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Bobbie, I thought all you said would be true also. The first lawyer said we were holding crops hostage,put lock on gate. I did that,thats when she got lawyer and my lawyer called me up yelling asking why I LOCKED her out. I REMINDED him I followed his advice, which he never took responsibility for.Thats when I went to lawyer no. 2-He said I ALSO have to let her get her crops.Beleive me round-up was the first thing in my mind,now I'M hoping the animals are going to feast out.According to the lawyer she is a sub-leaser of the guy who previously had the farming rights.My contract states no sub-leaser with out written consent.I kicked him off,but they say I can't kick her out.I'll goggle when we get home.
If the squatter planted on your land it's yours. Take the harvest, block the harvest or kill the plants close to harvest.
Here's a few ideas: 2 words for ya. Round Up. (Monsanto)
Call Monsanto and tell them that she is violating their genetic patents by using second generation Monsanto seeds.
(Watch the documentary: the Future of Food)
Also Google Monsanto and learn how insane they are when they think that a farmer has used their 'genetic patents' on land, whether it's true or not, they will descend on the land and sample everything. They have a bunch of lawyers that will make hers look like pikers. Might as well use the corporate jackasses to your own benefit.
Or, plow it all under. It's your land. You can pave over it if you want.
Call others with the right equipment and tell them that they can have the crop yield if they can get it in time.
Try to get out of looking at it so closely and look at it globally. That means screw the gossip and crap and act like an executive making executive decisions.
I bet you have farmers in that church that would love a big crop of soybeans and corn. Probably would be happy to split the profits with you. They harvest and you both go to market.
bottom line? She doesn't get the harvest. Block it, destroy it, pee on it. whatever you need to do. She does not get the harvest. It's yours.
Good morning,going to church soon.Bobbie, coperate woman planted soy beans and corn.Everyone says if I take her to court to make her pay,I'LL be out of more money than she owes.My doctor says coperate types are ruthless and thats how they make money by taking advantage of the small person. I guess our whole nation is being taken over by the coperate types,even in the most rural of spots.I guess contracts are only good for the rich.I was stunned when I reported the scam to the agriculture office and they ignored it-I guess Federal Frued is o.k. for some not for others. Lord knows I didn't invent corruption,was around before I was born.Our power here in the United States origanated from the ground up-now its from the corporations on down. OCTOBER THE 2 was the day Jeff went to Vanderbilt and got his bladder rebuilt and at the same time they decided to take his prostate[nothing was wrong with it] October the 2 was the end of my life as I knew it,it was the day the music died.
West Coast lady here ... listening to a wonderful Oldies station Remember the days when you could understand the lyrics? Even had harmony? BeachBoys the Association was my dream band. Cherish was the Word ~ Terry Kirkman. A man of song.
Oh . Oh .. Playing a Mamas & Papas song ~ when stereo had separation.from both speakers.
The DJ is great on this staion. Wish I could share it with y'all. Anyone who had fun & happiness in the 60', 70's & maybe 80's.
Timing, Linda! Right here after retiring a pair of 15 year old boots today.
The sole separated & leaked. Trash at last! Dad was good this morning so I took the girls to the woods. They are slow ... Veggie soup sounds so nice! My neighbor just gave us a plate of Apple Crisp. The other neighbor may come over to retrieve lots of fabric & batting I've been storing forever. She is a quilter so I hope she can use it. Otherwise ~ it's out of here!
Peach? How are you feeling after a night of 3 pee?
miz ,, ur husband is so wonderful ! bless his heart ! he s trying so hard to keep u out ofthe dark hole i bet ? :-) wow done cut up trees , in pourin down raining , it didnt last long tho , got a truck load whew , i am tired ! put pa to bed , that lift recliner is not comfertable and complainin back hurts and butt sore . i ask him if he rather lay in bed , he said oh yes . now he s happy camper , i made homemade veg soup . 2 of my kids stop by and wanted a big bowl of it to take home with , haha i made enuff to feed a army ful of guys . was happy to give em away . husband freaked out hey save some for me ! heeheee oh shoot i gotta go outside and feed my dog , may take her a walk too . she poops better when we go for a walk . told hubby that i may just let her live in the house this winter . he laugh said i dont think so . shes part chow and german shepard , she prob burn up in this house , tons of fur on her . where s rip ? ok gotta go before it gets too dark , bobbie , gave dad a hug for ya , :-) xoxo
Well it wasn't my birthday today but my hubby made it my birthday. When it was my actual birthday he didn't have the money to spend. After lunch he surprised me with a Baskin Robbins ice cream cake, a card, and a 24K gold toe ring, something I had been wanting. I hope he got a good deal on it. It was a very nice surprise. Card was very cute too. :))
Miz, you are right. You can't stop smoking when you are under stress. Doctors advise to stop smoking when you are on vacation!!! Is any of us on vacation? It is a stress to stop smoking, so you have to do it when you are peaceful enough. Being a heavy smoker too, the only advice I can give you is not to inhale too much, and, if you can, every time you want to light a cigarette, ask yourself if you really need "that" one. I do like this, and this spares me 4 or 5 of the 20-25 I smoke every day! Georgia, I hope you have sent that psychologist or whatever she is, to hell. THere are better ones, trust me! It is cold, here. Almost winter! What a tragic stories about the death of our relatives! There are so many things I want to forget. When I think of my father I try not to think of his last days of life. They were very painful. I guess it is the usual filter I put between the reality and myself!
