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My whine is that I hurt.
I need so many surgeries I put off because I was caring for Mother but now that Mother is gone and I've gotten the tests,procedures,xrays,MRI's ,etc.,every doctor Iv'e seen has told me that my bones are too soft and fragile for any surgeries.
My last appointment was to see about putting in a spinal stimulator for the pain but again,the doctor said he couldn't do it because my bones are too fragile so there's nothing that can be done and I just have to live with the pain.
I wish I would have drank my milk~
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CRAZY drive home today! Large slow vehicles for about the first fifty miles. Near the end of that 50 I was behind a duely pulling a gooseneck flat bed trailer, with dual ramps to.load a large farm tractor type vehicles.

Finally, all the large trucks, etc turned off my route except the duely. Nearing one of turns I really wanted to.pass him as I did not want to follow him for the last 30 or so miles to the interstate.

Just as I was getting ready to pass him, he drastically slowed and one of the ramps blew into the air, maybe caused by wind, came down, hitting the asphalt, leaving skid marks. It was a very strange sight. I was not too close thank goodness. He pulled off partially into a roadside ditch, and on I went, passing him.

There is usually very little traffic on that route. Getting home took about twenty minutes longer than usual.
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FF: I also was behind in the dexa scan until I finally got it and satisfied (to a point) my PCP's wishes, though I told her upfront #1 I reached my adult height of 5' 8-3/4" at age 12 (thus small scoliosis) and #2 I have WAY too much of an expensive mouth to EVER take Fosamax. Plus my ear doctor caused me to have a middle of the night fall and I had zero fractures.
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My mom had severe osteoporosis due to having breast cancer in her early forties. At the time they removed her ovaries as well as her breast so she went into early menopause. The early estrogen loss contributed to her osteoporosis.
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Good for you, Geaton. My last bone density test years ago showed some lack of calcium so my dr put me on 1000 mg a day. I take magnesium with it. I had tracked my nutritional intake for a while and the only thing I was low in was calcium, I am allergic to milk protein so can't take any form of dairy and obviously don't eat enough greens etc. to make up for it. You are fortunate to be able to eat yogurt and kefir. I haven't been checked for a while but I after that tumble on the concrete driveway and no ill effects, I figure my bones must be OK or I would have had a break.
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Regarding bone density and calcium... what do people in other countries do? Like in Asia, where they consume a lot less dairy (but do eat soy/tofu, dark leafy greens, hard cheeses, etc). My Italian-American family hardly ate any milk products but have bones like concrete. My bone density is 3.5 on both sides. I'm lactose intolerant from youth but eat a ton of broccoli, rapini, collards, and yogurt/kefir AND I exercise as regularly as possible. My point is that you don't have to rely on milk products for your calcium, as is the case in many other countries.
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FF,
Be sure to deduct the Calcium mg. in the Tums from your needed dietary intake of Calcium needs.

You could get heart palpitations from an imbalance of Calcium.
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My mom took Fosamax until it made her feel sick every time she took it. It wasn't worth the trade-off for her.
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Gershun,
I am surprised about the side effects of a lot of the newer drugs for arthritis, osteoporosis, and other conditions. Still people take them,still doctors prescribe them.

Still, the FDA takes them off the market, still, the FDA puts them back on the market.

I am also surprised about what so many drugs do to leach your necessary vitamins and minerals from your system, or do to prevent absorption of your other supplements. These drugs are called "Drug Muggers".

Become informed.

It takes a sleuth to discern what will help or hurt you coming from your doctor.
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My mom took Fosamax until she started getting severe jaw infections. At one point she thought it was a tooth thing. The dentist ended up extracting most of her teeth on one side unnecessarily. It wasn't till she went to another smarter dentist and told them she was on Fosamax that they smartened up. By then the damage had already been done.

Isn't there a big lawsuit against that company now? I'm surprised if they are still prescribing to people.
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I am also way behind on getting my bone density test. I feel like it is a waste of time.

My Mom had strong bones up into her late 90's, and her grocery list would show why: cheese, milk, ice cream, yogurt, cottage cheese, cream cheese, and whipped cream. Unfortunately both my Dad and I were lactose intolerant, and Lacaid had limited products at that time. My Mom would say "a little bit won't hurt" not realizing a little bit can cause what my Dad would call "the trots" [run to the bathroom].

Llama, I also pass on the Fosamax. What I use are 2 Tums each day. Figure it is better than nothing.
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My dialysis tech gave her two weeks' notice this morning. I knew it was coming. She is moving to SC for her husband's new job. My granddaughters are at their house this week so I'm more on my own than I've been since before my accident. My son and his family are leaving next week to go back to Illinois. Going to have to hire some new help.
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Thanks for weighing in Pam.

I can go to another radiology department. I never had a bad experience there before.
This office has the best, most competent front desk staff!

