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Feelin' so guilty cause I didn't stay up with Mom that last night. I slept in the recliner beside her bed. I don't know why I didn't. God, this sucks.
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Miz, your mom would not want you to beat yourself up.We all have something we wish we had done different,I wish I had gotten my dad back to his own bed in his own house with his dog by his side,he died in a hospital bed at the hospital.he died right when they came to transport him home.I would do anything to change that.Your mom couldn't have asked for a better daughter.
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Miz ~
Listen to Tenny. PLEASE Don't beat yourself up! We ALL have things we wish we'd done differently.
I bet our parents do too.

Had fun flashing my Bite Me shirt at Costco. I tell you, we need to start production on a few things. One of the sampling guys offered to buy mine right there b/c the customers were so crazy today!
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BIG EXHALE ~

Rossella's new computer is up & running! She is presently in 2011!

Expect her wisdom soon ...
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Yay!! So glad that Rossella will be back on and she is okay!! One of my best friends called awhile ago when I was crying and she helped me with the guilt too. Thanks so much, Tenny & Rip. Love yous!! Hubby is asleep already. We went out to lunch at a new place here, to the pharmacy and the mall and then grocery shopping today. Guess he's worn out. I'm tired too.

Happy New Year Everyone!!

love,
miz
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Will you be waking him or the changing of the year, Miz?
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LOL no, rip. I'll let him sleep. I'm sure I'll be asleep too.
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you know, Miz ... if you keep kicking yourself Linda is going to show up with a big pair of boots ...
keep your emotions going straight.

YOU did everything right!
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I paged back all the way to when Mom went into the hospital yesterday and I was going to read the posts today but I think that's probably not a good idea. Too fragile right now. But I will do it soon.

love,
miz
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I am bored and tired. I got a piece of carrot cake in there calling my name but don't know if I should eat it.
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Eating the small piece and it's darn good too. :))
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You're right, Miz.
It can wait.

A good thing (?) that came about during your distress - was the "Bite Me" mantra. When Bobbie wrote those 4 words at such a tense time - it was simply appropriate.

I think the iceberg broke & we all ended up laughing & crying at the same time.

I still shake my head & laugh ...
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That's a very good thing, rip. :))
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Are we the only ones hanging out here, rip?
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I have 185 hits here man that is much too much, gotta go back and read em...plenty of time...just got back from 7 11 buying my lotto ticket, only after we went up to Walgreens to get fart pants prescription otherwise we wouldn't have. Mom is freaking about the snow, freaking about the ice, freaking about dinner, my GOD does everything have to be a God Damn Ordeal?! I opened the chili imperfectly and she was afraid I didn't add water to it for DDDDAAAADDDDDEEEEEE I already DID that and if he wants it watered down more he can water HIS OWN! Least he is staying in his room...after telling her to come inside two nights in a row and her response he is just staying in his hole, Fine by me, be nice to see the TV once a week...

I am gonna go back and read here, Hope all are well hope you all have a Happy and Safe New Years Eve!!!
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hey Miz ....
I was going to send out an APB about J but here she is!
Funny how we become accustom to the regulars ...
She'll have lots to read!

Was checking FB too ...
Are you sleeping these days?
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Yes, rip. I'm sleeping okay. I was waking up at like 5 am and not going back to sleep but I've been staying up a bit later and sleeping in some. I still don't feel rested though. I was just thinking now I understand why people drink to forget. Forget the bad stuff and regrets. I don't wanna go down that road though. I quit in 1986.
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Rested??? What's that?
I was awake all night for days when the cath bag was either not filling or full of blood. Slept some last night ...

When Mom was diagnosed I didn't sleep or weeks.

Moving right along ....
wish we were closer or maybe on the Barbara B!

Need to fix Sir some dinner ....
wonder what the rest of the crew is up to?
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K rip. I'm glad you got some sleep last night. I wish we were closer too. The Barbara B would be the greatest!!
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Hey guys,nothing going on here,waiting for the bad weather to hit-kids watching love boat.
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She likes the old shows better than the new ones.
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tennessee, how bad is it supposed to get?
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howdy ! somebody mention my name about big boots ? mmm miz watch out ! i just came in with muddy boots ! dont want no muddy butt ?
came in earlier ah pa crap his pants , got em him all ceaned up he was feelin bad i said ah no i tracked in mud ill getthose cleaned up too , now miz wants a muddy butt mmm i guess i ll clean that up too , :-)
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LOL Linda. :)
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Aren't we a group of partiers. ;) I gave that up years ago. Don't miss the hangovers one bit. I wish hubby was awake though. Too much time to think.
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We like old shows too, Lil T! Old shows Rock!
Right now the rerun of Raymond's family in Italy is on.
Rossella knows it, Sir was in Italy during the war. I don't think of war ....
Baby Boomer stuff ....

Are you away from the tornado zone? Watching the news is scary!!!
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Hope I wasn't inappropriate Linda ....
Figured you had some Kick Ass in ya.

Miz is so sweet
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Still checkin old posts here...up to donkeys and snapping turtles. I wouldn't shoot em either till she mentioned they may hurt her pups. I would stab something that came after my little Pug and cat I would!

Here is the definition of insanity...No not an Irishman driving across Texas..."What d'ya mean were not there yet Boyo we've been driving fer hours!" No my kind of insanity...

Mom is making dinner......If I help, she is pissed I don't do it exactly her way, if I don't help she is pissed I leave it all on her...! At least I see it, I have had therapy and read a lot of psychology books...I see crazy making head on now...
beh...chili soup what ever!
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ah ben slurpin bud ice , whoa them things kicked ass , we had bonfir egoing too , it was nice then hubby said hes hungry so came in and made some chicken stir fry for him while i warmed up left over ham n beans , now ate and full belly and hubbys gonna be zleepin and im bright eye ready to party more ! but who waaaaaa, my fellow crew s ! think i ll have coffee in a bit mm :-)
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Jen ....
Glad you're back ...!
keep reading
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