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Hi everyone, Hope everyone is well.... Had to take my daughter to vascular specialist today. She has to have a bunch of tests, reaL bad circulation. Oh yeah, something else for me to worry about lol lol trying to find my humor again..... dad is the same. Mom and I take our turns staying in his room. The dog, ( toy poodle) has been a beast today. Barking at everything, he has never ever been like this at all. I think he knows that papa will be leaving us soon. Papa loves this dog..... He has been angel, only had him 4 or 5 yrs now, came to us just for a visit until we could find a home, and did he find a home with mom dad and I for sure... He is the prince....... He lays with papa at times, and then he goes into his doggie depression poor baby, he is our baby. Mom is handling things, so not easy for her. Glad we have had no more company, people were in and out for days, gave me migraines on top of everything else, but it has been nice to have this time alone just us........ again all of you have been so wonderful and I appreciate everyone of you. hopefully be back later.... hugs and love to all
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Hey Angle,
good to see you and we love you.
hug your mom for us and kiss your dad.
lovbob
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Bobbie, I think I've aged 10 years since that pic. Happier times...
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I dunno... you still look like a little kitten to me!

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This is the kitty in the window. :)
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LOL bobbie!!
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Please don't look too close. The window is dirty.
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The pub with a fireplace sounds good.
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Hey Miz hope you are doing better...stress makes it easier to get sick and feel run down so I hope things even out for you there...

Mom got home and I don't know, said like, ten nasty negative things Before she was even in the kitchen ...and none of it about the roads.."Whats that smell? the cat s leash smells like cat piss, it is awful we (YOU) have to do something about it why is the dog just laying on the floor? what is the matter with him? he is just laying here... Is grandpa home yet..well that's a n,o so that was a positive thing I think...:) on and on...what are you watching? I had on the Tim Burton Alice In WOnderland...she hated it, too bad its almost over at five get over it I swear, fart pants gets home she freaks you take the dog, don't spray that stuff till after Grandpa gets inside I mean what the hell is her problem?...He stinks up the crapper comes out and finds the Alice movie alarming, maybe if I watch " The Rocky Horror Picture Show" he'd have a heart attack and die!? Everything can't be little house on the prairie you jack ass~! Ah snippy is catchy now i have it..but i will just take it to the basement and deal with it...It isn't like I can go out and snip at her...beh...
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Ugh, J. That really sucks. I don't know how you handle it sometimes. Thank God we all can vent on here.
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All I do it vent. I have turned into one of those people who seem to never have anything nice to say and I don't know i could shut up but that is what I do here It has to go out somewhere...
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J, that must be a challenge, three generations together. Good thing you have the basement to get away!
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And J, that is fine. And you do have nice things to say. You give me lots of encouragement. Go on and vent, girl!!
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vent vent vent, blow, curse, blather blather beh beh beh, grumble grumble...pee on the floor..grumble grumble, grouse grouse, whine, snipe snipe moan moan....
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Now you're starting to sound like me.
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If I ever have a relationship, I am gonna be the whiny complaining one I know it...It must almost be genetic!
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I guess everyone, well most everyone has trouble and here they are compounded seasonally and by the very lives we are "living" now...

I try and tell myself it could be worse. there are people trapped in abusive homes, children in wars, people dying in pain and alone, it could be worse but this is pretty bad for me just now...And no end in sight....
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I'd like to vent about something but I am having a rum and coke and am amused by the Saturday Night Live Christmas special, so just be glad you're not here. I'm dancing around the living room, too.
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I want to dance around the room with rum and coke too...
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slept for an hr , woke up hearin pa moan and groan , he wasnt comfertable , got up and set him up right in the chair , he was sliding down ,
wow everybody s got new pictures ! bobbie i love ur boat ! about time u got a picture on there , maybe soon u ll pur ur face on it ?
jsomebody . sorry u have a grumpy mom , just smile at her and give her a hug , maybe that is what she needs , talk to her like she s ur best friend ? everybody needs a hug and it does makes a big diffrents . melts ur heart a bit . soften up ur tone a bit too ,
miz i see ur tom hank ! lala
hubby s gone to bed , i had a honey do list for him , went under the house and found a furnace vent down and blowing all the warm air down there , what a waste , 309.00 electri bill this month , had him to jack the house up a bit too well it got rusted wouldnt move , he had to tear it apart and fix it losin it up etc blah blah , lit upset with me cuz i gave him something to do , at least it was 35 degree here and i didnt wait till it was zero . maybe tmr ill have him climb on top of the house and clean out the chimeny pipe :-) xoxo
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Everyone I have come in contact with lately has mentioned,: are you getting out enough? Do you get a break? My Uncle said it, the visiting nurse, the neighbors. I feel like saying, If you fork over the $$ to pay a "grannysittter" I'll gladly take a break.!
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Yea, they can all be so concerned about us, but somehow the concern only goes as far far as telling us that they're concerned, Funny thing, that.
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I know this makes no sense-meant to send this to my daughter--dah
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The visiting nurse probably documents " counseled the "patient" to get out more " and then charege medicare $$$ for the "visit".
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I'm drinking rum and coke.....but no dancing...:)
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Good Morning Everybody!

