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I am still on "Freedom Wand Toilet Tissue Aid"..it looks useful and compact just the wording sounds almost musical...
Send you some thawing Deef but slowly you do not want three feet of snow melting all at once!
He is in there moaning along to music now turn on youtube mom is making dinner dropping stuff snapping at the dog, last night I made dinner lasagna and carrot cake she said snotty things, I just did dishes and left. If i don't help she is huffy and incensed I "leave it all to her...if I do help she is pissed i don't do it right or perfect...yes she is post menopausal ( answer to a question way back). I call it crazy making...That's what it is, and SHE was a social worker...
I was feeling very tired and not good today. So took about a 2 hour nap with hubby and now I feel very tired, woozy and not very good. I guess it will be an early night for me.
I don't post many photos of Erika (my youngest dog) because she is shy and she does not want me to take pictures of her! Camilla instead is a real diva and as soon as she sees the camera, she is there!!!! Unbelievable but true
Thanks, Christina. I hope I have inherited something from my father! Not everything, of course! It's the long debated dilemma if genetics are more influent on a person's life than experience... Most probably they interact around 50-50!
Hehe I lived in Kirkland when I was 3 to 6....before my parents divorced and we came east and He stayed in Seattle.
Got out just now and walked to 7 11 played my last three bucks on Powerball...
Was nice walk was really careful avoided all ice, if only I could avoid uptight men in cars, who think any fat woman they see in public must be from Americas Biggest Loser and there fore want "helpful commentary" bite me ass wad!
Come home, have to ring door bell, he comes out of his hole like what A you are the man of the house? BS you are in the words of Zora Neal Hurston "That ole pee d bed." or like it is for him...not unless it is the funeral home...go away, back in hole turns back on My Little Grass Shack...yes here's to you finding your way to your little grass shack in the sky old man ASAP or sooner!
thanks for the reply, Rossella! I am happy when people can improve, but by being the daughter of a protective Father --like my daughter!--shows one has INHERITED CHARACTER, and one waits for it to kick in. haha Peach--no matter what you do or say, people LOVE YOU! isn't that awesome?! Were you nasty? heehee Well, I'm going for a walk, then seeing my kids and to bed early. Still can't sleep on my nights off, and my Mother slept all last night!! Who needs a caregiver!?
Christina, I agree with you in principle... But I hope it's not completely true! If our experiences in life did not change us, it wouldn't be worth living! I was a lazy spoiled useless daughter of a very strong and protective father. Hard life changed me a lot and I assure you I am no more lazy, no more spoiled (and maybe still a little bit useless!!!!!!!!!!!!!) Georgia, what did you say? I didn't notice anything traumatic. Please keep posting your jokes!!!!!!!!
Christina! What brought you here? I'm a native & the times of constant rain still drives me crazy. What's really sad is I remember when the land was wilderness rather than parking lots. Kirkland was a tiny town across the lake. A long drive ... the weather can be a real hit or miss. Rarely predictible.
My friends in San Diego came for Christmas a couple years ago when we had 2' of snow. The neighbohood was pretty much snowed in. Holiday - no plows. They loved it!!! But they could hop the plane & go home.
Hey Rip--when we moved to Kirkland in 92 I remember the sign in the PO that said, "No Weather Whining". I didn't understand, having lived the first 40 years of my life in SoCAL, until I lived through the first year--winter, spring, 1 month of summer, freezing fall, then over again. I did enjoy the long, lavender sky nights in summer, and the wonderful gardening with loamy soil. Giant azaleas called Rhododendrons, and huge dahlias. Sigh. I love to garden.
don't plan to visit Seattle in the next couple of weeks. We hide the fact it doesn't "always" rain here. But when it does ... it can rain all day & night. Gloomy! This is our season for it. What we share with the world. It too shall pass
In other words, I think we should learn to guess, imagine, figure out the consequences of our actions on other people, "before" and "independently on the fact that" we have experienced the same things on our skin... This would mean to be a civilized person!
Cuz, I might be cynical, but that (beautiful) story suggests me that the "evil" parents understood what they were doing to the old man only when they understood that it might happen to them in the futur, too. This is not compassion, this is just: "I don't want this happens to ME"! That is: "Something is bad only when it happens or might happen to me, it's not bad when it happens to someone else"... BTW I am patient when the tree lights get tangled, but I am very pissed off when it rains all day long!
cuz - i read that somewhere and got upset that they d shove gpa off in a corner alone and let him work so hard to eat . realy pissed me off , i could never do that to dad . then i saw the lit boy makin the wooden bowl for his parents realy made my heart spark with love for that lit boy . :-) horay for the lit boy , hes a hellva smarter than his own parents , xoxo
Here is a nice little story that has been on e-mail for years. I have saved it from like 2004 when I first read it. I hope you will enjoy it. luv cuz
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.'
So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work..
