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My husband got reimbursement check this afternoon via overnight delivery. Letter stated how sorry they were that no one checked the housing they were provided.
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Bridger, thanks for the explanation, and please thank your husband for his courage, honor, compassion, sacrifice and professionalism in helping those in need.

What a sad situation though that volunteers should be subjected to such negligent support, if it can even be called that.

I'm so GLAD they took photos. I hope they keep them, in a safe place, preferably!
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GA, Just my husband is a doctor. My sons drove to NYC to pick him up. He couldn’t fly because he was positive for Covid. He took pictures of hotel room - really disgusting. He is a member of a rural health cooperative. When asked, they volunteer for emergency medical situations. He has gone to numerous sites over the years for hurricanes, forest fires, mining accidents, etc. He was in New Orleans for a week. No major problems.

He sent photos, receipts and copies of emails stating the terms of volunteer service to both the NY governor’s office and NYC mayor’s office. He and his fellow doctors informed them if they didn’t receive reimbursements as promised they were going to send info and photos to media outlets. He got call back from mayor’s office stating they did not realize where they had been housed, etc. said they would send out reimbursement checks this afternoon. Very apologetic.

My husband said in his opinion, the hospitals were poorly supplied. He also felt like the disputes between the hospital administrators, governor and mayor and then onto the federal government were the biggest part of the problem. He said it took them almost 24 hours to get him tested with him on site working. One can only imagine how long it is taking the public. It appeared everyone was playing the blame game.

But it’s over. Hopefully, they will follow thru with reimbursements.
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Bridger, I read your post twice and am still in shock. If I read it correctly, your husband and sons are doctors and instead of being provided with decent housing were instead only given a dump? With filthy, roaches and mice? And the hospital or whoever arranged for him to provide care to Covid patients didn't even pay for his stay?

This is unbelievable, and disgusting beyond description. I thought one of the reasons the hospitals were furloughing nurses was b/c of the extra costs of treating pandemic victims, including the extra cost of supplies, extra help, lodging, etc.

If I'm interpreting the situation right, despicable and irresponsible, let alone being completely unhealthy, don't even approach descriptions of these actions.
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We have another Hallmark holiday coming up and all the emotions that go with it. I just want to send a hug to all of you with difficult mother/daughter relationships who are struggling with even something seemingly simple as picking out a Mother's Day card. Remember that many of you are also mothers and try to carve out a part of the day for yourselves.
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Husband and sons made it home about 7:00. He ate dinner. Took a long shower and went to bed. He said the hotel they put him in was filthy and had roaches, mice. He said it was better than the one a couple of other docs stayed in - no hot water and the critters. And he had to pay for those luxurious accommodations himself. He said the only thing he had thought about the last few days was sleeping in his own clean bed and not hearing critters scurrying around while he was trying to sleep. Glad this episode is over. Get everything wound up at his office and then retirement. So far he says his Covid feels like a regular flu. No unusual symptoms. But he’s in quarantine for two weeks. Wearing gloves and masks. He can keep this bug to himself. Sons kept him in third back seat and wore masks and gloves. They stay in for two weeks too.
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Update on Garage cleaning and haul. The crew came around 12 noon and finished around 4pm. The cleaning was not up to my standards, or agreement, but they did work hard and the men were very nice and respectful. I paid them at the end $3,500 to clean and haul. if it was not for the poor dead animals in the garage, squirrels and possum, I would have cleaned it all myself. The agreement was $ 3,500 with a $500 discount, but the manager did state he did not realize the work involved. I told him he should charge what he agreed to, but after we discussed it, I decided to pay them the extra and they left happy and all is good. Glad it is done, helped them all day, tired and will retire early.
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Bridger fast recovery to your husband. Very special health professionals that offer to go to locations with major impacts from the virus at the risk to their own health. Thanks to him and you for the sacrifices you have made. Great that sons can bring him home!

Golden, that is a very long boil order! They seem to happen when flooding impacts areas. I have never been under a boil order, knock on wood, that would be very difficult for me. Why do they put water treatment plants in low lying areas so often, anyway?
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Bridger26164,

Sorry to hear this, but glad your sons can bring him home for treatment. I'll be praying for all of you during this anxious time of travel as well as his treatment once he gets home.
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My physician husband has been working in NYC because of of the Covid virus. He called earlier today. Yesterday he had a sore throat and cough, requested testing and didn’t continue working his shift. They finally tested him this evening and it was positive. The hospital group who loaned him to NYC will treat him at their hospital when he gets back. I don’t want him in NYC. My sons have left to drive to NYC to pick him up. They should be there by 5:00 am with them taking turns driving. I sent them with extra masks and gloves, clean sanitized scrubs for husband and packed their food and drinks. He says that so far he doesn’t have any of the serious symptoms and fortunately he has no major underlying conditions. They put him on an antibiotic. Just want him home and getting healthy.
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Oh dear!!! The boil water advisory will be with us until September. The flooding caused a problem at the water treatment plant and apparently it is throughout the city, so all pipes in different areas have to be cleaned out and flushed, then the whole thing needs to be flushed.