Sweet Angie, I understand where you're at right now. My Dad passed 6 years ago & I couldn't leave his side, either! My heart is there with you! You are such a strong lady & I know that your Dad & Mom are both proud of you! You area such a loving & caring daughter!

You guys got me inspired to change my profile photo, too. Bobbie, love the boat pic! SO glad that you've made a positive 'Cuz Connection'! I know Karate...and a few other Asian words...want me to come kick some old man booty for you?!?! Some people don't have a blessed clue!!! Glad that you chunked him off of the boat! That's your safe haven!

Miz, hope you & hubby will feel better & will be able to go on your trip! I'm gonna think positive that you'll get to go so I'm gonna say, 'Be careful'!

J, you go ahead & ven all you want to! That's what we're here for! We support each other!

Jam, I'm glad that your hubby is understanding his Mom better & what you're going through. You are so kind & compassionate to tell him that you'll be there for her! Hope he knows what a gem he has in you! Glad that he's gonna retire next year & hope you'll enjoy each other more everyday!

To all of my 'grossed out' family...hope you're all already asleep & finding sweet dreams to be your companions tonight! Think I'll snooze for a while...
Q: What did the mama bird say to the baby bird when she was tucking the baby bird into bed.

A: Tweet tight
Peach : )
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I have worked most of the night and I am reading your posts all together now.
I see you have messed up a lot with photos! It'll take a week before i "learn" the new ones. Bobbie, it that is your boat, I see I will have a lot of brass to polish. Congratulations, BTW
J, forgive me, your mother is already starting to give you trouble? If I were you I would tell her "Calm down, otherwise I go to the basement and see you tomorrow.. You stay with your father". I think you have to make clear - right away - that she will not be the only one to make decisions at home.
Angie.... I know it seems strange. Seems that people sometimes choose the day of their death.
My father was a very organized person., He died on 5/9/95 and he died some minutes before 10 a.m, I could bet he died at 9.55
My uncle (his brother) who liked to joke and was a very nice and witty person, choose to die on April 1st, which in Italy is the day where you do pranks to other people.
And I could give you other strange examples.
I have not decided yet which will be mine; but it must be in summer and absolutely at noon.
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Only 40 posts to the 7000.... It will happen today. Who will be the lucky one?
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Loving all the new icons! Bobbie that boat of yours looks awesome, Now i know what to look for coming down the creek.
Not to shock all of you or anything, but i had a bad couple of days and as we get closer to the holidays, always a depressing time in my so-called family, it'll probably get worse so ignore me if I go silent.
anybody ever hear of a book called "the Giver"? someone suggested it to me.
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Well it looks like we will be going to St. Louis. Hubby feels much better. So, our plane takes off at 12:45 pm Central Time. It will take about an hour to get there. Then we go to the hotel and then the game is 8:00 pm. It will be on ESPN2. We will be sitting WAY up high. Doubt you could see us on TV but you never know. I'm gonna feel bad leaving the kitties alone for overnight. They are not used to that. Just gotta leave clean litter boxes for them and plenty of food and water and pray they don't get into mischief. I'll be taking extra anxiety meds to fly. It's a smallish plane. Kinda can't believe we are going. Lots to do this morning. Thank goodness I got all the Christmas presents wrapped to take to hubby's parents on Friday. Angie, we're there with you. I know how difficult it can be. Feel our hugs and feel us in your heart.

love,
miz
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