Linda!! give your pa a big hug and kiss from me and everybody here! I hope that you guys have a good day together, Maybe you can just hang out together and not have to do too much. Enjoy that sweet face!
Raining here and it's very peaceful.....as long as the boat doesn't leak.
Love all you ladies and I know that we'll see each other soon.
Happy Saturday Ladies, Miz, Beer an aquired taste? Never! lol. Glad you ended up paying less at the DMV. I haven't had a cigarette in 7 yrs. but am forever chewing the nicotine gum & dragging on the nicotrol inhaler (my pacifier). Oral fixation I guess. Keeps me from biting folks heads off. lol. GP, Thanks for the tip on the rice heat/cold pack. It just so happens I have lots of old bluejean legs left over form cuttoffs. Glad I kept them now. Your new therapist sounds like she's doing a cookie cutter analysis without actually listening. I'd drop her in a heartbeat but that's me. You have to decide whether or not you think she will be of any benifit to you. That is the deciding factor. Is a UTI different than a bladder or kidney infection? If there is no UTI but still bacteria? Could be a number of things, but doc will find out. Be well soon dear. Linda, Whoopee, no pee! Glad you had a dry day. You aren't feeding your pa asperagus are you? Now THAT makes for some STINKY PEE! My hub loves it, but I tell him it's just because he wants to assault my nose with the stinky pee! lol. Tenn, Glad you are taking care of you now. Your daughter will thank you for it later. I would suggest you ease into it in order to stick with it. Don't forget the walks....good for you in every way. You & daughter can go to your local/state parks & make a day of it. Pack a nice light lunch & take plenty of water. A nice leisurely stroll & stop to smell the roses type days. B vitamins are important for stamina, nervous system. Most folks don't get enough B12 and other B vits. I for one don't seem to lose weight without physical labor. The park I have volunteered to garden at has become that labor. I told one of the park rangers yesterday that I'm losing a tire...he said "Oh no, on your car?" to which I replied "No, on my waist!". lol. He didn't know how to respond to that! Pirate, Rosella & Deef, All in there with the never enough thing. Peace be with you ladies. Jsome, How else are you supposed to get him back up? You have no choice but to call 911. Elders fall all the time....like you said, it's part of their job & EMS is trained for it.
Once again I hurt myself at the park yesterday. Woke up twice with lockup screaming cramps in my ankles last night. Put some icy hot linament on them & it subsided eventually. I'm not a puppy anymore & still over extend my limitations. But the gardens at the park are really taking shape & looking good! lol. The alternate caregiver that mom hasn't seen in a few months took her to a fancy dinner last night & I need to call to find out how much fun she had. Mom has actually been pleasant to be with lately & I'm really counting my blessings.
Well, was going out to lunch with my best friend who is in town this weekend but she doesn't want to leave her mom & dad with her dad being so sick. We got to talk on our front porch last night which was wonderful but I'm a zombie today. Just wanna sleep but of course can't, blah blah blah... and so on and so forth and what have you and the like.
deefer, how sad! I'm so sorry that you had to go through that with your Dad! 54 is really young to lose a parent.
My Dad was 78 & took a really bad fall that ended him up in the hospital where he aspirated food & got pneumonia, which is what took him. He had been disabled for 20 years before that with a degenerative spinal disorder, but him actually dying after just a few days in the hospital was a shock.
