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I swear that my autocorrect is hexed! I proofread and the stupid thing types what it wants to. I don’t always catch the crazy errors. I was tired after getting home from the hospital yesterday.

Should read Joni Mitchell fan like I am, not liking I am. Grrrrrr!
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If you are a Joni Mitchell fan liking I am, please watch the tribute to Joni Mitchell held at the Library of Congress. She received the Library of Congress Gershwin Award. It’s on PBS.

I really enjoyed visiting the Library of Congress years ago. It’s such a beautiful building.
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just received a letter from a friend (my mother’s age) who has known me my whole life. it was so full of compassion. wow it made me feel good.

❤️🙂

i’m sending rays of sunshine to you all, on the forum. keep going!
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I have a friend who is extremely curious about the human body. She should have become a doctor!

She told me not long ago that she was invited by someone that she knew in the field to witness an autopsy. I had to tell her to shut up because I really didn’t want to know all of those details! LOL 😆

She was absolutely thrilled to see the autopsy. Oh, gosh I couldn’t. I don’t have the stomach for that.

My daughter’s friend who has a degree in forensic anthropology did an internship at a morgue.

She said that the only time it got to her was when she saw the young children and babies. I could never, ever work in that field. I am grateful that some people can do this necessary work.
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Freaky things happen with our bodies and in general. This is why my doctor said that they refer to it as ‘practicing’ medicine.

Look at my husband’s situation. Fortunately, his doctor caught it with his own eyes and on film. I love that cameras are used in surgery units in the hospital.

My husband went in for a routine colonoscopy. He had four polyps. There is nothing unusual about that in itself. Polyps are common. I had a polyp that was removed during my colonoscopy.

Anyway, three of my husband’s polyps were successfully removed but when the doctor went to remove the fourth polyp it went inside of his appendix!

The doctor said that he had never seen this happen before but he captured the whole incident on film as proof.

My husband hates the prep for colonoscopy. Poor guy is doing the same prep today for his surgery tomorrow to remove his appendix.

The only way now to remove the polyp out of his body is to remove his appendix which has the polyp inside of it.

No big deal about the removal of the appendix because it doesn’t serve any important purpose. It’s more of a minor inconvenience at this point.

My brother woke up during his colonoscopy and freaked out his nurses and doctor by talking to them.

LOL 😆, the doctor wasn’t amused and ordered the anesthesiologist to put him under again.

My friend kept telling her nurse that she could feel the doctor making the incision while she was getting a cesarean section. The nurse said, “That’s impossible!” She said to the nurse, “I don’t care if you think it’s impossible. I am telling you that I can feel it!”

The baby was resting on a nerve that prevented the anesthesia from functioning properly. As soon as the baby moved my friend was no longer in discomfort.

Yeah, weird things happen all the time.
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Yeah BIL is his own worst enemy, last dr appt he spent more time grumbling about his back/sciatica than his headache (we only know this because sis went along to make sure he was taken seriously🙄). Then when he was asked what the pain was from 1 - 10 and he initially said 10 but when queried if that meant it was the worst pain he'd ever experienced he rolled it back a few points. But seriously, it's not as if his doctor's office doesn't know that this was a man who in the past had been in a car accident and had open heart surgery, IMO they should have never have tried to qualify what he was telling them, especially when the knew he frequently had problems with high INR numbers.
It really was dumb luck that this was even discovered.
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When my brother took her to the ER he didn't listen to the nonsense and demanded a cat scan; doctor took one look and started calling for a neurologist. I think we messed up in not sending a more assertive person with her previously; she was too sick to plead her own case effectively.
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Alva,

I totally agree with you about if we feel different, we should see a doctor. Better to be safe than sorry.

I also agree with TN, some things do slip through the cracks and doesn’t get diagnosed.
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Sometimes even the ER misses it too. My SIL made 2 trips to the ER because of her really bad headache and got basically no treatment, even after she complained of some numbness in her hand. Then my brother came home and found her lying on the bed in her own vomit. She had a ruptured cerebral aneurysm. Doctor reviewed previous ER visits and said it had probably been "leaking" causing the pain and numbness. She beat the odds and lived but suffered 3 strokes post-surgery caused seizures from the blood that leaked into her brain.

She told the ER docs she hadn't had a head injury and the pain was worse than childbirth. They thought she was just trying to get some pain meds...
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A cwillie,
The problem with this sort of bleed isn't so much the bleeding as the pressure of the blood on the brain, whether it goes on so long that it destroys anything in the brain. Then the question is what did it hurt and will it recover? Sometimes they do burr-holes to let the blood escape so pressure is off the area. Many recover completely. Now it's day by day.

