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Your mother died a week ago. Maybe let the body get cold before you start demanding to see the Will and the "books". Have some respect.
POA ends when the person dies. In most states the Executor of the deceased person's Will has up to a year to file it in probate court. My guess is you aren't the Executor of your mother's Will. The probate court will notify you when it's filed if your name is mentioned in it. Also, no one has to show you the Will unless you are mentioned in it, and the POA (your sister) doesn't have to answer to you or show you anything.
Now, this is my opinion. Yes POA stops at death. The Executor in in charge of the Will but needs to probate it and get a short certificate to handle the estate. That can't be done until a few days after death. So things are in limbo till then. I was both POA and Executor. I feel that the executor has a right to know where the money went. As POA I kept very good records where my Moms money went so I would not had any problem giving them to an Executor.
If your sister is the Executor when she probates the Will you will then get a copy. She must prove that a letter went out to all beneficiaries and a copy of the Will was included or available upon request. Once the Will is filed its public. There will be an accounting that you will need to sign. Thats the time to contest and you want to see previous POA records. You maybe able to request earlier but if the answer is no, u need a lawyer. Contesting the accounting Will hold up the distribution of the estate.
First of all, my condolences on your loss. In answer, NO. She does not have to show you ANYTHING whatsoever. First of all, her duties as POA are OVER. She either is now the executor of a will or she is not. If the person died intestate (without a will) then she may apply to be Administrator of the estate (which is a sort of executor). She will likely get the right to do this simply by having BEEN the appointed POA.
A POA acts for an elder as the elder appoints and requests until the elder by reason of incompetency cannot act for him/herself. At that point the POA acts in the best interest of the person. THEY KEEP THEIR ACTIONS PRIVATE and do not own any explanations to anyone. A person's financial business is their OWN or the business of the appointed POA. It is not YOUR business unless you were appointed.
Now, let us say that during another being POA for someone in your family you see evidence of fraud? You would then take that evidence to APS, a DA, or an attorney to ask a court to call in the POA to show records to the JUDGE (but NOT to you).
IF this person is now executor, then, if you are beneficiary of a will, know that will is filed for probate in a county and is public record that you or your attorney can check on. Also know that it is usually by law that the "executor or administrator" notifies beneficiaries of a will that they ARE a beneficiary. This notification doesn't specify WHAT you are bene of, simply that you are, and when the estate is "settled" you will have dispersed to you your portion.
So that is that. If you are not administrator or executor and WERE not POA, you just sit tight and hope for good news. I will hope you get good news, as well!
If your Mom's estate had to go into probate then this takes a while. If there are any assets, properties, etc. left after paying off creditors, then this can also take a while to sort through. So, depending on the complexity (if there's a trust, or if real property needs to be sold for cash to be distributed), or if inheritors need to be tracked down, this all takes time for the Executor to deal with.
Do you know who the Executor is?
Many years ago my husband's Aunt passed away. Many months later we received a letter from her Executor and the attorney that he was to receive an inheritance. So, there was a long delay.
POA ceases at death. While the principal is alive, the POA is to act in the principal's best interests and is not obligated to show accounting to anyone, and in fact should keep this confidential. If there was question about how money was being spent by the POA before your mom died, there could have been a legal process started if anything illegal was suspected. After death, since the POA is no longer in effect, there is no way to find out how money was spent.
The executor is the person who handles the will and any disbursements or bequests. The executor will file for probate, if needed, and will see that creditors are paid before any disbursements are made. Those named in the will should be notified and they should receive a copy of the will.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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POA ends when the person dies. In most states the Executor of the deceased person's Will has up to a year to file it in probate court. My guess is you aren't the Executor of your mother's Will. The probate court will notify you when it's filed if your name is mentioned in it. Also, no one has to show you the Will unless you are mentioned in it, and the POA (your sister) doesn't have to answer to you or show you anything.
If your sister is the Executor when she probates the Will you will then get a copy. She must prove that a letter went out to all beneficiaries and a copy of the Will was included or available upon request. Once the Will is filed its public. There will be an accounting that you will need to sign. Thats the time to contest and you want to see previous POA records. You maybe able to request earlier but if the answer is no, u need a lawyer. Contesting the
accounting Will hold up the distribution of the estate.
In answer, NO. She does not have to show you ANYTHING whatsoever.
First of all, her duties as POA are OVER.
She either is now the executor of a will or she is not.
If the person died intestate (without a will) then she may apply to be Administrator of the estate (which is a sort of executor). She will likely get the right to do this simply by having BEEN the appointed POA.
A POA acts for an elder as the elder appoints and requests until the elder by reason of incompetency cannot act for him/herself. At that point the POA acts in the best interest of the person. THEY KEEP THEIR ACTIONS PRIVATE and do not own any explanations to anyone. A person's financial business is their OWN or the business of the appointed POA. It is not YOUR business unless you were appointed.
Now, let us say that during another being POA for someone in your family you see evidence of fraud? You would then take that evidence to APS, a DA, or an attorney to ask a court to call in the POA to show records to the JUDGE (but NOT to you).
IF this person is now executor, then, if you are beneficiary of a will, know that will is filed for probate in a county and is public record that you or your attorney can check on. Also know that it is usually by law that the "executor or administrator" notifies beneficiaries of a will that they ARE a beneficiary. This notification doesn't specify WHAT you are bene of, simply that you are, and when the estate is "settled" you will have dispersed to you your portion.
So that is that. If you are not administrator or executor and WERE not POA, you just sit tight and hope for good news. I will hope you get good news, as well!
Do you know who the Executor is?
Many years ago my husband's Aunt passed away. Many months later we received a letter from her Executor and the attorney that he was to receive an inheritance. So, there was a long delay.
The executor is the person who handles the will and any disbursements or bequests. The executor will file for probate, if needed, and will see that creditors are paid before any disbursements are made. Those named in the will should be notified and they should receive a copy of the will.