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BlickBob by the time your mother dies you will be a very old man. Sad but true. You are married to your mother.
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Blickbob,

You have a lot on your plate. Your profile says that you are caring for your mother who has cancer.

I’m sure that you’re having a difficult time managing everything.

It’s even harder to serve your mother when she is critical of your actions. Your efforts deserve to be appreciated.

I feel that going to an unbiased therapist to discuss your situation would help you to understand your behavior and your mother’s behavior.

You have been conditioned to please your mother in all circumstances. I don’t think you realize that your feelings are equally important as your mom’s feelings.

Start thinking about what is important to you.

You may have dreams that you wish to fulfill or you may need to think about what you would like to accomplish in your life.

Best wishes to you.
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Need, bobs moms cancer was successfully treated years ago. She is just being a lazy, useless lump, sucking her sons life and blaming an ancient cancer diagnosis.

Just letting you know.
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ITRR,

Thanks, I was not aware of that fact which certainly sheds a whole new light on the issue.

My gosh, therapy is definitely in order then.

I would hope that Blickbob would try to get to the bottom of why he is sticking around instead of living his own life.
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My mom wanted me to take pictures of the outside of the house in the dark, because now she’s paranoid people can look in the living room window and see her (they can’t).
She said be careful you don’t slip and fall out there…if you do I will be in here all by myself with no one taking care of me. For a split second I thought she was concerned about me. She not. At all. It’s all about her.
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Blickbob’s personal issues about his mother are bigger than just caregiving. I think they go back long before now.
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Lily, you reminded me my Mother wanted someone to go outside to see if the blinds looked closed from the outside.. 😣
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We are experiencing something called Super Fog in some areas due to fires that are difficult to put out. The accidents have been very bad for some commuters resulting in the deaths of some drivers.
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Follow up on a former whine.

My husband’s MRI was delayed because of not getting approval from his insurance company.

The doctor contacted his insurance company and it is now approved for him to get his MRI.

Keep us in your thoughts and prayers please for everything to go well.

Thanks 😊!
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Bounce, the MRI was ordered due to his recent lab results. The doctor is concerned and covering all bases.
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Need, my best of good luck to your hubby.
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Thanks, Alva.
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Need,

I hope the MRI turns out in your hubby’s favor. 🤞🏻

(((hugs)))
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Thanks, Way.
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Need: Prayers for your DH.
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Need, (((hugs))) and prayers for DH!
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Thanks, Barb.

Hubby is snoring. I’m going to bed in a few minutes. His MRI is scheduled for tomorrow morning.

Thanks, Llama.
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Need, hugs and prayers from me.
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Thanks, HH.
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Thinking of you, Need, and your hubby. Pulling for this to be good news. Will await your updating us.
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Thanks, Alva. I appreciate being in everyone’s thoughts. As soon as I know anything I will post a follow up.

I do like how thorough the doctor is being. I went through a lot of anxiety when I cared for my parents. I’m trying hard not to allow this to happen now.

My husband is the love of my life. He has been my rock for over 40 years.
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Sorry -busy few weeks and I’ve been out of many loops.

Need, I wish you strength and calm and good news re: your honey. Hugs to you from here to there. (stuff a glove and hold it - that’s all of us holding your hand)
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Ana,

Thanks so much. Your kind words made me smile. 😊
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Have been gone a while. Hope you’re all well.

Legal process on-going. Pleeeeease let me win. And please don’t let it drag on and on.
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Soun,

Pulling for everything to work out as you would like it too. Waiting is so hard. I hope it isn’t too much longer.
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THANK YOU
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Soun,

You’re most welcome. Hang in there!
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Great news! Hubby just checked his portal and everything seems to be fine.

He will discuss it further when he sees his doctor.

Thank you all so much for your comforting words and support. It’s very much appreciated!
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Must be medical week,,, My hubs was to get his final teeth today after over a year of implant surguries, etc. They called this morning,, his teeth didn't arrive at the dentist due to some part being needed yet! So hopefully next week. This needs to be over! Then he gets shots 4 times a year for a skin condition, and we were warned the drug could be a sticking point on our new insurance,, the Dr office is working to get him into a program, but in the meantime the CVS called yesterday to say his copay would be 4000$ You read that right! The Dr is getting him a sample dose for now, and CVS is trying to get him into a program too.. but I think we will just ask his Dr to change him to a covered med. My ex employer insurance also would not cover the med, so he was in a program then where we paid 5$ a shot.. huge difference. At least there are other options because no way in heck am I paying 4000$
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Geeeeez, Pam. Hubby is busy!

I have to go outside and transfer our grand puppy from our daughter’s car to our car. He’s driving to the airport with us to drop her off.

She’s involved in this long distance relationship! We have the dog again!
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