as the drippings ran down her hand and arm). I was so disgusted with her I just wanted to get the heck out of there! BTW sometimes she eats and smokes at the same time too. LOL! How 'bout THAT?!
Tennessee.. so sorry for the loss of your good doggie. I had a German Shepard once as well her name was Cindy. She got cancer...that was around when I was 16...I let my parents make the decision of putting her down...I still have her dog collar in my closet...and a wonderful picture of her and me. My last doggie was like my child since she was all mine....my girl Jackie...I lost her to bone cancer 4 years ago...I still cry uncontrollably when thinking of her...my dogs were always my best friends! When I think of how many dogs are out there in the pounds with only days to live..it breaks my heart....I wish I could give all a good home..in fact any homeless animals no matter what they are.
here is a little something from the cute show on this website
Grandpa will go back to Adult Day Health Tuesday. They called and asked this morning...no he is better will be back....Ramp starts Monday got OK from city about gas lines and sewer electric... Listening to 80's music pretending this is all long gone....
Tenny and lil Tenny, I am so sorry for your loss. Our pets are our family and we grieve for them just as much as the humans in our life. Lil Tenny, you are a smart & lucky girl. Your mom is an excellent roll model and you fo make a great duo. As you grown older, you will truly appreciate your mothers strength.
He is quiet and does what he is told with strangers. Like grandma, it is only family who get/got to see the stubborn less than good parts of them. i am forever hearing how kind and good they both were. and from that perspective, they were....
It's so true!!! I just ran upstairs to check on SIr ... told him I am online talikng to my famiy in Georgia, South Carolina & Michigan .. now Italy! He is impressed ... & happy for us! my DNA family might visit tomorrow ...
I feel so bad for my dad today. He has had the same caregiver coming on Friday afternoon for 4 months and I got a message today that she will no longer be able to come, starting today. My dad had grown very fond of her so it's like he's lost yet another friend. I'm so disappointed in her. It's bad enough my family does this to him but now strangers that he has befriended? How is all of this fair?!? And he's had a bad week besides - lots of pain, not feeling well. Sometimes I feel so bad for him, I just want to cry.
Good morning everyone. A very good morning it is with completing a mess of my mom and step-dad's tax returns that were not filed until I discovered that fact in early 2009. From then until yesterday, 2004-2008 have been completed by a new CPA after I fired the so called 'friend of the family' who was semi-retired. We had an extension for 2009 and so are only about a month behind. Getting my step-siblings help with this has been both good and agonizing at times.
Crowe I am so glad you are making progress hope your Mom and siblings appreciate all you are doing to get it straighted out-probably not but you should be proud of yourself for doing it and saving them problems down the road maybe someday they will realize what you have done for them but you know your friends here are so proud of you for caring and getting it done and I would personally let them know that you did all the work to make it possible-you deserve all the credit-you are a good man.
My mom is glad all of this is over and that I took care of it without complaining. Yeah, I didn't complain around her for it would have done no good.
My step-dad is so declined that all he is aware of is another year of taxes is now signed. He used to comment about keeping him from being taken to jail by an IRS agent on each side, but now it's how much do we owe and where do I sign?
I've had so many things diverting my attention and energy lately, I completely forgot that I'd been planning for the CPA, his associate and I to go out and celebrate. I'd even lost the bottle that I had stored in the refrigerator for this celebration as well. Oh well, maybe I'll remember to have a big celebration when we get 2009 sent in soon, I hope!
Thank ya'll for your support and affirmation while I've been dealing with this.
Rosella it was her bill not yours tell them you are not responsible and do not give in our elders do not pay their bills it should not be up to use to make it right -tell them to take her to court-their lawyers will not want her to be on the stand and they will probably let it go-we do not need to be responsible for our parent's bills -now a spouse they come after -my husband left me with debts whixh will take me another six years to pay off -it is either that or bankrupsey-then I will never be able to get credit-I am so angery -he had mental illness where he had to buy things to make him fell better for a short time-now I am stuck-I wish I had known this I would have had my own credit cards and he his and I would not be in this mess-I tell my friends to get their own and not to let the husbands get a second card in their name-and we hired a elder lawyer who never told us this fact-he should have-he said he was very experienced and we paid him big money to advise us and he let us down.
