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"My mother passed Feb 8th. I took care of her for the last 5 years. My 2 sisters who live close by are basically absent then and now as I sift through my moms things. They weren’t present for her care. I thought it would be different once she passed but it’s not. "
What are the issues you are having? Is it that you have to now deal with your mom's estate, probate, belongings, legal stuff all by yourself? More information would be helpful. I'm very sorry for your loss.
I'm wondering if this is financial and the sibs are expecting money. Our family had a situation where a son was "just wondering" about what his inheritance might be and the parents were still in their 50's and working!!! I remember him saying that "just a ballpark figure would be OK for now." It was bizarre. He seemed to be faced with a financial crossroads of his own and saw his parents eventual deaths as a source of money. This conversation was decades ago and ONE parent has had the nerve to still be living to this day. Some people DO plan their future over inheriting someone else's money and are stunned that it's less than they fantasized about and want to place blame or make accusations. I've seen bitter feelings over remarkably small sums of money as well.
I imagine that after our mom dies, our family will fracture into little pieces and we will rarely, if ever, get together again..
Is this mother's fault? I think so, as she has pitted us against each other in very sly and sneaky ways. She's totally self absorbed and on holidays, if my YB doesn't visit or call, she acts like it's the end of the world. Her Golden Boy---(which he hates being called!)...doesn't matter what the other 4 of us have done, if HE doesn't call or show up, her day is ruined.
As far as any inheritance, there will be so little money that it's not worth mentioning. All of us but my YS are simply going to give our 'inheritance' back to YB who has cared for mom in his home.
We all know how much we're receiving and it's almost an embarrassment, it's so small. Mom has held this over our heads for years and when I found out it's less than $10K I laughed. That amt won't change any of our lifestyles.
We sibs get along, but we're not close. I can go an entire year without talking to my sister. We just have nothing in common.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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"My mother passed Feb 8th. I took care of her for the last 5 years. My 2 sisters who live close by are basically absent then and now as I sift through my moms things. They weren’t present for her care. I thought it would be different once she passed but it’s not. "
What are the issues you are having? Is it that you have to now deal with your mom's estate, probate, belongings, legal stuff all by yourself? More information would be helpful. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Is this mother's fault? I think so, as she has pitted us against each other in very sly and sneaky ways. She's totally self absorbed and on holidays, if my YB doesn't visit or call, she acts like it's the end of the world. Her Golden Boy---(which he hates being called!)...doesn't matter what the other 4 of us have done, if HE doesn't call or show up, her day is ruined.
As far as any inheritance, there will be so little money that it's not worth mentioning. All of us but my YS are simply going to give our 'inheritance' back to YB who has cared for mom in his home.
We all know how much we're receiving and it's almost an embarrassment, it's so small. Mom has held this over our heads for years and when I found out it's less than $10K I laughed. That amt won't change any of our lifestyles.
We sibs get along, but we're not close. I can go an entire year without talking to my sister. We just have nothing in common.