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Lest we all dream too big, even the luxury RV's must be emptied or connected and reconnected to the sewer; or at the dump station, and someone's got to do it! Lol.
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Pam,

Are you a gypsy too? I am a gypsy at heart! We need to become friends with Dolly who posts on this site. I so envy her! LOL. Pam, can I please be your gypsy twin?

My favorite Mardi Gras costume as a kid was a gypsy. I had the peasant top, long ruffled skirt. The big bangle earrings and tons on bangle bracelets. Mom let me wear some of her make up and fixed my hair. I rocked it!
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I know I have posted on here before about my "dream home".. LOL I want a tricked out RV parked in a place with lots of trees and some privacy,, but of course with good internet, TV and all the hook ups! Dream on Pam,,,
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Send, it would be nice if I had the money for a luxury vehicle!
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Sounds like you require a luxury RV, GA.
Wouldn't that be nice?
I want a Roadtrek or Pleasureway, the older models are smaller, both in height and in length. Length can be 19 ft., like a van.

The next time there is a power outage, I would be gone on vacation. My food would not spoil, and I would have air conditioning. And Tweety could come too.
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Worried, I think the locking gas tank caps are well worth the money, if for no other reason than peace of mind that someone can't siphon or contaminate the gas.    I've read periodically of that happening.   And there are just too many people with nefarious intents.

I saw a car with what appeared to be no door for access to the gas tank cap; the cap was open and visible.   Probably not the same as the one you described, that can be opened with just a push.   

Sometimes there's no real common sense behind some of the features on new cars.   

But for a $63K truck I would expect not only a protective device for gas, but probably a massage unit in the seat backs for tired backs, extra heat at the base of the feet for cold feet in winter, tinted windows, or in states where they're illegal, at least some protection from the sun.

Something to heat coffee and cool water might be nice as well.   

But then, I'm just a car user, not a designer.
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There is a new poster called MidKid. Kind of confused me at first.
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CM and Beatty, 😂

My husband and I are married 41 years. We definitely don’t load the dishwasher the same. As long as the dishes are loaded and get clean, mission accomplished is my attitude.

My engineer husband rearranges after I load it! Drives me crazy! He has to have it all aligned perfectly! Who cares? As long as they are clean. Not me! He does care.

We do put dishes away the same. My cabinets are organized. Cutlery too!
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Oh Countrymouse you make me laugh!

Just today, the kitchen guy at my work was tisking over the (unsorted!) plastic cutlery someone dumped into the teaspoon section. It was truly offending him.

Yes we all have our little ways... he he.

My DH couldn't understand why I replaced the red patterned tissue box he bought for the bathroom with a green one. It's summer for one thing - we need something like a cooling fern print. Red is definately to be cozy in the lounge - in winter.

He thinks I am bonkers...
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Yes, Beatty? And?

I would love your MIL, too. It makes my ears tingle when cutlery isn't sorted and aligned. Also cup handles must all face the same way. My dishwasher stacking - though I do say it myself - is a thing of geometric beauty.

I'm not blowing my own trumpet, mind; what I can't understand is how other people can just shove stuff in higgledy-piggledy and not be twitchy about it all morning.

I am currently having a silent, unacknowledged war with a fellow worker. I have been doing lunches this week, he or she has been doing evenings. The client has a display stand, next to her kettle, for her rather nice everyday cutlery - six each of forks, knives, dessert spoons and teaspoons. And SOMEONE keeps putting these in the drawer with the rest of the kitchen and dining cutlery. And I keep taking them out again and hanging them neatly - and, I assert, correctly - on the stand.

As this crucial point does not appear in the care plan I may have to bring it up at a handover meeting.
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I love my MIL but every teaspoon has to be sorted (pattern, non-pattern) & faced the right way in the drawer. And that's just a small part of a cutlery drawer..
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Lol @ Beatty.😁
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It wouldn't be so bad except I've never gotten along with my M I L.

She's an impossible person. Very moody and needy. It just would not work.
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Gershun "I just couldn't have M I L in our home".

The words that jumped out was *our home*.

*Our home* would become HIS home!

State it fancy or state it plain... "We would all get along so much better if we lived separately from your Mother 😊" or "Move her in & watch me move out, take half the furnishings, demand the house be sold & my half paid out so I can downsize elsewhere👢 ".
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Gershun,

I don’t blame you. It’s too hard. It just is. Don’t take on that responsibility.
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I still worry about what might happen when my F I L dies. He is 90 now and my M I L is only 84. They still live somewhat independently in their own home. But I get scared thinking what may happen if F I L should die cause I just couldn't have M I L in our home. I've made it pretty clear to my hubs how I feel about it but you never know what might happen when you aren't just speculating and it becomes a reality.
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Yoda,

You’re a smart man! Having said that we have all had our own circumstances.