Maybe it was a bad day for everyone that day. Often, my mind works similar to an OSHA inspector, so I have to set aside taking responsibility for others' incompetence, let it go this time. Take care of myself.
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Send when I broke my ankle a few years ago, many of my Xrays were standing up, as best I could with cast/walking boot/etc.. I took Prolia (I think thats the one, sally field did comercials for it) and had a bad reaction,, frozen shoulder and weeks of rehab. SO I will also not take anything for my bad bones. But I am having another scan in a week so we can see how I am doing. Plus my mamo on the same day, and the eye specialist. MAy as well ruin one day instead of 3 ! Hubs has so many oral Dr apts coming up I am really tired of Drs ! And I work in a hospital !! LOL At least he can go by himself unless it's surgury.
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Send: Yes, agreed on THAT radiologist.
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Llama,
Good word for the radiology techs.
Squirrely fits too.

Not all radiology techs are like that. Everyone I met has been a professional.
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I had the dexa scan per my PCP's recommendation, but I am never taking the medication, Fosamax, that destroys the jaw. Pass on that.
Send, that radiologist sounds sketchy.
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Had a foot x-ray a few days ago, and now the doctor wants to order a bone density.
Maybe after I recover from the strange happenings at the radiologist's. Maybe nevergoingbackever!

Every x-ray on my feet has been lying on a table.
Instead, the techs had me standing, climbing up on a home-made 2-step stair that was shoved to the wall. A 6 inch cabinet on the wall took away the standing space...you would have had to be there watching these two techs.
One using very poor body mechanics to move the stairs, not standing all the way behind the booth that protects them from radiation. Balancing the x-ray plate between my legs.

Mostly mad at myself for climbing on that stair, when I protested the tech said "It's okay", and NO, it is not okay. I should have left for my own protection. Maybe I should have asked the tech to climb up on the stair?
I no longer climb onto the second stair on my own safer step-ladder at home.
And surely would never put the step-ladder under a cabinet sticking out from the wall 6". Where was my shoulder supposed to be?

I think I can get over this, but not sure 3 days later.
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I am past due for a bone density scan. Past due on many tests.
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Ouch, glad. Look after them . Have you had a bone density scan recently?

gershun - I don't like soap operas either.
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LOL! I think I have a pair, or had a pair. They are either packed somewhere or donated.👢👢👟👟😁😁
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Glad, I'm wondering if steel toe boots may be a good look?

Seriously, that is NOT fun. Heal quick.
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glad: Hope that you heal quickly. Ouch!💕
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Glad, there is a lesson to be learned here. STOP STUBBING YOUR TOE!

Sorry..........hope you aren't in too much pain.

Hugs!
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Are my bones getting soft or what?! I bet it is just not paying attention to where I am going. Broke a toe, stubbing it on a door stop a few weeks ago, in the dark. Today, stubbed another toe on the coffee table, it is broken, middle of the day.

Good Grief!
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Sorry Golden, when it rains it pours it seems.

I never liked soap operas.

Just saying.
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golden: Hugs going out to you tonight.💕
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Golden, I'm glad that your daughter's treatment is going well, but yes, the rest DOES sound like a soap opera! (((((Hugs))))))
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hhflower - I hope the helpers are working out and you and your hub will take your vacation.

I can't believe this but we have another obstacle. It's becoming a soap opera. R was finishing part of a job - lifting the last floor board off with a prybar when a piece broke off the bar and flew into his forearm - just between the top of his glove and the cuff of his shirt. Drs said the fabric or even fat (R is very lean) would have slowed its progress. He was 6 hours in the hospital where they poked and dug and finally found the piece between two tendons and against an artery and decided to leave it there. He had a tetanus shot and is on a hefty dose of antibiotics. He was to have an MRI for a shoulder injury yesterday and come up today but the MRI has been postponed for a couple of months, and we will see how his arm is when they change the dressing. He needs to rest it. Fortunately it is his left arm and he is right handed but still...

The drs talked about future specialized surgery if the metal shifts or if he has lasting numbness in his fingers. I guess it will take a few more days to settle down so we can see what is happening.. My father got shrapnel in his shoulder in WW1 and it stayed there all his life and didn't cause him any problems. But, R does a lot of physical work with his hands and arms. I think R's challenge is to rest his arm specially these first few days. He doesn't take kindly to inactivity.

On the bright side, dd seems to be doing well with radiation therapy so far. And I have a dumpster organized for the 23rd . Sil and dgs will do the honours.

It is getting to the point where I am wondering what will come next. I was hearing on the phone about R's gory episode when Rocky who was sitting on the dresser looking out the window fell (or jumped?) behind the dresser, All I heard was a "thump". She was trapped behind there and tried to scrabble up the back then fled when I moved it so she could get out. Not like her at all.
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Stressed because I’m hoping that the two helpers I found to assist my parents for four hours a day work out for a good chunk of time. I have a week vacation planned in a few weeks. It’s not fair to my husband our plans falls apart.
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