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Getting accidentally kicked off: AC said it’s because the spam filter is over-sensitive and they’re fixing that.
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@Need
“Possibly because it ends up being an attack on a poster which isn’t always fair.”

I get that. But I still find it a shame, because sometimes it isn’t an attack. On the contrary, it’s an opportunity to talk things through. And that’s why I wrote, “still staying respectful”.
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Venting,

Possibly because it ends up being an attack on a poster which isn’t always fair.

My issue is with not correcting the technical issues if that is the problem.

I feel many of us are confused about why we are getting kicked off the forum. Especially, if we aren’t being offensive to other posters.

It’s a mystery!
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@Need
Why? AC decides.

I find it a shame that we can’t openly, still staying respectful, talk in public posts about pasts conflicts between members. I think it should be OK to talk about it. But AC just made a rule now, that it’s not OK to post publicly about past and future conflicts.
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So, I posted a question in the question section. Why was it placed by administrators in the discussion section? If I would have wanted it in the discussion sections I would have posted it there!
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cw,

Yep! True 🤪
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We see you NHWM!

Of course with the new form policy now when people disappear we won't know if they've been locked out accidentally or temporarily banished🤔
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Am I magically back on the site or is it an illusion? LOL 😆

So, all of the posts that are below did not show up as going through. Delayed response in the posting. It’s weird!
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This site is crazy! Kicks me off every time I go to post a question or discussion! Happened to Glad too.

Then the question doesn’t seem to post. Later, the question usually does post past the editing time which is annoying! If I would post the question again there would be a duplicate post, also annoying!

Not posting the question again. If it posts and my stupid autocorrect typed errors, oh well…

Sometimes the site lets me back on quickly and other times not. I’m going to make myself a coffee! I hope AC can figure this out soon.
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So, I see a pattern here. Every time I post a question the site logs me out. Same thing happened to Glad awhile ago.

Of course, then the question doesn’t show up so I can’t even edit it. Oh, but magically then the question appears. Let’s see what happens next.

I tried to post a question. Got logged out! No question appearing yet, it’s always delayed after the editing period. Very annoying! If I post another question there will be a duplicate. Also annoying!

This site has become so unpredictable that who knows what will happen.
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venting,

I want to go exactly as my sweet grandma did. Quick and painless! She just dropped dead. Her heart stopped. She wasn’t sick. She was healthy at age 85, living independently in her own home.

She prayed that she wouldn’t suffer with an Illness for a long period of time like my grandfather. I am so glad that she didn’t suffer.

I think dying in our sleep would be the best way to leave this earth.
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I hope when it's our turn to become elderly, we have an easy time...
Reading so many stories, I get inspired to stay as fit as possible, to try to prevent what I can.
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If you could read my mind....
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Gordon Lightfoot 1938 - 2023


Here's one of his songs that I've always loved - probably my favourite

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfyDs6uXww0
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Techie: Deepest condolences.
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Condolences Tech. That is a sad story.😥
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Tech - condolences on your loss. Such a sad day. Ex sil was so young and the circumstances were so strange. The "maybes" and " if onlys" can haunt us but we need to remember they are a normal part of grieving.

I hope in time you will enjoy the recliner and your memories of this lady who was dear to you. (((((hugs)))))
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Techie,

Very sad story. I’m so sorry. Sending many hugs to you!
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hugggg, TNtechie. ❤️
56 and 69 is young. very different from a long life, well-lived. it's not surprising at all that you're sad.

let's all live & appreciate life to the fullest, knowing that there's no way to know what happens tomorrow.
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Yesterday was a beautiful day - low 70s and sunny - yet it was a downer day for me. I finished cleaning out my ex-SIL's apartment in the AL she lived in after I became her guardian. She died suddenly earlier this month and I moved on to executor of her will which left most things to her daughter. After her daughter took or identified everything she wanted, I invited her sisters and nieces to take what they wanted from her personal possessions and then donated the remainder. I am now in possession of a high end lift chair with all kinds of adjustments (including inflatable headrest and lumbar support) because no one wanted to deal with its weight - not a major consideration when you have access to trucks and young men to move it.

I don't know what happened; she was found dessed in her nightclothes halfway in the tub with the cold water running (drain was open) during a nightime check. They think she had been there for less than an hour. The water could have been turned on as she fell. She was discharged from the hospital 14 hours earlier, having spent 15 days there for treatment of respiratory issues. Maybe I should have had someone spend the night in her apartment, but I thought the hourly checks and the "summons" pulls would be adequate (SIL hated having someone check on her in the apartment) and her daughter was going to stay with her for several days starting the next night.

Both my SILs are deceased now; neither lived very long, dying at 56 and 69. I'm saddened by all the good times they have/will miss (like helping my grand-nephew get ready for prom). And maybe someday soon I will be able to enjoy this fancy recliner (I don't need the lift component yet) without its presence in my home painfully reminding me of who is missing. Is it strange that I find my mother's things to be comforting yet not this chair? Maybe because SIL is my generation?
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Oh my gosh, Golden! I know that I am not going crazy! LOL 😆

That was the quickest fix ever! Let’s see how long it lasts before I am off again!

It’s weird. I couldn’t post right after I posted a couple of questions. I saw where one went through. Not sure if the other one will.

It said that I was logged out so I didn’t even get to proofread it. Same thing happened to Glad when she posted a question awhile back. It logged her out.
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I see your posts
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Am I?
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Need- you are back!
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What a life well lived! My favourites are Turn The World Around and Jump In The Line. Few tunes will make you tap your toes (or better yet, dance!) as enthusiastically as JITL!
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RIP Harry Belafonte

Groundbreaking Singer, Songwriter and Activist, Dies at 96

I think the Banana Boat Song is still my favourite.
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my new motto! :)

🤔 "This will all make sense after coffee."
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