Thanks Rossella! I agree! She's a piece of work! Yes, she's pretty young & has a problem with her being the authority...She is arogant. Yes, I've had some pretty bad experiences with medical personnel in general lately. There have been a few that have been nice, though. The new med that the Urologist gave me seems to be working better...I only had to get up 3 times last night to tinkle! Sleeping that much straight through was heaven! Things will get better!
i agree ! her boyfriend made a u turn last month and not suppose to but he did it anyway , 150 dollars plz , lol cant afford to get pulled over in indiana . !!
oh miz , my daughter got pulled over , there was a road block out in middle of nowhere ! asked for her dl and reisgester (sp) notice she didnt sign her reigister, shit how do u spell that hahaha . anyway 150 dollars plz !!!! she told that cop , oh i forgot to signed it , my mom put it in my car and didnt dawn on me to sign it . he said should have signed it before u put in the glove box and have a nice day . now shes way behind on her bills cuz of the damn roadbloclks out of no where ! 730 in the morning ! on her way to work . now that s terrible . pa woke up dry ! i said oh my u didnt pee ? he said i guess not . so took him to bathroom yep he did pee just a lit bit on his pull ups. whew dry bed ! now that made my day , sprinkling outside and dark and gloomey . suppos eto go cut wood this afternoon if it stops raining . you all have a good day xoxo
tennessee, I know smoking is bad for me. At this point and the stress I'm under, I just can't see myself quitting. Hubby smokes too. I really do appreciate your concern though. I guess right now I don't care enough about my health to quit. I know that's crazy but it's true.
Tennessee, Sad story! My dad died of a massive heart attack at home. Husband and I were just getting ready to go to bed, around 11:30, when we heard a loud bang coming from my parent's apartment. As I ran for the door, my 17 year old sister was running to our side of the house. She said Dad was on the floor. I picked up the phone and dialed 911, but my husband grabbed it from me and I ran next door. Found Mom on the floor holding Dad in her lap. Ambulance came within minutes and started CPR. They worked on him in the hospital for an hour, but he was gone at the young age of 54! My brother who is 2 years younger than me, myself, and my 17 year old sister were all at the hospital with Mom. My grandparents were at home with my 13 year old brother and my husband was with our 18 month old daughter. We got home around 1AM, and I spent the next hour calling my brother in Texas, and my sister in Virginia. Mom was in shock, as we all were. My youngest sister, her boyfriend, and my other sister's friend drove out to Boston at 2AM to tell my other sister who worked at Logan Airport. She was 21 at the time, and lived alone, so I didn't want to call her with the news. After a couple hours sleep, I had to call the rest of the family. Dad had 3 sisters and 2 brothers that I had to talk to. It was very sad, and a shock to us all, but we did not have to sit and watch him suffer, and were grateful for that as time went on.
Georgia, I had missed your post. That doctor you talked about is unbelievable. Has she listened to any word you said? Is she very young, is she unexperienced? Otherwise, you can't explain why she said all the rubbish she said. You are having very bad experiences with medical doctors, lately, haven't you? They are not all like this. Keep looking for better ones!
oh i picked up the wrong coffee ! i got french vanaila ! no wonder my house smells so good . golly . it didnt give me any buzz tho . oh well ... gerogia peach . there is a meds out there that lit kids even adult take em to prevent wettin the bed , ive seen that on tv where a lady didnt want to go very far from bathroom . maybe thats what you need ? then again another meds plz . prob cost you pretty dime again . glad ure able to get some meds with the dr u dont understand , hope it works out good .
waitin for huby to come home with truck load of wood , am going to help him unload it . am feelin chillin . would love to snuggle on the couch and wrap myself up with a blanket , guess i ll do that when the work is done . im draggin , think that french vanilla is slowin me down ! waaaaaaaaa i kept thinkin about tenn s caregiver friend . tenn when u see her plz tell her we re all so sorry for her loss and give her a hug for us . my heart is achin for her . so so sorry . losin a love one is a tragic thing . it be diffrent feeling if ya know it and expected it , than be a big blow shockin . like i did few yrs ago when i got a ph call sayin my bro died in camper fire . i balwed bawled for hours i walked outside bawlin walked in garden bawling in the house bawlin , i bawled till there was no more tears left , horrible feelings , i hate that feelin shock ! i feel for her .. ah got teary eyes , talk more later xoxo
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If the squatter planted on your land it's yours. Take the harvest, block the harvest or kill the plants close to harvest.
Here's a few ideas:
2 words for ya. Round Up. (Monsanto)
Call Monsanto and tell them that she is violating their genetic patents by using second generation Monsanto seeds.
(Watch the documentary: the Future of Food)
Also Google Monsanto and learn how insane they are when they think that a farmer has used their 'genetic patents' on land, whether it's true or not, they will descend on the land and sample everything. They have a bunch of lawyers that will make hers look like pikers. Might as well use the corporate jackasses to your own benefit.
