
I'm interested in learning about practical home safety improvements that families have found most helpful for older adults who want to remain independent.
Beyond the obvious items like grab bars and better lighting, are there any small changes that made a noticeable difference in day-to-day safety or comfort? I'd love to hear about real experiences and recommendations.
When we are thinking in this direction sometimes it means they need an in home caregiver or approaching the time to live in a care facility.
You can use a commode over the toilet. Brand new ones should come with a bucket and a splash guard. This gives the person arms to help them get up and the legs can be adjusted for hight. The splash guard takes place of the bucket and the edge needs to be below the toilet edge. The seat can be taken off because the commode has a seat. There is a bar on the back that can be taken off so commode fits over the toilet better.
I got my friend a shower chair and a handheld shower head. I was lucky to find suction cup soap holder, and cup holder. I put these on the level of the shower chair. This way her soap and shampoo were in reach.
I was not aware of how inaccessible many places are until I had to push my husband around in a wheelchair. Things I became aware of (in the home) are:
- It is easier to have your entry door level with the ground, that is, no stairs, and a minimal threshold height.
- I highly recommend a walk -in / ROLL IN shower. Many showers which are designed to be "accessible" really only have grab bars, but do not allow for a shower chair to be rolled inside. Either the glass shower door is not wide enough, or a pre-formed seat in the shower, too high a step, or some other obstacle blocks entry for someone who is in a wheelchair.
- Pay attention to the width of hallways and doorways to bedroom or bathroom. If you haven't had to do it, it is really difficult to maneuver a wheelchair from a narrow hallway through a door opening at a right angle. There is not enough room to turn the chair. Better to have a doorway with a straight-on entrance at the end of a hallway, or extra wide hallways and doorways.
- An electric lift chair/recliner is great for someone who might need help getting up from the chair. Some of the less expensive ones are not very sturdy and not very comfortable, so try them out - sit in them - before buying one.
Hire a housecleaning service, and maybe even meal delivery to make your elder's life a little easier.
And of course, all the suggestions here from others!
No throw rugs. They can cause falls.
Less clutter. It's easier to keep track of and use the important stuff if the important stuff isn't hidden behind unimportant things.
Having someone (a trusted person, such as a family member or friend) who will go to the house at least once per month and check in on the person, including by looking in the refrigerator for bad food, determining whether important mail is piling up, getting a general sense of whether the person truly is still independent.
For the house itself - moving bedrooms, bath facilities and the washer and dryer to the main floor.
Cooking with appliances like counter top ovens and the instant pot that have built in timers so you needn't worry about forgotten cooking starting fires.
Rearrange cupboards and closets so everything is between knee and shoulder height - this is a good time to purge items no longer used.
Lever door knobs are easier for those with limited hand mobility.
If your city/county/region has services for vulnerable adults in case of emergencies make sure you are on the list.
This is all assuming the seniors have good mental acuity, everything becomes much more difficult once dementia comes into play and home care may no longer be practical or possible..
Sure, take steps to keep them as safe as possible now but have a plan once daily care starts burning out the caregivers.