Sometimes it is unavoidable or emotions have interfered in our decisions or we just didn’t look far enough ahead. No one can tell the future. For some, it does work out and good for them.
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After our children left home, there was no way in _(&*()) that her mom was going to move in with us and I agreed.
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Empty nester my hiney! My hubs is still shell shocked that our daughter moved out and in the same year my folks moved in.. LOL Maybe someday?
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Tee,

Great question! Empty nesters?

Nope! And it’s harder too. Children grow up. The elderly go backwards becoming more and more needy. It’s tough!
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Are you still considered an empty nesters if your children have moved on but you are caregiver to your Mother 24/7/365?
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My dad tried three times to get my mother up from the couch to go to the bed and didn't wake my brother or I to help. He couldn't get her up and ultimately I guess she did it herself. We can't talk about this in my house, so I am frustrated that we can't ever communicate properly about the real issues at hand. She will be angry today, and I am not looking forward to that.
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GA i was going to order one of those off amazon for the truck but hubby not to waste the money! The new car doesn’t even have a gas cap which surprises me. I am surprised the car didn’t come with a locking mechanism for the door to the gas tank. You just gently push the little door and it pops open. I would have thought it would require you to push a button in the car to unlock the gas door but no.....it’s unlocked and there’s no gas cap. Not what I would have expected on a $63k vehicle!

other whine moment about this car.....it has a bad fuel injector and I have to take it to the dealership on Wednesday. At first they said there was nothing wrong with the car but they asked to keep it i Er night so they could start it in the morning when it’s cold and see if something pops up. So I already had to leave the car overnight once and now I have to take it back on Wednesday to get the fuel injector replaced. Apparently New Chevy and GMs Have bad fuel injectors. They had to order the part which is why it hasn’t been replaced yet. Hopefully the gas mileage will be better once the fuel injector is replaced!
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Worried, I got a locking gas tank cap b/c of the possibility of someone either stealing gas or putting dirt or something in it.
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In early January a dirty rotten thief stole gas out of my husbands truck. We have cameras and unfortunately at the time, the camera angle wasn’t set to capture the side of the truck so we didn’t catch the thief on camera. However other night around 3am the same dirty rotten thief may have returned to steal from us again.....as our cameras captured man dressed in what appears to be painters clothes walk up to our hose and cut about 10 feet off and walk across the srreet. A piece of a hose is how thieves are able to siphon gas out of vehicles. Hubby says the guy is lucky he wasn’t awake when it happened. Sad times we live in when even your hose isn’t safe from thieves!
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When your mother lives with you and you are her caregiver 24/7/365 and she is totally dependent on you because of LBD and can only feed herself. I do feel for her, but I need a day off! A day where I don’t have to even think about her. Diapering, dressing, washing, fixing meals, bringing her to the bathroom, I do have 2 days a week when my husband is home, but if I go out I still have to do all these things for her, he just makes sure she doesn’t fall. When I get home I get she needs to be changed, or she is hungry, or she puked.
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Grrrrrr...We had another person killed by a float in a parade yesterday. One of the super krewes, Endymion parade. It’s one of our most popular parades. So disturbing.

The first death was because the parade goer was drinking too much. Not sure about the death yesterday. They have to investigate it. People get carried away with partying here.

Some people go where there aren’t barricades that protect the crowd. If the crowd pushes trying to reach for the throws they fall and get run over by the float. Some people foolishly aren’t being careful trying to catch the throws. That’s crazy.

It’s not the driver’s fault. It’s not the police’s fault. Our cops are great with crowd control but we have a shortage of policeman now. They need to pay them more.

I have never been a person uncomfortable or afraid of crowds but this is making me uncomfortable. Not sure if I want to be close to the floats Mardi Gras day.

I don’t go where there is a ton of drinking. I go in a section of mostly families uptown but still. They are banning tandem floats. They are trying to prevent these tragic accidents.
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Golden,

We really are fortunate. It’s part of our culture. The talent seems to run in families here. We also have NOCCA here now New Orleans Center for Creative Arts. Students have to audition to be accepted. It’s a fabulous school for musicians, artists, actors, etc.
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need - you are fortunate to have such talent in your city. I can see why you love it there.
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