Really? I have to take information. But, as in Italy everything is connected, I am afraid that the government at a due moment takes the money away from her retirement pension (it already happened)
Looks like it's been a quiet day on the thread. I hope everyone is well.
Mom is happy sitting on the porch waiting for the trick-or-treaters. She even ate her dinner out there saying "she didn't want to miss anything".
I am feeling rather frustrated with my siblings. I am struggling to work a 40 hour work week and care for mom. I asked my sister and brother what they though if I were to cut down my hours. My brother says don't cut hours because future employers will look down upon it. My sister just says "can you afford it". It would be nice if they could recognize all that I do for mom and help with more. I guess that is just wishful thinking. I know I can't be the only one out there killing themselves trying to care for a parent and work. I'm soon not going to have a choice because my boss is about ready to can me anyway.
Bobbie, I haven't heard from you for awhile. Where are you now that you had to move? Are you still in St. Augustine?
I have on a truly hideous polyester gown from the seventies here, fluff on the sleeves...I added a witches hat a stethoscope an name tag and am yes...a Witch Doctor. I carved my pumpkin with a face that can only be described as malevolent...and it suits. I was all excited getting dressed up and putting candy in a bowl for the kids for later...my mom comes in and says no less than five snotty rude things at me from the moment I, well got in the shower to coming on line just now..." wheres the meat for the meat loaf?" Yes I accidentally put it in the freezer from fridge as it was waiting to be separated and froze since Saturday Afternoon. "are you scaring the pets?" yes " these are still damp" huff..her bras after I haul them and all her laundry upstairs for her..."That blue blanket was wet in some places, not even damp but WET!" "is the CAT outside!?" no.... God this woman is trying to kill me. Good thing my costume includes a mask....I am not sure I can even smile now...
Sorry you're having a rough evening too. It ticks me off that people feel they have a right to walk over you. You have a good time being a wicth doctor and tell the rest "bite me".
Ditto from Rip, Jen! I'd love to see a photo of you tonight. I'm sad you're not appreciated ...
For what it's worth I took the little dogs to the dog park b/c Dad insisted. They had so much attention! Rockette in her Leopard jacket & Foxy Pom in her Tiger coat. & silly me forgot the camera. There was the largest black Mastiff ever sniffing at the little TigerFox. She grrrred & the BIG guy jumped backwards 5 ft! Everyone howled which started her strutting around with her little attitude. Foxy is very fierce! I think her previous owners may have had livestock since she loves large animals. Is very adept at winding thru their hooves. (hoofs? Rossella ... however do you translate this mysterious language? Words with triple meanings & then the plural rules, etc. I used to be better at it )
Hello from newbie! This is not a "gross out" just a little something that happened that struck me funny. Mom never goes anywhere without kleenex box. We took her to doctor last week - a story in itself. On the way over I was holding her hand and talking to try to calm her, then noticed she was trying to stuff my hand into the Kleenex box on her lap. Guess I must look like a big Kleenex! Oh well... We made it there and back, the 4 of us survived (me, Mom, hubby and sitter) and hopefully won't need to make that trip again for a while.
Welcome to the thread, mmc333. Yes, those trips can be tiring and trying. Our loved ones do odd things sometimes and it's usually best to just laugh. :)
Good Morning, My Fellow Wonderful Caregivers. Not much to report here except I figured out I was checking Mom's blood sugar level incorrectly with the new test strips. Seems your not supposed to use both sides of the test strip to gather the blood. I found this out while testing the meter. Oops. It's really a relief but I feel bad creating all the drama. Live and learn I guess. Off to work later today. We went to the Illinois basketball game Friday night and I was tired all weekend and didn't get jack done. I sooooo need a vacation. Don't see one coming in the near or far future. Right now my "vacation" is going to work sometimes. Sometimes because some days are very stressful and a little upsetting there and some are not too bad.
