I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
You have a lot on your plate. Your profile says that you are caring for your mother who has cancer.
I’m sure that you’re having a difficult time managing everything.
It’s even harder to serve your mother when she is critical of your actions. Your efforts deserve to be appreciated.
I feel that going to an unbiased therapist to discuss your situation would help you to understand your behavior and your mother’s behavior.
You have been conditioned to please your mother in all circumstances. I don’t think you realize that your feelings are equally important as your mom’s feelings.
Start thinking about what is important to you.
You may have dreams that you wish to fulfill or you may need to think about what you would like to accomplish in your life.
Best wishes to you.
Just letting you know.
Thanks, I was not aware of that fact which certainly sheds a whole new light on the issue.
My gosh, therapy is definitely in order then.
I would hope that Blickbob would try to get to the bottom of why he is sticking around instead of living his own life.
She said be careful you don’t slip and fall out there…if you do I will be in here all by myself with no one taking care of me. For a split second I thought she was concerned about me. She not. At all. It’s all about her.
My husband’s MRI was delayed because of not getting approval from his insurance company.
The doctor contacted his insurance company and it is now approved for him to get his MRI.
Keep us in your thoughts and prayers please for everything to go well.
Thanks 😊!
I hope the MRI turns out in your hubby’s favor. 🤞🏻
(((hugs)))
Hubby is snoring. I’m going to bed in a few minutes. His MRI is scheduled for tomorrow morning.
Thanks, Llama.
I do like how thorough the doctor is being. I went through a lot of anxiety when I cared for my parents. I’m trying hard not to allow this to happen now.
My husband is the love of my life. He has been my rock for over 40 years.
Need, I wish you strength and calm and good news re: your honey. Hugs to you from here to there. (stuff a glove and hold it - that’s all of us holding your hand)
Thanks so much. Your kind words made me smile. 😊
Legal process on-going. Pleeeeease let me win. And please don’t let it drag on and on.
Pulling for everything to work out as you would like it too. Waiting is so hard. I hope it isn’t too much longer.
You’re most welcome. Hang in there!
He will discuss it further when he sees his doctor.
Thank you all so much for your comforting words and support. It’s very much appreciated!
I have to go outside and transfer our grand puppy from our daughter’s car to our car. He’s driving to the airport with us to drop her off.
She’s involved in this long distance relationship! We have the dog again!