OTOH I am managing fine with a large pot of water boiled for drinking, tooth brushing etc.

And the fire hazard is high. I don't like that!!! Downtown is still soggy, but not up where I am.
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Good for you, earlybird! He had no right to put you on the spot or try to take advantage of a situation.

Like you said, a deal is a deal!

He should be more interested in if you are satisfied with his service. If I am happy with the service I am pleased to recommend them. I will not recommend someone that I am not happy with.

I had a painter that I loved. I used him quite a bit throughout the years. He asked me if he could use me as a reference and I told him that he could absolutely use me as a reference.

Sure enough, a woman called me and asked if I was happy with his work and I gave him a wonderful recommendation because he deserved it.

Not only was he a skilled painter. He never left a mess. He cleaned up after himself. He was very polite to our family. I was pleased all around with his work and his character.

Once I had a plumber who was awful. He was rude. He expected me to clean up after him. He used fowl language in front of my children. I would never recommend him to anyone that I knew.
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I am proud of myself for saying no! Hired a company to clean, haul and disinfect my mothers garage. Four guys hired. They all had N95 masks on and one had a precaution gown on. After working for about an hour today head guy told me he wanted more money. It was more work than he expected. We made a verbal deal of $3,500 with a $500 discount his price which seemed ok. I told him absolutely not, a deal is a deal. It took many years to get to this point since I have been taking care of my moms house and had dealings with many people and getting burnt and being taken advantage of.. He said no problem. I also did not pay him one cent until job is done and done well. The Garage is packed full with three houses and a retired shop. I even helped with my niece today. They will be back tomorrow and boy am I glad this mess will finally be cleaned up. I am giving most to the Salvation Army. I might give them all a bonus if everything turns out well. They are going to hire contractor to put up new garage doors. It will be great not to have rope holding up the garage doors. When my dad was alive, the garage was clean and neat now it is a dumping ground for everyone's stuff. I am going to have a lock put on and I will be the only one to open our newly cleaned neat garage .Looking so forward to be able to walk in the garage without tripping on something.
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Beatty, I thought it was rather odd too, my niece heard the same thing. It might have been a mistake on the recording. Cousin looked it up online. and police will take notice if out and about without a mask, no mention of wearing a mask in ones own yard.
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In your own backyard? What's the point? Swimming in a lake? At the beach? While surfing?

When small gatherings allowed, a bbq with folk from other households does increase your risk as more people = more contacts of contacts as we know. It is possible some in that chain are asymptomatic but if you wash your hands before eating you should minimise your risk pretty well.

We joke here 'Just don't lick the plates before you serve the food up'.

I will not wear a mask in my own yard. I will wash my hands, cough & sneeze into my elbow, keep my space.

But I am considering a sneeze-guard (plastic face shield) at the shops in future.

PS Earlybird, I don't know where you live, but I can't imagine Police can catch you not wearing a mask in your own backyard? I hope whoever issued this rule has based it on scientific statistics.
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Having dinner with family. Police recording stating everyone needs to wear a mask outdoors and in our own yard, walking, or any contact with people and continue social distancing. We were thinking of putting in above the ground swimming pool in our backyard, but that's not in the plan now. Can't imagine wearing a mask swimming in the pool. We love to swim in the ocean and lakes in the summer months. The authorities feel the local beaches will be packed this year from visitors so I guess the beaches will be closed for the season.
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cwillie,,, save it,, it might work well as another layer on the mouth/nose covers. !

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I feel like a giant whine. My parents are in assisted living. I haven’t been able to see them for three weeks. My husband who is a physician is still on loan in New York City. No real idea when he will get to come home. My son’s graduation from law school has been cancelled. He and his fiancé have postponed their large wedding which has been in the planning for months. My other son’s undergrad graduation has been cancelled. I had to cancel two trips my husband and I had planned to kick off our retirement. None of these are life threatening or earth shattering events...just me being whiny. I also need a haircut, manicure and a pedicure.
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Garlic bread from 2015? I think that proves it was way past the time to defrost and reorganize!
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Today I had to defrost the basement freezer because someone who's name is not Pam did not get the door shut properly ( or who's name is not G.. the debate is ongoing) It looked like Alaska in there! But no food was harmed due to the build up. I was off today, and G unloaded all the food into 6 coolers, and I wiped the dang thing down and got the ice all out. It is now recooling.. and the new debate is who gets to check the expiration dates and reload it.. LOL I say its 1/3 .. He unloaded, I froze my but off cleaning it. we both get to check dates and reload it! At least we didn't lose anything,, except now we get to be horrified by how old some of the stuff is! I found garlic bread from 2015!!! If the Covid doesn't get us the old frozen stuff will! Oh well, time to toss it
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My older sis FaceBook video called me last night at 10:30pm. We spent like 4 hours talking. It could have been much shorter but I've always had difficulty cutting conversations short... At least this time we did it with the video camera off. I've always felt so self conscious seeing myself on that small screen. I didn't even know we could turn it off but still talk.
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Feeling contrarian about using Zoom (etc) to socialize.

