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Um, this is a marriage?

To whom is your dear husband married, you or his mom?

Make two appointments this week, one for a therapist/marriage counselor and the other with a divorce attorney. Go to them both and figure out where this is going.
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EliseM May 2021
I know. Sometimes I feel like he’s her husband as well. She’s been single his entire life so she has always depended on him to do things for her. He’s essentially man of the house. He goes to doctor’s appointments with her. Hospital with her if something happens. I asked him what the plan is and he said he doesn’t know. He just doesn’t want her in a nursing home.
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Sorry, oops, duplicated.

I will let the replies roll in (I can guess the direction).

I am glad you have posted. This is a massive issue & a massive challenge that couples face.
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Hmm.. or.. can I be cheeky?
Here's a plan, & unlike your Husband, you could communicate it before it is in put in motion;
You & kids stay in your current home... Husband & Mother move to the new home.
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EliseM May 2021
I do not want it to come to that. I love him and he’s a good man for the most part. He just wants what he wants.
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