Or, plow it all under. It's your land. You can pave over it if you want.
Call others with the right equipment and tell them that they can have the crop yield if they can get it in time.
Try to get out of looking at it so closely and look at it globally.
That means screw the gossip and crap and act like an executive making executive decisions.
I bet you have farmers in that church that would love a big crop of soybeans and corn. Probably would be happy to split the profits with you. They harvest and you both go to market.
bottom line? She doesn't get the harvest. Block it, destroy it, pee on it. whatever you need to do. She does not get the harvest. It's yours.
lovbob
Remember the days when you could understand the lyrics?
Even had harmony?
BeachBoys
the Association was my dream band.
Cherish was the Word ~ Terry Kirkman. A man of song.
Oh . Oh .. Playing a Mamas & Papas song ~ when stereo had separation.from both speakers.
The DJ is great on this staion. Wish I could share it with y'all.
Anyone who had fun & happiness in the 60', 70's & maybe 80's.
Right here after retiring a pair of 15 year old boots today.
The sole separated & leaked. Trash at last!
Dad was good this morning so I took the girls to the woods. They are slow ...
Veggie soup sounds so nice! My neighbor just gave us a plate of Apple Crisp.
The other neighbor may come over to retrieve lots of fabric & batting I've been storing forever. She is a quilter so I hope she can use it.
Otherwise ~ it's out of here!
Peach? How are you feeling after a night of 3 pee?
Sweet!
I've been thinking ...
anyone who knows me, hears me say that , says "oh -oh..."
oh well ...
We are creative. Most stuck at home. So many unused talents that need inspiration ... which we find here on Grossed & other venues.
The theme is:
CareGiver Creations ~
start thinking...
There is too much wasted talent on this thread. We need to spread the market.
How?
Eric Burden's song "We Gotta Get Outta this Place" ... "Girl, there's a better life for me & you..."
just came up on the radio. Appropriate.
Now the song "Feeling All Right" is on.
Hmmmm ...?
Omen?
wow done cut up trees , in pourin down raining , it didnt last long tho , got a truck load whew , i am tired !
put pa to bed , that lift recliner is not comfertable and complainin back hurts and butt sore . i ask him if he rather lay in bed , he said oh yes . now he s happy camper ,
i made homemade veg soup . 2 of my kids stop by and wanted a big bowl of it to take home with , haha i made enuff to feed a army ful of guys . was happy to give em away . husband freaked out hey save some for me ! heeheee
oh shoot i gotta go outside and feed my dog , may take her a walk too . she poops better when we go for a walk . told hubby that i may just let her live in the house this winter . he laugh said i dont think so . shes part chow and german shepard , she prob burn up in this house , tons of fur on her .
where s rip ?
ok gotta go before it gets too dark ,
bobbie , gave dad a hug for ya , :-) xoxo
lovbob
It is a stress to stop smoking, so you have to do it when you are peaceful enough. Being a heavy smoker too, the only advice I can give you is not to inhale too much, and, if you can, every time you want to light a cigarette, ask yourself if you really need "that" one. I do like this, and this spares me 4 or 5 of the 20-25 I smoke every day!
Georgia, I hope you have sent that psychologist or whatever she is, to hell. THere are better ones, trust me!
It is cold, here. Almost winter!
What a tragic stories about the death of our relatives! There are so many things I want to forget. When I think of my father I try not to think of his last days of life. They were very painful. I guess it is the usual filter I put between the reality and myself!
good to see you all here!
Linda!! give your pa a big hug and kiss from me and everybody here! I hope that you guys have a good day together, Maybe you can just hang out together and not have to do too much. Enjoy that sweet face!
Raining here and it's very peaceful.....as long as the boat doesn't leak.
Love all you ladies and I know that we'll see each other soon.
lovbob
Miz, Beer an aquired taste? Never! lol. Glad you ended up paying less at the DMV. I haven't had a cigarette in 7 yrs. but am forever chewing the nicotine gum & dragging on the nicotrol inhaler (my pacifier). Oral fixation I guess. Keeps me from biting folks heads off. lol.
GP, Thanks for the tip on the rice heat/cold pack. It just so happens I have lots of old bluejean legs left over form cuttoffs. Glad I kept them now.
Your new therapist sounds like she's doing a cookie cutter analysis without actually listening. I'd drop her in a heartbeat but that's me. You have to decide whether or not you think she will be of any benifit to you. That is the deciding factor.
Is a UTI different than a bladder or kidney infection? If there is no UTI but still bacteria? Could be a number of things, but doc will find out. Be well soon dear.
