
The sister living with my parent with cognitive disorder has set up babycams and walkie talkies throughout the house. At first, they were hidden until visitors complained.
When visiting, I might disable one temporarily so I can have some private conversations with my parent. I plugged back in the cord before leaving. Other family members do the same.
Has anyone dealt with similar issues?
If the relationship with your sister is not good – for example your sister thinks you are telling M that she is being abused, ripped off, underfed etc, or if your visits upset M – that’s a different matter. However if S is doing most of the caring, it’s best to cut her some slack.