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about .I just did.
miz , bet ur cat wont go back behind the tv again lol . done filled up the wood box , now we re good till in a few days , theres so much i want to say but am not sure if i wanna say it on this , anyway i am griefing and sad and scared , prayers plz . maybe one day i ll blurt it all out . think i need a nap now . xoxo
Sassy just got her claw stuck in a place on the back of the TV. Poor thing was meowing pretty loud and she rarely meows. She's okay though. Hubby helped her get it out.
what miz said!!!!!! Don't allow yourself to be treated like a servant. Any money I spend on the col gets transferred out of her account into ours; of course I have control of the online banking. But she still has her checkbook and can write checks all she wants, but since I pay the bills there is nothing except birthday checks for her to write. Does your mil give your husband money? Girl, again I say you are stronger than I would be cuz I would say "see ya on the weekends"!!!!!!!!!
When the care givers used to ask/tell my mom to do something. She would say, "Did "Miz" say I should?" or something like that. They would say yes and then she would be okay about it. :) Sweet sweet lady she was.
Angela you definitely are an angel....tell you what...you have more stamina than I would have......I care for the col but if she was directly in my house I don't know what I would do. As it is, her house is like being in another area of our home and I can get to her quickly if need be. Your mil sounds just like the col. Won't go anywhere to meet new people because "they're just old and sit around talking about their aches and pains"....duh! I don't know how you do it listening to her bad mouth you.....does your husband have your back? Mine told his mother that it's me taking care of her and what I say is the same as what he says and vice versa. She remembers that because when she gets mad about something she'll say "and does Rod feel that way"? Yes maam he does....anymore questions? sometimes col is just a sweet little thing....other days she's a raving fishwife...I must be getting an appetite back....crab legs really sound good...stone crab from Monte's sounds even better.
sounds like mommy s boy . ahh ure better than that . stand up and start growling ,. i know i would have , no body treats me like that . love me or its the highway . growl n growl . i hope things will turn out for the better for u and ur hubby . how did u guys meet ? xoxox
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Send you some thawing Deef but slowly you do not want three feet of snow melting all at once!
He is in there moaning along to music now turn on youtube mom is making dinner dropping stuff snapping at the dog, last night I made dinner lasagna and carrot cake she said snotty things, I just did dishes and left. If i don't help she is huffy and incensed I "leave it all to her...if I do help she is pissed i don't do it right or perfect...yes she is post menopausal ( answer to a question way back). I call it crazy making...That's what it is, and SHE was a social worker...
slings and arrows
more angels to those who need it.
lovbob
I am not very good with lost luggage.
It's the long debated dilemma if genetics are more influent on a person's life than experience... Most probably they interact around 50-50!
Got out just now and walked to 7 11 played my last three bucks on Powerball...
Was nice walk was really careful avoided all ice, if only I could avoid uptight men in cars, who think any fat woman they see in public must be from Americas Biggest Loser and there fore want "helpful commentary" bite me ass wad!
Come home, have to ring door bell, he comes out of his hole like what A you are the man of the house? BS you are in the words of Zora Neal Hurston "That ole pee d bed." or like it is for him...not unless it is the funeral home...go away, back in hole turns back on My Little Grass Shack...yes here's to you finding your way to your little grass shack in the sky old man ASAP or sooner!
How is everyone tonight? I hope doing OK...
you're not gross! It's life! Stuff a lot grosser than that on here.
knock it off and have fun!
lovbob
haha Peach--no matter what you do or say, people LOVE YOU! isn't that awesome?! Were you nasty? heehee
Well, I'm going for a walk, then seeing my kids and to bed early.
Still can't sleep on my nights off, and my Mother slept all last night!! Who needs a caregiver!?
I was a lazy spoiled useless daughter of a very strong and protective father. Hard life changed me a lot and I assure you I am no more lazy, no more spoiled (and maybe still a little bit useless!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Georgia, what did you say? I didn't notice anything traumatic. Please keep posting your jokes!!!!!!!!
i'm sorry i grossed everybody out
What do you think?
What brought you here?
I'm a native & the times of constant rain still drives me crazy. What's really sad is I remember when the land was wilderness rather than parking lots.
Kirkland was a tiny town across the lake. A long drive ...
the weather can be a real hit or miss. Rarely predictible.
My friends in San Diego came for Christmas a couple years ago when we had 2' of snow. The neighbohood was pretty much snowed in. Holiday - no plows.
They loved it!!!
But they could hop the plane & go home.
Giant azaleas called Rhododendrons, and huge dahlias. Sigh.
I love to garden.
This is our season for it. What we share with the world.
It too shall pass
BTW I am patient when the tree lights get tangled, but I am very pissed off when it rains all day long!
Does the BobCat get along with the marina cats? I can imagine her in the wheel house bragging! Mine would.
xoxo
luv cuz
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now,
A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson.
The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and
Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor.
When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.
'We must do something about father,' said the son.
'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.'
So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.
Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.
He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded,
'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.
' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work..
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason,
Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about .I just did.
done filled up the wood box , now we re good till in a few days ,
theres so much i want to say but am not sure if i wanna say it on this , anyway i am griefing and sad and scared ,
prayers plz . maybe one day i ll blurt it all out .
think i need a nap now . xoxo
sometimes col is just a sweet little thing....other days she's a raving fishwife...I must be getting an appetite back....crab legs really sound good...stone crab from Monte's sounds even better.
growl n growl . i hope things will turn out for the better for u and ur hubby . how did u guys meet ?
xoxox