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'Nite guys. I am going to work a little more. Which side of the street do they drive boats in italy? It depends. i drive them over the sidewalks (curbs), against other people's boats, into the ditches (where they feel comfortable for the presence of water). I don't have a favorite side to do so. If it happens to the right, or to the left, I don't mind! Rip I don't watch that thngs about vampires. I am afraid of Halloween, too!
What are all you dong up this time of night? It's nearly 9 PM here which means .... oh no ... are you all "night people"? Hey, joking ... Halloween & now I'm afraid to open any subject!
however - I no longer have teenage children. Grown & gone. The Twilght series is a mystery to me even tho I know the area. Can someone share the intrigue about it's popularity? It's a mushy, dark, squishy forest. Now with a killer goat!
No kidding... a wonderful man was killed by an aggressive Mt Goat! Hideous event! I ache for his family!
Going to shut down the computer now! Good night to all my friends ... Especially happy Cat night!!!
I just read an MSNBC Science News article titled "End Of The World Delayed" Here's a qoute; "If the calendar doesn't end in December 2012, no one knows when it actually will — or if it has already." So on that note, I am going to bed. Thank you all for being here, and Thank You Captain, for permission to board.
Yeah you will find a solution... I had better not to drive boats, as I make bumps on my car every day or two! "Sorry, Mr Killer Whale, I thought you would turn right!"
Rosella and Ted - Yes, through our local senior services, my dad can get transportation to the local hospital that is about 5 miles away but not to the university hospital where his cardiologist works. I'm hoping to get him into the heart failure clinic at the local hospital and even if we can't arrange rides through senior services, it won't mean leaving work for several hours to get him where he needs to go. Keep your fingers crossed that this all works out. Thanks for the advice, though.
I think Rosella has won a seat on the boat! Maybe even the chance to be the captain. What do you think, Bobbie? Not many people can say they started something that has not only continued for so long but provided so much comfort to so many people. Bobbie, you (and your boat, and your kitty) are AWESOME! So glad you found a kitty to be a co captain for you.
Good looking bunch of sailors here. Rossella, you won BoatTime!!
Love all you guys and where's Miz and Deef and Flex and SS and and and
Rip the Stitch! More Cat Comedy on the boat. Kitty has figured out how to train me even better than before. She is now getting 2 meals a day because she pitches a fit and doesn't stop until something shows up in her bowl. She also thinks it's funny to pat my butt when I walk by. First attention I've had in months.
This thread has always been about jokes. There are sad things in the world and many sad things have happened to us. Sadness and pain are about perception and how hard it is to make it back after being hurt as badly as many of us have been hurt. You can make it back. takes a lot of work, but you can make it back. Important to remember: everybody hurts, no one person's hurts are 'more' or 'less'. Everybody here has been traumatized one way or the other.
If you want to see Nazi jokes watch Mel Brooks movies. He stated that that was the only way he, as a Jew, could deal with the horror of the Holocaust.
You keep looking for the light there Rip.
Sorry all that shit happened to you Crowe. It was wrong and we feel for ya, just want to make you laugh somehow. the song quite frankly sounds awful but I hope it makes you feel better. I've written some terrible stuff too but it made me feel better just to get it out.
I have something like that here in NC, It's Like a bus service with 4 0r 5 Wheelchair accessable vans, and thay only charge $3 a trip wherever you go, caregivers ride free. You call and make an appt with them or you can set up a regular pick up. I believe it's subsidized by the county health Dept. You Might want to ask around where you are
I live in a very difficult country on many points of view. But we have a few very good things here. There is kind of a (free) taxi service, organized and paid by the municipality, A taxi (a big van, actually) who can take onboard 4 or 5 ill people, (plus wheelchairs), takes them to the hospital or day care, and then he takes them back home. That would be the ideal solution for you. Can you find low price a person who drives your dad to the hospital? A student who wants to earn some money, that you trust, of course. - for example
to clear any misunderstanding, my posts were replying to "
rip said 2 hrs ago
hey Crow ~ Have you thought about letting it out in cartoon fashion? I know of a guy named Ted who has graphic skills ... I believe you have his email, as he has your song.
