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🙂 i like learning from elderly people. i saw an interview recently, asking many elderly people what they advise:

--find something you're passionate about. try to make it your job. it would be great if you say, "i can’t believe i get paid to do this!"
--learn something new every day
--if someone comes at you, yells at you, or insults you, look the other way
--just be a good person. if you’re a good person, somehow everything works out to be good.
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Amen to having a little boring!

May we all be blessed with some.

Love you all! May The Lord bless and keep us all this day.
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cat - I could use a little "boring". Nothing wrong with that. I used to say, "All I want is a little humdrum".
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Reading everyone's stories about growing up makes me realize... I've lived (and still do)a pretty boring, sheltered life. 😁
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Way, thx. It is scary. As Need points out every area has their problems, but not all are as lethal. Where I grew up we had the occasional earthquake but nothing that damaged property.

In 2016 when I drove away from the house, bumper to bumper traffic for miles, I had no idea if, within a couple of days, my house would still be standing . I eventually found one of the oil sands work camps associated with a huge processing plant. Another evacuee there said "Oh the fire can't come here". I said "Sure it can." And it could have.

Fortunately the wind changed and it moved east away from us. I was one of the lucky ones to be flown out. My son here and his wife got through by highway. My dd and fam were in another camp and some of the last ones flown out. I couldn't breathe properly until l I knew they had landed in Edmonton safely. R was in Edmonton at the time and beside himself thinking of volunteering for fire fighting. NO!!! Oldest son J had us, all his family, up here. It was a strange and difficult time.

Yes, the condo is in a safer area, another one of my reasons for moving. Not that there aren't fires, but it is built up so you don't have the acres and acres of forest that is so flammable in dry seasons. We here and also Fort Chip are totally surrounded by forest. It will end once it rains and rains and rains.
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Golden ,

Sounds like a scary HE ** (double hockey sticks) . Is your condo in a less fire prone area ?

I hope this ends soon . Stay safe . 🙏🏻
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Thx, send. Most of the houses in the 2016 fire were left intact, though a couple of subdivisions were essentially levelled. A few people did stay and were fine. I am not the least bit interested in staying in my house and being burnt. It would have been possible to stay and be safe.

My dd watched her dogs on someone's security cam. They were eventually rescued and returned to them but after the fire in town was out. She wasn't able to bring them with her.

It's not like a flood which covers all of an area. Some areas are burnt but one or a few houses may be OK. Other areas are OK but one house may be burnt.

Yes, it does raise emotions (and hormones) for sure. I know how the people in Fort Chip are feeling right now.

Bless God it rained last night here - not much but any is better than none.
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Prayers for you Golden, and the many people who have had to evacuate their homes.
I know it feels safer to try to stay in your home sometimes, rather than drive through fire. Or leave your home and get to the main street and you go nowhere, because it is bumper to bumper with smoke in the area.

It does bring back all those past fires, the minute you smell smoke, and have to be on alert for quite awhile.

It raises our cortisol levels for sure.

Any rain in your forecast?

The river is a good idea!
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Golden,

Absolutely a miracle!
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Need, I actually didn't see much but smoke. Some people leaving their homes here drove through an inferno of burning houses and trees. It was a miracle no one was hurt.

I have driven along the highway with fire on either side but not out of control. .I drilled my children as they grew up that if there was fire and I or another adult wasn't there to head for the river
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Golden,

I can’t imagine what that must be like. It has to be terrifying to watch everything literally going up in flames.

I worked with a woman who accidentally left a candle burning. Her cat knocked it over and her entire house burned to the ground. She was so upset about losing her home and her cat.

Fires spread so rapidly. She said that she would always make sure that she extinguished all candles before leaving for work. After going through what she did, I don’t know if I would ever have a desire to burn any more candles!

I burn candles when I soak in the tub. I have candles that have covers. I put the cover on immediately after my bath.
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Llama, smoke from our 2016 fire went as far south as Texas I believe. There is the potential for a very large area to burn from this present fire.

Our fire started May 1 and was under control 2 months later, but continued to smoulder for over a year and covered about 1,500,000 acres. This one could be very large too.

Thanks need. I hope it isn't burnt either. The old church there was burnt down last year but they believe it may have been arson. Katrina did a huge amount of damage, I know.
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Golden,

How awful! We are good at evacuation too but for a different natural disaster, hurricanes.

Most places have to contend with something, fires, floods, tsunamis, hurricanes, tornadoes, earthquakes or volcanoes.

I would hate to see a historical part of town destroyed too.

New Orleans had to rebuild after Katrina. Some things cannot be replaced and it is truly sad.

