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If he can't afford to live in HIS house, then he should sell it and move. You will need to figure out another arrangement for mom.
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Must you? No. Should you? It depends on his willingness to be open about her care needs and willingness to discuss how the $2,000 she already receives is being spent. That is a sizable amount of monthly income to pay for her needs which sound like groceries and medical supplies. Can you/do you visit? Are you certain he is spending those funds on her needs? I do think it is unfair for one sibling to bear the brunt of all of the physical care needs without some kind of help and support from other siblings. He is obviously the sibling who has the most responsibility. But, if your brother is unwilling to be candid and open about discussing her care, then you need not blindly send him $. Maybe a visit is in order.
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Your brother may die from prolonged stress of his major responsibilities. Mother may be age 101, but she may still outlive your brother and niece, then would then force your mother into a facility; then who would inherit the house? It my have to be sold to care for your mother, so that's why you should contact an attorney to straighten the mess.
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Julia, I agree with everyone who says it was foolish for your mother to give away her savings, rather than saving it for her care.

Your brother may be justified in getting some of that money back to pay for her care, including compensating him as a caregiver.

But, he should be able to provide an accounting of exactly what the expenses are and where the money is going. If he has a history of not managing money well, then there will be no end to his requests for more. People who don't manage money well think it can be solved by getting more from someone else.

If your mother dispersed all of her savings more than 5 years ago, she may qualify for Medicaid assistance. If her income is insufficient to pay for her care needs, then Medicaid will help to pay, including paying a family member as a caregiver.

It sounds like you are more concerned that he is taking complete control and not allowing input from other family members.
There are two very different possible scenarios at play:
1) He could be taking advantage of her, or abusing, neglecting her.
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2) He, like many family caregivers, feels resentment when other siblings want a say, or to criticize, but have not offered any real help, whether hands-on or financial.

So often, family members are critical of the one who is doing all of the work. The caregiver needs real support from family. Unless they are proven to be completely incompetent or abusive, in which case, a call to APS is in order, or the family could petition the court to have the person removed from their position, and have someone else take over. Most family members don't really want to take over the job though.
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