I'm 15 years old and volunteer in a care home, and one of the residents, who is quite active and mobile, finds that he is often bored. He walks every day but he doesn't really know what to do with the rest of his time. He doesn't like reading or arty activities, and it's hard for him to go out much aside from his walks because he usually needs someone with him and most of the carers are generally too busy. Are there any activities that could stop him getting so bored?
I finally realized that's one of the many factors in elder dissatisfaction and boreddom - generallly, they cared for their families and for others for most of their life. Now, they're not able to do that.
Does he play cards? bingo? board games? Does he play any musical instruments? Cook?
Was he in the military? If so, he could send cards to servicemen.
What did he do professionally? Is there any way he can adapt that to small projects?
I think the key is to find something he really likes and try to adapt it to his current circumstances, if possible.
Perhaps you could ask him what he'd do if he were living at home, then figure out a way he can still do it - although I know that isn't necessarily easy.
You must be a special person to do this kind of volunteer work; it's not easy emotionally or physically.
Sounds like an active guy, any chance he can get a WII ...bolwing or other games could be fun
Oh, sorry, you meant constructive activities! Amelia, forgive me - it's just that crabby middle-aged people like me get a bit jaded, whereas lovely people like you, giving your time and concern to our elders, are quite rightly looking for the positives.
[I hope everyone is paying attention: could we now have fewer critical comments, please, about "young people today…"?]
Amelia, the key - the really key - point about elders is that they are individuals. When you have lived another 70 years, God willing, you will still be as unique a person as you are now; and so it is with this gentleman. So your best bet is first of all to talk to him. Find out what he did in his career, what his interests and hobbies were, what he enjoyed doing in his leisure time, what his friends were like. Ask him if there is something he'd like to do, and could if he had an extra pair of hands (yours!) to help him.
Many care homes seem to be adopting the use of life history books, for people to write their own informal biography and include things like photographs and mementoes - if your activities co-ordinator uses these, maybe you could suggest helping him with one?
I expect you have only a very limited budget to work with, but supposing his interests were - oh I don't know - golf, fishing, following one special sports team or something like that: you might be able to find an online club or discussion group where he can make virtual friends, and you could help him with that. Or bring in books and magazines on subjects that are of interest to him.
If he likes gardening, and there's a garden, you could get him to teach you things like growing plants from seed, plant care, propagation, (light) pruning - he could do as much as he's able to, and you could do the fetching and carrying.
Would your parents mind if he taught you how to play poker?
But it's no use our speculating without knowing him, so first of all, ask him. Best of luck, and huge kudos to you for what you're doing. Well done!
Not only was the day beautiful, but there were more little children than any other type of human, and they were responding so innocently and basically to the music, hopping around, dancing in their own way. It was entertaining just to watch them. I think older folks enjoy being with a mix of ages, especially the little ones who are so innocent and natural in their response to music.
Taking a group of people from a care center to a park for a concert isn't always very practical, but if your care home doesn't have music therapy, ask if you can start a program. These young folks who played today spend probably half their concerts providing free music at various community parks.
(sorry may have to copy and paste.) Also the volunteer/activities person knows the seniors where you work, and may be able to help you get creative. Great job volunteering - that's awesome!