Praying is about all you can do at this point. I certainly hope that the area isn’t destroyed by the fires.
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golden: Here in Maryland we are seeing some haze from the fires, unbelievably.
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The oldest settlement in Alberta, Fort Chipewyan, north of us is being evacuated as I write due to the forest fires. It's bringing back memories/flashbacks of our evacuation in 2016. People are being flown out or boated out. I taught a class up there by videoconferencing for years as part of my job here and made trips up as part of the course and also for personal reasons. My ex had family in that community. I have many good memories of Fort Chip and the people there.

Fortunately we are good at evacs. Accommodation has been arranged here and in the town up the river where the boats will dock. Even pets will be cared for as much as possible. However I know it is hard leaving your home. I pray that they contain the fire so that the town isn't burnt down. It is of historical and cultural importance and started as a trading post in 1788 and it is for some the only homes they have ever known.

My heart goes out to them.
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Yes, it's slow for me too. Hopefully that means they are implementing some updates.
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Anyone else finding this site to be very slow in loading content? It’s taking a long while before I can read or post anything.
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TN, Geaton, Way and sp,

Sounds like you have great memories!

It’s funny that you mentioned a studio apartment.

One of the happiest times in my youth was when I was living in a studio apartment.

I wanted a change, a fresh start in a new place. I decided that I didn’t want to have to rely on a roommate in a larger apartment.

So, I rented a one room/kitchen/bathroom attic apartment, completely furnished in beautiful antiques.

I adored the deep claw foot tub! My apartment was on top of a fairly large home so it was a decent sized attic.

Cat,

I know right! I truly hope this is a relatively calm hurricane season for us.
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My "home base" has always been within 10 miles of my parents' home (where my dad lived for over 80 years) although I have kept "working" homes and apartments in a variety of cities where I worked between 8 months and 6 years at a time. I particularly enjoyed my 4th floor studio apartment in Washington DC, two blocks from a metro stop on M street. We got a per diem and I found this B&B listing and negotiated a monthly rate that allowed me to leave my clothes and a sorta office (folding table, power strips, printer) in place when I took the plane home most weekends. Had mom and the nephews come up on my vacation; enjoyed pointing out to my coworkers the crime stats on my metro stops were better than their parking garage and I didn't get caught in traffic (most of them stayed in a hotel outside of DC and rented a car).

So I learned to drive and the kids (some of the kids are in their 40s now) did too in the TN hills. We have a few laughs about the snow weather transplants that run their mouth about us turning out or delaying the start of school because of a "little inch of snow" when they learn our "wet" snow on a surface that changes elevation and direction frequently is a different challenge than driving on 8 inches of powder on a flat surface. My favorite is the guy that planned to stop at the end of his driveway and slid across the street, ended up in a culvert in about 1/4 inch of our typical snow/ice mix.

BTW: Memphis is a different place than Johnson City; no mountains (just Mississippi delta flat land) and a Democratic party run big city with most of the problems that come with that. JC has more diversity in cuisine but not as much great barbecue and fresh seafood. We've had a lot of immigrant families settle here over the years and have some good Asian restuarants in addition to most of the chain places. The family favorites are a Mexican, a Japanese, and a Chinese restuarant; mostly home food is mostly cooked at home...
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I grew up in Bergen County (NJ) 1 mile from the NY state line (and could see the GW bridge from a high point in my town). In highschool, we had a tradition where after the prom we'd stay up all night then drive to the Jersey shore to spend the day baking on the beach (pre-sunscreen years) and working off hangovers (since the drinking age was 18 and DUI laws didn't exist yet). How did we ever make it to adulthood in one piece??
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sp19690, Smith Point is where we went most of the time as well . Do you remember the salt water taffy and the snack bar as kids ? When we took my kids, there was always a Mr. Softee ice cream truck in the parking lot .

Random thought , I miss Dairy Barn too . A drive through for milk , bread , eggs etc . Was great if I had a sick kid and DH was away for work . Just drive through with a sleeping kid in the car seat . But now can always have food delivered . They had the best ice cream sandwiches .
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Way SmithPoint was my favorite beach but we also went to long and short beach. I remember short beach had tons of horseshoe crabs. Never went to the Hamptons.
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sp19690, we never went to the Jersey shore or any other beaches besides Long Island beaches growing up . I miss just going on a whim . When the kids were young DH and I would pack a picnic dinner and take the kids after work on a whim if the weather was nice . When we were dating we drove out to the Hamptons to catch a glimpse of movie stars …..you just had to act like you belonged there and keep moving at a decent pace when you walked along the shoreline at the water ( not walk up close near the houses) on the private beaches 😂😂 and nobody would kick you off . We took the kids to see the snow on the beach too, went all seasons . And of course to see the waves after a hurricane
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Another former Long Islander here. We used to go to Wildwood, NJ every summer.