Might just help lots of other people hiding out there ..."
If you have read the thread then you have most likely read the title of the song.
I know that doc only had good intentions of keeping my dad out of the hospital. My dad HATES, HATES, HATES being in the hospital so I am all for this option. But even as a nurse I can no longer manage his meds to keep him out of heart failure and out of the hospital without some help. So I am hoping that the local heart failure clinic will help with this. But, him, on a bus?? Unbelievable
Kuli: yes, nobody understands! You should have explained to hiim, too, with the same words you used here. I wonder if there is a chance your father gets into that hospital two days a week and he stays there! And they give him all the cure that he needs.
Rip, Crowe! Little misunderstanding! are you alright now? I am not the lawyer of Rip, but she is a very very sensitive person and she knows very well when you can laugh and when you cannot. Only, we have not read your song, we do not know what it is about!
Ted. you have that absurd sense of humour that I like so much
Many months ago, we went on a roll on this site connecting or creating names or slightly altering names of movies or TV shows that would make the title of our life. We had a blast!
Funny, my b/f told me tonite he wants me to make an appointment to see my doc. I told him I don't have time - I spend too much time taking my dad to docs. He knows what my life is like and I know he's only worried about me but to think of yet another appointment, another commitment is just toooo much. On a lighter note, my dad's cardiologist suggested my dad get into the heart failure clinic when we saw him Friday. When I asked what was involved with that, he told me my dad would have to come there 2-3 times a week. When I told him that I couldn't possibly get him there that many times a week, he asked if my dad could take a bus. I looked at him and almost said out loud "seriously, seriously, you think this 85 going on 86 year old man could get on a bus and travel 15-20 miles 2-3 times a week, get off the bus and find his way around a university hospital. Not to mention that BECAUSE of the heart failure, his ability to even walk that far is not even reasonable." Instead I said I didn't think that was an option. Tomorrow we see a new cardiologist that will hopefully refer my dad to the local hospital heart failure clinic that we can arrange transportation with the senior center in our town. It never ceases to amaze me how clueless even the docs can be. And I'm a nurse!
rip, I'm sure you mean well, but please zip the idea of a comic strip for my song and I can feel Ted shaking in his shoes over the idea. Believe me, there is nothing cartoonable about "Mamas Don't Raise Up Your Boys To Be Substitute Spouses" . nor the parallel universe of "Daddys Don't Raise Up Your Girls To Be Substitute Spouses" as well was the tangential parallel world which I saw with my wife where emotionally my MIL has made my wife a substitute spouse because her hatred of men kept her from having a healthy relationship with any man who was worthy of being her slave. Not all pain can be made into comic humor. For example there are photos of WWII most if not many will never see unless you visit the Yad Vashem's Holocaust History Museum in DC or in Israel. Can't make a comic strip of a line of adults stripped naked in front of a huge ditch of dead bodies in front of their children about to be executed right in front of their children's faces. There's not any humor there only pain.
Kuli, it is sad that we think of going to a psych unit in order to have some rest. Our happy and careless relatives, when they want to have a rest they go to the Bahamas! I am like you and sometimes I wish I get ill so I can go to a hospital and have someone who takes care of me. When I had a kidney stone last year and I went to the hospital for a few hours, I was so well and thanked the nurses 1000 times. But this is a mechanism we should not go into! Crowe, I think it is the third option (.... or for whatever sick reason). (the other two choices imply that they have given us a thought for more than 1 minute)
Family systems therapists understand that there are dynamics in every family which are either healthy or unhealthy according to how healthy the boundaries are, ( and we both not about them not being healthy). All too often, someone becomes the identified patient for everyone to dump their stuff on as an escape from dealing with their own crap because they deem either that person is worthy of it or can take it or for whatever sick reason.