Linda, Whoopee, no pee! Glad you had a dry day. You aren't feeding your pa asperagus are you? Now THAT makes for some STINKY PEE! My hub loves it, but I tell him it's just because he wants to assault my nose with the stinky pee! lol.
Tenn, Glad you are taking care of you now. Your daughter will thank you for it later. I would suggest you ease into it in order to stick with it. Don't forget the walks....good for you in every way. You & daughter can go to your local/state parks & make a day of it. Pack a nice light lunch & take plenty of water. A nice leisurely stroll & stop to smell the roses type days. B vitamins are important for stamina, nervous system. Most folks don't get enough B12 and other B vits.
I for one don't seem to lose weight without physical labor. The park I have volunteered to garden at has become that labor. I told one of the park rangers yesterday that I'm losing a tire...he said "Oh no, on your car?" to which I replied "No, on my waist!". lol. He didn't know how to respond to that!
Pirate, Rosella & Deef, All in there with the never enough thing. Peace be with you ladies.
Jsome, How else are you supposed to get him back up? You have no choice but to call 911. Elders fall all the time....like you said, it's part of their job & EMS is trained for it.
Once again I hurt myself at the park yesterday. Woke up twice with lockup screaming cramps in my ankles last night. Put some icy hot linament on them & it subsided eventually. I'm not a puppy anymore & still over extend my limitations. But the gardens at the park are really taking shape & looking good! lol.
The alternate caregiver that mom hasn't seen in a few months took her to a fancy dinner last night & I need to call to find out how much fun she had. Mom has actually been pleasant to be with lately & I'm really counting my blessings.
Hope you all have a blessed weekend.
love,
miz
My Dad was 78 & took a really bad fall that ended him up in the hospital where he aspirated food & got pneumonia, which is what took him. He had been disabled for 20 years before that with a degenerative spinal disorder, but him actually dying after just a few days in the hospital was a shock.
love,
miz
notice she didnt sign her reigister, shit how do u spell that hahaha . anyway 150 dollars plz !!!! she told that cop , oh i forgot to signed it , my mom put it in my car and didnt dawn on me to sign it . he said should have signed it before u put in the glove box and have a nice day .
now shes way behind on her bills cuz of the damn roadbloclks out of no where ! 730 in the morning ! on her way to work .
now that s terrible .
pa woke up dry ! i said oh my u didnt pee ? he said i guess not . so took him to bathroom yep he did pee just a lit bit on his pull ups. whew dry bed ! now that made my day ,
sprinkling outside and dark and gloomey . suppos eto go cut wood this afternoon if it stops raining .
you all have a good day xoxo
love,
miz
We got home around 1AM, and I spent the next hour calling my brother in Texas, and my sister in Virginia. Mom was in shock, as we all were. My youngest sister, her boyfriend, and my other sister's friend drove out to Boston at 2AM to tell my other sister who worked at Logan Airport. She was 21 at the time, and lived alone, so I didn't want to call her with the news.
After a couple hours sleep, I had to call the rest of the family. Dad had 3 sisters and 2 brothers that I had to talk to.
It was very sad, and a shock to us all, but we did not have to sit and watch him suffer, and were grateful for that as time went on.
You are having very bad experiences with medical doctors, lately, haven't you? They are not all like this. Keep looking for better ones!
I was lucky, all the dear ones I lost, we had the time to get used to the idea
gerogia peach . there is a meds out there that lit kids even adult take em to prevent wettin the bed , ive seen that on tv where a lady didnt want to go very far from bathroom . maybe thats what you need ? then again another meds plz . prob cost you pretty dime again . glad ure able to get some meds with the dr u dont understand , hope it works out good .
waitin for huby to come home with truck load of wood , am going to help him unload it . am feelin chillin . would love to snuggle on the couch and wrap myself up with a blanket , guess i ll do that when the work is done . im draggin , think that french vanilla is slowin me down ! waaaaaaaaa
i kept thinkin about tenn s caregiver friend . tenn when u see her plz tell her we re all so sorry for her loss and give her a hug for us . my heart is achin for her . so so sorry . losin a love one is a tragic thing . it be diffrent feeling if ya know it and expected it , than be a big blow shockin . like i did few yrs ago when i got a ph call sayin my bro died in camper fire . i balwed bawled for hours i walked outside bawlin walked in garden bawling in the house bawlin , i bawled till there was no more tears left , horrible feelings , i hate that feelin shock ! i feel for her ..
ah got teary eyes , talk more later xoxo