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LH- I'm sorry for your wife's loss, and relieved that this caretaking ordeal is over for you both, albeit some loose ends. I hope your wife takes comfort in being able to care for her mom till the end and that her suffering ended peacefully.

I'm glad you found this forum when you needed it. We're happy to be able to help you.

Best of luck to you and your wife. Come back anytime.
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LossingHope Aug 2020
Thank you. I will be around. I hope that with the experience I've gained through this era that I may be of help to someone in the future. I'll keep watching.
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LH, I’m sorry for both you and your wife, and wish you peace in the days ahead
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LossingHope Aug 2020
Thank you.
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LH I am very sorry for your & your wife's loss. It sounded peaceful - that is a blessing.

I will add that it is not wrong to feel a sense of relief at the ending of this long chapter (if you do).

Your wife may not return to 'normal' for a while yet - but this is all part of her now. It may take some time for her to sift through her emotions & weather the grief before you can forge together as a couple again.

Regained Hope is what I shall call you.
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LossingHope Aug 2020
Nice. Regained hope. I'll take that.
I have learned so much about my lady since November.
I've also learned a great deal about myself. I'm not near as strong, or as smart as I thought I was, and I am not invincible.

I absolutely feel a sense of relief, and not at all for myself, but for my wife.
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Just another quick update. Things are returning to the natural order of things for us. We are slowly going through 70 years of things at my in-laws home.
We have completed all that is needed to wait on the probate court, and eventually sell the house and put this behind us. ....at least until the next thing life dumps on us.
Thanksgiving is this Thursday, and I'm looking forward to a busy but relaxing day with my family intact. Hope everything is well with all of my new friends here, and want to wish everyone a great holiday season.
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polarbear Nov 2020
LH- Good to hear from you. I heard the probate process can take forever. Hopefully that won't be the case for you. Have a wonderful and peaceful Thanksgiving with your wife.
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LH, glad to hear from you. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
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