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Need, golden, Gershun and PB: Thank you. After reading about BPPV and the Epley Maneuver that Lea's mother had done and Lea's dizziness, I knew that I wasn't going to be able to endure an ER visit. Hopefully I can see my primary care physician this week.
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Stay upright LLama! Hope this passes.
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Llama, my husband has/had BPPV. A Dr taught me how to watch his eyes to determine which direction to roll him - the Epley maneuver. Also, the Dr said to pop an antihistamine when a bout starts.

His first bout was huge. His BP and heart rate seesawed so fast he passed out and hit the ground. He had 3 more episodes, and each one lessened in severity. He hasn’t had one in over 5 years. No idea what started them or why they stopped. Just so relieved.

Good luck to you!
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Ali: Wow! So sorry for your husband and that he passed out. I believe that mine may be ear related - something about calcium crystals. I will research it more when I am feeling better. Thank you.
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Ana,

Your husband had a great doctor who helped you to see these signs. We aren’t as fearful when we know what to look out for.

Thanks for sharing this information. Others who suffer with this issue will be helped by your advice.
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Llama, BPPV occurs when a crystal(s) find its way into the semicircular inner canal (the Epley man. rolls it back out) and argues with your visual perception of your orientation. My husband’s BP and heart rate fluctuated due to stimulation of the vagus nerve. He may have triggered it with dehydration and stress. He now carries water, is more aware of his thirst, and takes Vit D in the winter. All his EKGs were good. He was himself maybe 36 hours after the big bout. A few hours later after subsequent bouts.
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get well soon llama!! :)
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Every year it gets more difficult for me to find any meaning in holidays, having once religious celebrations morph into secular ones just makes them feel wrong and pointless.
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Why? People don't have to be religious to enjoy a holiday. Most holidays were originally pagan and the churches back then took these holidays and made them religious.

Life for most is pretty mundane with repetitive daily tasks and obligations. Holidays are a way for people to get out of that daily grind and relax a little.

The sad part for me is how few holidays there are in a year.
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sp19690..you are right about pagan celebrations. (Easter is the first Sunday after the first full moon after the equinox..if that isn't pagan I don't know what is!)
the Church in many instances took the pagan day and made it a religious day because it was "easier" to get people to accept the religious aspect if it somewhat was at the same time as a day they "normally" would have celebrated. And it may also have been due to the fact that pagan rituals could be carried out under the guise of religious celebration.
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Why? Because I can't mentally blend the solemnity of Good Friday with a day of parties and celebrations. And the Easter bunny and Santa Claus seem like a sweet addition to those celebrations but when they become the whole celebration it feels pretty meaningless after the age of 5 or so. So in order to preserve the family I've had to gradually abandon the religious traditions that once brought me joy, and now all of it is just feels like another obligation that brings nothing.
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I was raised Catholic . My husband was raised Jewish. Neither of us practice . We both have issues with some of the beliefs of our religions and particularly how they view women in certain circumstances .

On our own, we taught our kids the similarities and differences between the two religions and how religions in general don’t agree, which is why I in particular always questioned, since I was very young, how anyone is to know which of the many religions to believe or follow . Organized religion is not for me , too many “man” made influences as well as wars over religion .

When I want to feel closer to “God”, or whatever the “possible unknown powers” are to “ pray” , I go to a spot in nature to meditate . My first choice is the beach , but if not , any beautiful space outside will do like a park.

I do appreciate that organized religion brings comfort to many. I just wish in general that religion wasn’t used by some as an excuse to discriminate , hate, or cause other conflicts. People should be free to believe and practice or not believe or practice.

When we were dating my husband asked to come to my house and trim our Christmas tree with us because he never did it growing up. Our neighborhood we grew up in was very Catholic . My husband said he always felt like the odd family not having Christmas lights. He still loves Christmas decorations and lights . He also did not want our children to feel left out as he did as a kid , so Santa Claus came to our house .

Holidays are fun family time as we have carved out our own family traditions and welcome breaks from everyday life .
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Easter has become a really special day for my younger grand-nephew and I. My mother read to him almost daily during her last years, including the day before her death. When Mom became more bedridden, we moved his train table into her room and he would frequently play with the trains and other toys as he conversed with "Grandma". He was only 6 when she died but now nearly 2 years later, he still plays in her room and does not want his train table or his books moved; says he still feels Grandma's presence in the room, kinda like when she was sleeping as he played. We still sit in her recliner and read, only now he reads some of the books to me. After he asked me several times to visit her grave, I took him with me on her birthday and then at Easter to place some flowers. Easter has not just become a celebration of Christ's resurrection, but a day when we express gratitude Grandma is now healed and in heaven with her parents, siblings, cousins, and many friends. I am amazed how much this little boy continues state he misses Grandma and "remembers" places we went with Grandma (to Chick-fil-a's playground or the local pool) given his young age now and at her death. He asked yesterday if I would be putting flowers on the graves this Easter and when I said yes asked if he could come with me. I don't recall such devotion in my own life when young, but maybe that's because I didn't lose someone I was really close to until age 28.
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happy easter!! ❤️🙂

the world is full of mannnny religions.

