This friend can no longer care for this person left in his care by an ex wife. The person is not a relative. He cannot care for himself and refuses to find help. My friend is thinking of walking out leaving him alone and suffer the consequences. What can I do to help him?
If your friend is not the homeowner or signed on the lease, they should definitely move out. Your friend is in no way obligated to care for this person who refuses to find help. As long as your friend remains the only solution, the disabled person will not look for other solutions. Your friend can always report this person to APS.