As a kid I used to think the drive took forever but come to find out when I map quested it that it was only a 4 hour drive. 4 hours in kid time was like a million hours.

Wildwood is not the same as it was in the eighties from the pics I see online now. I loved all the kitchy hotels they had back then. Great times.
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TNtechie,Sounds lovely . My husband use to go to Memphis on business trips with a job early in our marriage . He loves the bbq. Was offered a position there . Hubby loved the Germantown suburb . But at the time we were younger than 30 and still lived near where we grew up on Long Island , NY. We couldn’t take the offer and be so far from the ocean . Ended up moving to Pennsylvania when we were 40 in order to keep his job and pension. But we can get to the shore in New Jersey quickly . We also like beaches in Delaware , Maryland and Virginia Beach . We also like that we can still get to New England from here . When we lived on Long Island we used to take the car ferry to Connecticut and from there drive to the rest of New England .
I wanted to visit Myrtle beach , hubby doesn’t like the alligator problem they have there. I’d also like to go to the outer banks in North Carolina , I have a friend that goes nearly every year .
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Tmorrow the 2023 Hurricane season officially starts. There's already a disturbance in the Gulf. Oh goody..😟
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Maybe I should move to Tennessee. My Nephew& his SO live in Clevland .
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Techie,

Sounds lovely.

I have visited the Smokey mountains (Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge) several times. The mountains are beautiful, especially in the fall.

We don’t have the beautiful autumn foliage here. The very first time I saw the red, gold and orange leaves, I told my husband that it looked like God took a paintbrush and painted the leaves magnificent colors!

We have been to Memphis a few times as well. That’s a totally different vibe. Great BBQ and music though.

You are in a great area to visit other places. I don’t know if I would acclimate easily to driving in the mountains. My husband does well driving in the mountains.

I was surprised how well my daughter acclimated to Colorado. She can’t wait to move back.

Did you grow up in the mountains? You learned how to drive in the mountains if you did. What about your children and nephews? Are they driving yet?

I have to admit that I am a horrible driving instructor! LOL 😆 I was a nervous wreck when they were learning to drive.

My girls preferred their dad showing them how to drive, plus we signed them up for driver’s education classes.
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If you're looking to move somewhere (other than where your kids are).Johnson City TN and surrounding area is a good place; the "tri-cities" is 3 towns about 20 miles apart with 50,000-70,000 people each. Cost of average house is about $200,000 with $2500 a year in taxes. Car tags are about $22, except when we have a state tax holiday and they are only $5.25 (local road tax). This year we are going to have a food sales tax holiday for 3 months. No state income tax, the sales tax in my county & city is 11.25%. Johnson City has a multiple universities, a technical college, medical school and a pharmacy school. Four distinct seasons: some years have a little snow (usually of 1-2 days duration) and while summer is hot only August is really muggy. Spring and fall are gorgeous. The mountains usually protect from storms, although they can made driving a challenge if you're accustomed to flat lands.

Although we have relatively small towns around, we are between Asheville NC (60 miles) and Knoxville (100 miles) - just down an interstate highway. Myrtle Beach, Charleston, Washington DC and Atlanta are all about 5 hours drive time away. I prefer to drive to Charlottesville and take Amtrak into DC; much easier to get out of town on a Friday afternoon.

Crime isn't a big deal unless you are involved in some way with drugs; mostly thefts from empty houses during working hours. We do have an occasional dispute between a couple of drunks or a divorcing couple that ends up with someone getting shot. On the other hand the two stranger/active shooter incidents within a hundred miles and over 20 years were both ended by an armed civilian with 2-3 total casualties.

I'm very biased. I have traveled the entire country and do not know of anywhere as lovely or generally safe and peaceful as East Tennessee. Our idea of "traffic" is cars traveling down the interstate at 70 mph with only 50-75 ft between them or waiting on a red light. I live beside pastures with multiple grocery stores, pharmacies, parks, and even walmart within a 8-12 minute drive. Plus I have lots of family around!
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Way,

Yep, that’s a good description. Both of my nephews have been married twice. One of my nephews, my godson, his first marriage was in a hotel in Vegas. Yep! Fun time!

I couldn’t live in Vegas either but it is fun to visit occasionally. We went on the way to the Grand Canyon. I think it was about a four hour drive from the Grand Canyon.

Flying to Vegas was cheaper and gas was cheap than so we decided to do both, Vegas first, rent a car and drive to the Canyon.
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