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Who in state of florida do I contact to report my dying husband's poa, and girlfriend abuse of myself n his money She has committed fraud, identy theft drained bank accts in which my name was removedI have atty but I'm suffering. I have no water, it's off, no money n very little food.

Shirley, this is what she wrote back in Jan 2025 regarding her husband's girlfriend: She's married too. He's in a nursing home. He's a marine. I am completely cut off from him n he does not have long. Parkinsons Vietnam nam vet She controls everything has his poa, has had MY utilities shut off, talked him into taking our marital home out of my name, poised as me in phone calls. Now I can't reach him as she had me banned from nursing homeI'm scared n broke Any help...oh they owned a business together n she's his poa. Has gotten my phone records, saying she has poa n is entitled. Her name is on our bank n Mines off. He's not supporting me at allI have emails of her threatening me n the cops( I an ex sheriffs deputy) don't care. Help
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jucebub1, back in January of last year (2025) you wrote that you have no water, money, that your husband's girlfriend had committed fraud, taken your name off of bank accounts, etc. And you wrote the same thing several more times over the months.


Writers here have given you advice during the past 14 months but nothing new has happened. You need to speak to your Attorney.
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ShirleyDot Mar 18, 2026
14 months? How could she be surviving this long with no water and no money?
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Right away, call your police department's financial crimes unit. Ask to meet with a detective, and provide as many details as possible. Bring paperwork, copies of notices, etc.

Also call Adult Protective Services and report elder financial abuse.

Go in person to the bank(s) which removed your name from the accounts.

Call the credit card companies and report the fraud.

Call the utility companies. Usually they have protections in place to keep your services from being cut off abruptly.

Call your local women's shelter and tell them this is a domestic financial abuse and abandonment situation. They may have some additional advice and referrals for services.

Bring as much paperwork and documentation as you have. I'm sorry you're in this situation.
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APS

And keep hounding your attorney. I’m so sorry for this distressing situation.
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