As to the headaches, yes, this is how even stroke is missed. A headache that is unusual for you is really an emergency room visit because doctors will think "Oh, headache? Take two aspirin and call me in the morning" sort of thing. Why would they NOT think that. 99 and 44/100th of the time that's what headache is.

My Mom's best friend in retirement said to her one day "I have the most AWFUL headache; going to the house to lie down" and that was that. Bad stroke and gone. Problem with headaches is we all get them all our lives and we ignore them. We would be in the ER every week if we didn't.

Same thing with abdominal pain. We know our guts. Then comes that day that the pain is "different". We KNOW it is different, but can't explain how and figure it will go away. Then comes the perforated bowel or burst appendix.

We can't run to docs with every stomach ache and headache and we don't run to them. Then comes the one that wasn't simple. We always want medical folk to know everything. But they don't. Sadly they don't.

If you have something telling you, some little voice, that "this headache" "this stomach ache" is different, listen to it and go to the ER. Because the doc on the phone, now given 10 minutes per patient in- house, will think, you know, you have headache or stomach ache.

I likely seem like a huge apologist for the medical folk. But I was one. Just now reading Dr. Henry Marsh's (neurologist) latest book. He is now a stage IV prostate cancer patient. Book is called And Finally. I have read other memoirs by him. And he talks in this one about the difference being a patient from a doctor--being both at once. Tough way for a doc to learn what every patient he had feels. And if he DID feel that during his career? He could never do it.
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BIL has been to the doc several times over the last month or two and has been to the optometrist too, how is it that the first thing I thought of when he complained of terrible headaches these last few weeks was a brain bleed but none of these professionals tweaked to this as a possibility? It doesn't pay to be stoic when dealing with healthcare, better to roll around on the floor screaming whether you feel that level of discomfort or not...
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I didn't hear from sis until after midnight, she was stuck at the hospital with a dead car battery and her phone was almost dead too... one problem after another. BIL seems to be in no worse condition than he has been for several weeks, my googling tells me this is likely a subdural haematoma and that it should be treatable. The doctors filled their heads with images of major brain damage but he seems fine?
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cw: Prayers.
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@Need, we still can't send you messages. I got your message telling me that you couldn't post all a.m. Tried to send a message to tell you we all know, all missed you. But I STILL CAN'T send you any messages. It just looks like you blocked private messaging.
I sent an email to Ashley.huntsberry@aplaceformom.com and AshleyH@aplaceformom.com and hopefully that will get through to her, but think that you should send a message to that email as well. I think your thing is still a mess. At least not taking messages.
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Need ,
Wishing DH a speedy recovery . And no more weird things, like what happened during his colonoscopy .
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cw,

How awful! I’m so sorry about your BIL. I will say prayers.
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Two more days until my husband has his surgery. It seems so weird to be taking him in to get his appendix removed because of his strange colonoscopy.
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cwillie,
I sure hope they can get your BIL's INR numbers down and that he's doing better this afternoon.
A brain bleed....that's so scary!
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As an old RN I have always feared the blood thinners more than anything. I have two decades of atrial fib on board and partner more than that; we have stuck to ASA daily. I saw so many reactions to blood thinners, but as it was always pointed out to me, we saw the bad reactions in hospital, not the successful treatments that never came in. I will never know if my fears well founded or not. I wish BIL well, cwillie.
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Prayers for bil. Hope he is going to be OK.
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So sorry, CW. Hope he gets better. Hugs
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BIL on coumadin/warfarin is in ER with brain bleed - was sent to urgent care this morning because his INR was too high 😟
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One my mind! one of my favorite quotes,

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”
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Yes, enough with snow.
Golden, hope all goes well with R’s surgery!
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The first house I rented was one short block from a fraternity. When I needed some heavy furniture or an aquarium moved, I would call the fraternity house and offer $20 for two strong backs for 5-10 mins and I always had a couple of guys show up. When I moved out, I offered $200 to load the house into a uhaul and another $200 to unload the truck at my new house... best money I ever spent.
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Glad's snow is headed my way - it probably won't stick but enough already!
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Was just reading from an article on havenseniorinvestments.com

The population of adults ages 85 and older will double by 2036 and triple by by 2049.

The US will need nearly one million new units in assisted living by the year 2040!

What a business opportunity for investors in assisted living facilities. Wow!

Has anyone read the articles on their website? They are very interesting.

Would be nice to have money to invest in facilities since they state that 7 out of 10 people require assisted living during their lifetime.
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golden: Prayers for R.
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Still feet of snow on the lawns. Usually it is gone by mid April, but not this year! ❄❄❄
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...🌺🌺
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