I’m blessed to work full-time from home. And that means staring at a screen for 8 hours; combination of solitary work and video-conferencing.

When friends suggested Zoom (and the like) for catching up, I gamely said “yes.” I honestly thought it would be a fun kick.

Quickly realized that it’s a bit contrived - for my temperament.

In normal life, my friends and I sometimes don’t see each other for 2 or 3 or 4 months. Lotsa texting/calling, etc. But in-person can be infrequent.

Learning the hard way that “catching up” via a grid of unflattering talking heads (and pets/family acting up in the background) does not infuse me with warm fuzzies.

Instead, it floods me with a mega-dose of how abnormal this enforced distancing is.

I’m not going to recuse myself from Zoom-friending altogether. But going forward, I will be mindful of my mental state and stress load before I say “yes.”

Also giving myself permission to back out of any well-intended “yes,” if I find myself overly depleted as showtime approaches.
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Need, your description makes me revive my dream of a little caravan for myself! Just one hotplate, tiny fridge. One of those retro teardrop shaped ones, all decked out with retro fabric...
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I have heard it is ‘she shed.’ Seems like there could be a better name than that, right?

I had an efficiency apartment when I was young. Kind of like a ‘she shed.’

Beatty.

You said to Yoda not to call it a kitchen. Hahaha. This place had a tiny kitchen but I did not know how to cook much then.

The fridge had stuff to make sandwiches and sometimes a dozen eggs. I could cook scrambled eggs. I bought milk and juice sometimes.

I didn’t eat a whole lot. I was too broke. Hahaha
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Xray,

I am so very sorry about your diagnosis. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I wish your mom had not done that. It wasn’t her place to tell anyone, let alone announce it on Facebook.

I’m going to send nothing but positive thoughts your way, along with a bazillion hugs. 💗
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My "Whine Moment " today is that my narcissistic mother has struck again!
Hours after I told her about my colon cancer diagnosis, she posted it on Facebook!!
I was able to talk to my kids before they saw it, however, my husbands family had to see it on FB first.
I am mad as Hell, but know that calling her out will only cause her uncontrollable crying and the ensuing hang up!
Why on earth would she think it's ok to post about my life? Ugh!!!!
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The 'She' version of Man Cave is called a Home.
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Since the office where I worked has been closed since the middle of March, and volunteering has been suspended at the hospital, I keep forgetting what day it is :P

Makes me wish I kept that "day clock" that I had bought for my Dad that showed him what day it was. That would be handy to have now.

If my folks were still alive, I keep wondering how they would deal with the C-19 virus. I think Dad would be very careful, but Mom would still want to visit all the grocery stores for sales, and NOT wear a mask.
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Golden,

My daughter called and told me that she is learning to share her mailbox with a giant spider! LOL

My daughter is terrified of spiders and apparently this spider is on her mailbox in the evening but not during the day so she told me that she started getting her mail earlier in the day. Kind of funny.

This is my kid that took forever to learn to share! Sharing came naturally to my oldest daughter. The younger one was a different story. I raised them the same but it just goes to show how all kids have their own distinct personality.

The older child was like me as a kid. I listened, pretty much took things at face value. Oh my gosh, my younger daughter took nothing at face value! LOL If I told her the library was closed so we had to go another time to get a new book to read, she didn’t believe me!

Once I got so frustrated that I drove her to the library and let her pull on the door handle to prove to her that indeed it was locked and closed until the morning. I took them every week for new books but they inhaled books and always wanted to read more.

I had parent/teacher conferences with her preschool teacher because she did not share the crayons with her best friend. After being in the ‘time out’ chair a few times she finally learned to share!
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I heard she shed, too.

My whine for today is I went for the mail yesterday and got my first bug bites of the season. I don't remember feeling or seeing any insects around but, the sneaky critters found me. Three bites on my shoulder, one on my chest and one on my face -nasty big red itchy bumps. Cortisone cream is helping.
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