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Welcome to Forum, Henry. I know that you understand, that at this age, your mom may be closing in on the end of life, as that's where you have posted this. Have you any questions for us?
I am wondering if my mom is getting close to death? I live 90 miles away and I want to be with her when she passes. I don’t know if she is having ups and downs or is she close to dying.
Mom's hospice nurse would be the one to pose this question to Henry. 90 miles is not THAT far away. Why not pay mom a visit and sit with her awhile before she passes? Better to have a living memory of her.
I’ve heard others describe this stage, and it can be a natural part of the body slowing down near the end of life. Often, when a loved one stops wanting food or drink and prefers to stay in bed, it’s the body’s way of preparing to let go. Hospice staff can usually guide you through what changes to expect and how to keep your mom comfortable. It’s heartbreaking, but you’re not alone — many families have walked this path. Lean on hospice and take care of yourself, too
Hospice is end of life care. A doctor has to feel a person will pass within six months to get Hospice in, some do live longer. This is a question for the Hospice Nurse.
With my Mom, she closed her eyes and wouldn't open them. Then she would not get out of bed. I was told Dr wanted to do a swallow test, I said no, time for Hospice. Not being able to swallow is first sign the body is shutting down. She passed a week later. She was 89.
Please continue to offer food and drink. Offer do not force. Sleeping a lot is common. It is one of the things that Hospice will look at when recertifying a person on Hospice. It is one of the things that may qualify a person for Hospice. If you have any questions about some of the things to look for at EOL (End of Life) talk to the Hospice Nurse or CNA. Some of the things to look for would be Changes in breathing Changes in the color of the skin particularly the feet and legs and the back. (if the circulation is poor lower extremities and the back is where blood will pool under the skin.) Be aware of any Pressure sores they can develop very quickly.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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I know that you understand, that at this age, your mom may be closing in on the end of life, as that's where you have posted this. Have you any questions for us?
Good luck to you.
I wish you peace and strength during this difficult time.
With my Mom, she closed her eyes and wouldn't open them. Then she would not get out of bed. I was told Dr wanted to do a swallow test, I said no, time for Hospice. Not being able to swallow is first sign the body is shutting down. She passed a week later. She was 89.
Sleeping a lot is common. It is one of the things that Hospice will look at when recertifying a person on Hospice. It is one of the things that may qualify a person for Hospice.
If you have any questions about some of the things to look for at EOL (End of Life) talk to the Hospice Nurse or CNA.
Some of the things to look for would be
Changes in breathing
Changes in the color of the skin particularly the feet and legs and the back. (if the circulation is poor lower extremities and the back is where blood will pool under the skin.)
Be aware of any Pressure sores they can develop very quickly.