The idea of cartoons with that songs is nauseating. I guess there is not an emotioncom for throwing up?
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I have to sleep next night, seriously!
Which side of the street do they drive boats in italy?
It depends. i drive them over the sidewalks (curbs), against other people's boats, into the ditches (where they feel comfortable for the presence of water). I don't have a favorite side to do so. If it happens to the right, or to the left, I don't mind!
Rip I don't watch that thngs about vampires. I am afraid of Halloween, too!
What are all you dong up this time of night? It's nearly 9 PM here which means ....
oh no ... are you all "night people"?
Hey, joking ... Halloween & now I'm afraid to open any subject!
however - I no longer have teenage children. Grown & gone. The Twilght series is a mystery to me even tho I know the area.
Can someone share the intrigue about it's popularity?
It's a mushy, dark, squishy forest. Now with a killer goat!
No kidding... a wonderful man was killed by an aggressive Mt Goat! Hideous event! I ache for his family!
Going to shut down the computer now! Good night to all my friends ... Especially happy Cat night!!!
"If the calendar doesn't end in December 2012, no one knows when it actually will — or if it has already."
So on that note, I am going to bed.
Thank you all for being here, and Thank You Captain, for permission to board.
I had better not to drive boats, as I make bumps on my car every day or two!
"Sorry, Mr Killer Whale, I thought you would turn right!"
Good looking bunch of sailors here. Rossella, you won BoatTime!!
Love all you guys and where's Miz and Deef and Flex and SS and and and
Rip the Stitch!
More Cat Comedy on the boat. Kitty has figured out how to train me even better than before.
She is now getting 2 meals a day because she pitches a fit and doesn't stop until something shows up in her bowl.
She also thinks it's funny to pat my butt when I walk by.
First attention I've had in months.
This thread has always been about jokes. There are sad things in the world and many sad things have happened to us. Sadness and pain are about perception and how hard it is to make it back after being hurt as badly as many of us have been hurt. You can make it back. takes a lot of work, but you can make it back.
Important to remember: everybody hurts, no one person's hurts are 'more' or 'less'.
Everybody here has been traumatized one way or the other.
If you want to see Nazi jokes watch Mel Brooks movies. He stated that that was the only way he, as a Jew, could deal with the horror of the Holocaust.
You keep looking for the light there Rip.
Sorry all that shit happened to you Crowe. It was wrong and we feel for ya, just want to make you laugh somehow. the song quite frankly sounds awful but I hope it makes you feel better.
I've written some terrible stuff too but it made me feel better just to get it out.
Love you guys and don't let the a$$holes win.
lovbob
Wow! I am so glad you have that taxi service. I hope it exists in Kuli's town.
rip said
2 hrs ago
hey Crow ~
Have you thought about letting it out in cartoon fashion?
I know of a guy named Ted who has graphic skills ...
I believe you have his email, as he has your song.
Might just help lots of other people hiding out there ..."
If you have read the thread then you have most likely read the title of the song.
Rip, Crowe! Little misunderstanding! are you alright now? I am not the lawyer of Rip, but she is a very very sensitive person and she knows very well when you can laugh and when you cannot. Only, we have not read your song, we do not know what it is about!
Ted. you have that absurd sense of humour that I like so much
Maybe we can call it "John and Kate plus An Eighty year old Psycopath'
Crowe, I think it is the third option (.... or for whatever sick reason). (the other two choices imply that they have given us a thought for more than 1 minute)
There is another side of life you may have not found.
Called humor.
Can really open you up when you're ready.
Family systems therapists understand that there are dynamics in every family which are either healthy or unhealthy according to how healthy the boundaries are, ( and we both not about them not being healthy). All too often, someone becomes the identified patient for everyone to dump their stuff on as an escape from dealing with their own crap because they deem either that person is worthy of it or can take it or for whatever sick reason.
The idea of cartoons with that songs is nauseating. I guess there is not an emotioncom for throwing up?
Missed you!!!