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I'm behind you, saying, "Yeah!" Thanks for welcoming me. We need all the help we can get. I did post a hug on AJ's wall, only because I thought she could use a tiny bit of a loving reprimand. You can read it and decide if you still want to keep me. Yes, I like boats--I am 20 minutes from the ocean in the OC, but I've never learned to sail. Lived here since '76, except for a small stint in Seattle, where my uncle lived-- Captain of a research ship with the MM. You all can say whatever to me, anytime. I'm tough, fair, and usually think before I reply--unless I'm absolutely positive I am "el correcto". Hugs to ALL! christina
Maxine here do not mess with our Bobbi or any of the other saints that are doing the best you can if you are not or have not been a caregiver keep you lofty ideas to yourself you may have the degrees after you name but we are in the treanchs and other stuff day in and day out we have each others back and an apolige is always eccepted what we do you do not learn in college classes.
ea thanks to ya and i am terrabl with names so if i get messed up just go wit the comment and i am glad i can say what ever is on my mind and yea i could sit here and wait for the next commentbut i would not get anything done and all those people that get to go somewhere else and leave the caregiving to us 24/7/365 rally have no clue the stuff we do they get to do other stuff they get to talk to other people let me stop befor i cry by for now cant see
You know, I've been tossing the idea around for a while of spending some of my time in front of this computer by getting a Human Services degree online from the NC University system and focusing on Caregiver Advocacy and support. I think the last few hours on this thread have made up my mind for me. If I can get the grants and scholarships and whatever to pay for it, I'm gonna go for it. I'll start lining things up this week for the next available semester. I just think that if ANYone should be doing that stuff, it should be someone with life-experience as well as education. Wish me luck?
Guys, I'm so proud of you all. I know you don't need me to remind you, but let's continue helping Marissa as much as we can. Georgia you really did a good job. I think I understood Bobbie has contacted one of the people responsible for this site? I have advised Marissa to leave her country and go to another one, where there is a kind of assistance. Maybe it is drastic... Maybe it's the only solution. I love you all. You are great and strong people.
p.s. I am so worried about her because I empathize - I know that in another ten years I would probably say and think the same things she says and thinks now. Shame on me!
Ted, I like your idea very much, but please stop changing the image of your profile. You make my head turn turn turn. My brain can contain just 2000 bit of information and you occupy 1800 of them (when I have to think: Who is this pig, now?) BTW I love real pigs. They are intelligent animals and they can become like pets. Ask George Clooney. In the other house where I lived there was a female pig named Gina whom I loved dearly and she had become the leader of my dogs pack. I took her to walk every night when my landlord slept. My dogs followed her! It is a shame (again) I did not take pictures of that incredible sight
Good Noon Time to all. I have missed all my family on here, and thought during this difficult time as I sit with dad I can connect with all of you. Being a caregiver is not easy task for sure, I cant tell you how many times the frustration got to me and i would just vent to my daughter mostly, let me tell you some of the things i had been thinking were not so nice. All in all i am glad that i am here and have been here for dad, but let me tell ya, during the weekly er visits and 2-4 hrs of sleep a night, i was not feeling so merry and thankful to be a caregiver. Unless someone totally walks in our shoes they can never understand!!!! I thank god that bobbie founded this site/blog it has been a major lifesaver for me. Although dad is passing, i will be continuing to care for mom. So this site is my life line in so many ways. SO THANK YOU ALL MY CARGIVER FAMILY, EACH AND EVERYONE ON HERE IS AN ANGEL, AND believe me even angels have bad days.
Thanks Rosesella, Hugs and Kisses can certainly makes things a bit brighter for sure. I am thinking later today, i may put some holiday decorations up, still not sure yet. Maybe good therapy, i have a table top tree i am going to put in dads room, for him. He always loved christmas and hopefull it will brighten his path to the next level Mom is having such a hard time, she makes me crazy lol, but then again when doesnt she lol lol... I love her dearly.
Just checked on dad, he is the same. The nurse was here last night put the oxygen on to help with his breathing. If this was 2 months ago, he would be pulling the nasal canual out of his nose and screaming at mom and I telling us we are just stupid lol lol.
My mom hated the oxygen mask in the hospital. She kept taking it off. They even put some balls in some of those socks they give you to wear at hospitals and stuck them on her hands. She still managed to easily get the mask off. Made her kinda look like a boxer. :) Finally they gave up and put her on the nasal thingie. She didn't like that either but mostly kept it in there. The bad thing was that she was breathing through her mouth a lot so the oxygen was not helping. Poor Mama. All of that irritation for nothing. But I know they had to try everything and I am very glad they did.
We have the music on 24/7 in his room, and census confirms, decorations it is. I just feel so filled with emotions, and all of you have made my day that started out sad and just irritating if you will, much brighter for sure. Thanks. Mom just went to the market, ahhhh peace lol lol lol...... they have been married 55 years, imagine such a thing. For the past 7 months mom and I have been like a married couple while taking care of dad, every so often we get into these arguments, and of course within an hour, we were fine. Dad would say, oh you and mom are not divorcing thats good.... lol lol
Thought maybe we could all use a light-hearted banter -----probably not the best place to post but maybe it will give someone a chuckle.................................................... With time,women gain weight because we accumulate so much information and wisdom in our heads that when there is no more room, it distributes out to the rest of our bodies. So we aren't heavier, we are enormously cultured, educated, and happy. Beginning today, when I look at my butt in the mirror I will think, “Good grief, look how smart I am!”
And that folks is where the term "Smart Ass" comes from .......:)
I wish it were easier to track these posts. Looks like 6,500 will happen today ~ sometimes I'd like to reread one & find it so slow back paging. Any ideas?
i would suggest we put a moratorium on new post for a day so that we can all go back and reread from the start, but I for one would nuts without my regular fix of you guys.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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and all those people that get to go somewhere else and leave the caregiving to us 24/7/365 rally have no clue the stuff we do they get to do other stuff they get to talk to other people
let me stop befor i cry by for now cant see
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I love you all. You are great and strong people.
love,
miz
BTW I love real pigs. They are intelligent animals and they can become like pets. Ask George Clooney.
In the other house where I lived there was a female pig named Gina whom I loved dearly and she had become the leader of my dogs pack. I took her to walk every night when my landlord slept. My dogs followed her! It is a shame (again) I did not take pictures of that incredible sight
love,
miz
information and wisdom in our heads that when there is no more room, it distributes out to the rest of our bodies. So we aren't heavier, we are enormously cultured, educated, and happy.
Beginning today, when I look at my butt in the mirror I
will think,
“Good
grief, look how smart I am!”
And that folks is where the term "Smart Ass" comes from .......:)
Any ideas?
Deef & Jen .. where are you??
Frustrating with a day like yesterday ...
Kitties on the keyboard don't always help Purrrrr Purrrr .......