:)
no particular day BELONGS to only one set of people.

for some,
—easter is about chocolate. why not.
—for others, it’s about christianity.
—for others it’s about the easter celebration (pagan) that already existed wayyyy before christianity. easter in that context, was (and for some people still is) about the equinox, the changing of seasons (just as “xmas” was actually the winter solstice celebration, start of winter). easter was celebrated as the start of spring, and all that’s blooming! hope! new! goddess of spring. and celebrating the cool fact that during the equinox: every location on earth (except the extreme poles) experiences the same number of hours of day/night; 12 hours of daylight and 12 hours of darkness. :) :)

we have freedom of religion, freedom of belief.

let everyone decide for themselves what a particular day means to them.

example:
9 april (by chance that’s today, easter sunday)
1940
was the german invasion of norway

another example:
today is my dear friend’s bday

no one owns the definition of a particular day.

❤️🙂
that’s why we have freedom of religion, freedom of belief
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BOJ,

I totally agree with you on our freedom of belief!

One should also be free to acknowledge their religious beliefs though, or not, it’s a choice that we get to make for ourselves.
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LOL. I'm not saying people can't celebrate their religion (or lack of religion) in any way they choose, I'm just mourning my personal feeling of loss and meaninglessness. Given the many stress filled posts around American thanksgiving and at Christmas there are plenty of caregivers who seem to feel the same way.
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cw,

There is so much commercialism in holidays now. We start seeing items in stores for Christmas so early. Thanksgiving is sort of brushed aside.
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I am thinking of my friend who is having a very difficult time with her mom right now. She claims to be such a wonderful “Christian”woman.

Geeeeez, the major reference regarding religion in her family is telling her children that they are all going to hell! Then, she wonders why they have strayed from the church! LOL 😆

Her daughter told her that she wasn’t setting a good example of showing the love that Christ has for us.
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It’s kind of chilly here this morning, in the high 50’s. I am sure that it will warm up later.
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For me the meaning of Easter, for example, comes from my personal beliefs and not from how society treats the day. I am sorry you feel loss and meaninglessness, cw. I hear what you are saying. Life around Christian holidays is very different from what it was. I guess I have adapted to accepting what is going on outside me without changing what is going on inside me.

Totally agree, we are free to make our choices.

Chilly here but warming up - supposed to be high of 8C (46F) which melts the snow. Half the back lawn is green now and a few very small patches in front, but the banks of snow along the driveway are still several feet tall. Rocky is enjoying being outdoors again.
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My Easter candies of choice would be those horribly sweet thumbprint sized colourful eggs that have a hard shell and white inside, jelly beans, cadbury cream eggs, a Mr Munchy chocolate bunny.... but neither of those are as good as they used to be. When I was little we each got one of those hollow chocolate eggs with candied flowers on them, I liked saving the flowers for last.

I haven't found a carrot cake that lives up to the one I lost the recipe for (but if you serve me a slice I'll be polite and eat it anyway 🤣)
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I don't eat much chocolate but like those hard shell candies too.
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Way,

I totally get what you’re saying about religion. I was raised Catholic and attended Catholic schools. There are many beautiful beliefs in the Catholic Church but I certainly don’t believe in everything that they teach.

Like you, I believe much of the Catholic faith is man made. That could apply to most other religions too though. They add their own spin to it.

My oldest daughter’s best friend has parents like the two of you. Her mom was raised Catholic. Her dad is Jewish and previously lived in New York. It was important to him that the children were raised Jewish and it didn’t matter as much to her so the children attended Hebrew school and their synagogue.

The mom shared her faith and she put up a Christmas tree. He celebrated Hanukkah/Chanukah. Their children had the best of both worlds, double the celebrations, double the presents!

The conversations between my daughter and her best friend growing up were adorable. We would attend certain functions with them. My child went to Catholic school and her friend attended public school and Hebrew school.

At her friend’s functions they had games for the children. My daughter knew all of the answers to the questions. Her friend, Rebecca would say to my daughter, “How do you know all of the answers? You’re Catholic! I’m Jewish!”

My daughter told her, “I learn about more than Jesus in our religion class. I study the Old Testament in school. We have the Old and New Testament in our Bible.”

I miss Rebecca. She lives in California now. My daughter stays in touch with her on Facebook.
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cw,

I like the name, Mr. Munchy! Cute!
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I get a bit sad not having many childhood memories. Had loving parents but my mother was&still is impatient. My late father was too critical, and those discussions were always at the dinner table.
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i just got sign of life from sendhelp!! :)
yeay!! :)
i saw a click of "like" on my post asking where is sendhelp.

by the way, as warned, i myself will be gone a while.
i'll be very, very, very busy eating chocolate eggs. you have no idea how many i bought.

❤️🙂
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I was just reading how the bunny came to be associated with Easter.

According to German writings from the 1600’s, the Easter Hare, “Oschter Haws” left colored eggs for good children.

I loved dying eggs as a child. Mom would sometimes give us a wax crayon so we could write our name on our eggs. The dye couldn’t penetrate the wax.
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I’m the only one awake right now! 🤪 My hubby and daughters are snoozing after their Easter dinner. I think I will make myself a cup of tea.

I rarely take daytime naps.
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❤️🙂
🐣🐣🥚🥚✨✨

i'm no eggs-pert, and i'm going out on a limb here:

but i have a feeling i might have problems after eating my mountain of chocolate eggs. if so, i'll just egg-nore the problems. sounds better than eggs-ercise.
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I’m sorry you are sad Catskie. I feel I’ve lost a lot of memories after caregiving for both my late parents, especially my narcissistic mother . I have better memories from when I was young, preteen . But I seemed to have blocked out certain chunks of time . I thought it was because I was more oblivious when I was young. But my sister that is 10 years older than I , says that my mother was not as difficult when we were young . She could not handle us becoming independent from her .
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