I am getting very discouraged I joined a famous date online thought there would be a least one other lonely person out there for me. We do not get trick or treaters anymore our road is not safe to walk on; Most of our leaves are down but it was a pretty fall and many warm days-had the wood stove going last night it felt good my cat loved it-take care all you angels-have made a lot of things for our craft fair to make money for supplies for the classes and making more lap robes to donate and reading a lot-need to get cleaning today.
Afew years ago when my husband was alive he gave my cat treats to win his over one day I told my cat he was getting fat so later I found him laying on the treadmilllI told him it only works if it is turned on.
195Austin- I'm caring for my husband and I'd like to know how you handled the bad tempers. He is so angry because he can not drive anymore - he blames me. He gets so confused and then there are times when he's clear as a bell
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
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APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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here is a little something from the cute show on this website
http://www.vbs.tv/watch/the-cute-show/special-needs-pets
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Listening to 80's music pretending this is all long gone....
I am so sorry for your loss. Our pets are our family and we grieve for them just as much as the humans in our life. Lil Tenny, you are a smart & lucky girl. Your mom is an excellent roll model and you fo make a great duo. As you grown older, you will truly appreciate your mothers strength.
Take care,
Diane
I just ran upstairs to check on SIr ... told him I am online talikng to my famiy in Georgia, South Carolina & Michigan .. now Italy!
He is impressed ... & happy for us!
my DNA family might visit tomorrow ...
Semper Fi Pamela!!!!!!!! Hooooraaaa!!!!
My step-dad is so declined that all he is aware of is another year of taxes is now signed. He used to comment about keeping him from being taken to jail by an IRS agent on each side, but now it's how much do we owe and where do I sign?
I've had so many things diverting my attention and energy lately, I completely forgot that I'd been planning for the CPA, his associate and I to go out and celebrate. I'd even lost the bottle that I had stored in the refrigerator for this celebration as well. Oh well, maybe I'll remember to have a big celebration when we get 2009 sent in soon, I hope!
Thank ya'll for your support and affirmation while I've been dealing with this.
I wanna die
Looks like it's been a quiet day on the thread. I hope everyone is well.
Mom is happy sitting on the porch waiting for the trick-or-treaters. She even ate her dinner out there saying "she didn't want to miss anything".
I am feeling rather frustrated with my siblings. I am struggling to work a 40 hour work week and care for mom. I asked my sister and brother what they though if I were to cut down my hours. My brother says don't cut hours because future employers will look down upon it. My sister just says "can you afford it". It would be nice if they could recognize all that I do for mom and help with more. I guess that is just wishful thinking. I know I can't be the only one out there killing themselves trying to care for a parent and work. I'm soon not going to have a choice because my boss is about ready to can me anyway.
Bobbie, I haven't heard from you for awhile. Where are you now that you had to move? Are you still in St. Augustine?
Take care my dear friends and Happy Halloween.
Diane
God this woman is trying to kill me. Good thing my costume includes a mask....I am not sure I can even smile now...
For what it's worth I took the little dogs to the dog park b/c Dad insisted. They had so much attention! Rockette in her Leopard jacket & Foxy Pom in her Tiger coat. & silly me forgot the camera.
There was the largest black Mastiff ever sniffing at the little TigerFox. She grrrred & the BIG guy jumped backwards 5 ft! Everyone howled which started her strutting around with her little attitude. Foxy is very fierce! I think her previous owners may have had livestock since she loves large animals. Is very adept at winding thru their hooves. (hoofs? Rossella ... however do you translate this mysterious language? Words with triple meanings & then the plural rules, etc. I used to be better at it )
Happy Halloween all!
I'll post their jacket photos on FB soon.
This is not a "gross out" just a little something that happened that struck me funny. Mom never goes anywhere without kleenex box. We took her to doctor last week - a story in itself. On the way over I was holding her hand and talking to try to calm her, then noticed she was trying to stuff my hand into the Kleenex box on her lap. Guess I must look like a big Kleenex! Oh well...
We made it there and back, the 4 of us survived (me, Mom, hubby and sitter) and hopefully won't need to make that trip again for a while.
love,
miz
bobbie, please check in. You know how I worry. :)
love,
miz