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I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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I'm elderly, still independent, and don't have children or family to help me. I'm worried about when I can no longer be independent, are there agencies/professionals who step up to make decisions, pay bills, manage funerals, etc.?
Geriatric care managers! Start exploring their services. You can consult a funeral home and choose your plan as well as pay for it ahead of time. Right now you could call a care agency such as Visiting Angels and sign up. Then when you need help, you already have an account, and you can call the care agency to provide a ride to surgery, care for you afterward, provide someone to keep the house neat, and so on. You can look at continuum of care communities where you start out in independent living, progress to assisted living, memory care and long-term care when you need it. About transportation: look into volunteer agencies that provide rides to doctors' offices, shopping, and recreation for seniors. If there aren't any volunteer agencies, there may be some for profit in your area that you could use. Also, become familiar with Uber and Lyft, which you can pay for rides. Some cities, and mine is one of them, give vouchers for ride services, so that if the ride costs $20, the voucher pays for half and your cost is only $10. Learn about food preparation services. I use Factor X. I order online a week ahead and the prepared meals, never frozen, are delivered once a week. I heat them in the microwave for 2 minutes. They are delicious as well as nutritious. I buy all food and other necessities by ordering online from Amazon and Walmart. They deliver to my door, often within 24 hours. I have no need to enter a grocery store or Walmart.
There are many things you can do to take care of yourself, and the great part is that they are easily arranged ahead of time. There is no need to worry about not having family to help. You can stay independent for quite a while if you really want to, and I hope you'll succeed.
You need to make this arrangement while you are still mentally capable. There are patient advocates who can arrange for your care if you have enough financials to pay. Search aginglifecare.org. You might also face the possibility of running out of money. Then probate will take over and appoint a guardian to set you up in a nursing home. As for a funeral, you can go to just about any funeral home and prepay now. It saves on taxes and you pay today's prices.
This must weigh on you. If you arrive in ER. Generally social workers will assist setting up your care and help. If you are home you could ask to be referred to geriatrics clinic. They will have advice and answers to assist you. This would not be the first time they have seen this.
As Geaton suggested, an attorney or accountant can help by representing you, making decisions, and paying bills. You can name a third party professional as your POA, medical representative, and an executor of your estate when you pass.
You might also consult with a Geriatric Care Manager. Search online for such a service in your area. They can help with planning for your anticipated care needs. I don't know, but they might also be able to connect you to a guardian/representative.
Consult with an elder law attorney. An attorney can do what you need, also a guardian or conservator.
Also, prepare yourself to move to a continuum of care community before you think you need it so that no one needs to battle you into appropriate care in a crisis. Then you get to pick the place and retain control and guarantee you will always have appropriate level of care.
Lots of us plan for physical impairment but we don't like to think about cognitive impairment. And it sneaks up on you, so that you don't recognize it, or deny having it. It makes getting someone into a facility very onerous.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
There are many things you can do to take care of yourself, and the great part is that they are easily arranged ahead of time. There is no need to worry about not having family to help. You can stay independent for quite a while if you really want to, and I hope you'll succeed.
You might also consult with a Geriatric Care Manager. Search online for such a service in your area. They can help with planning for your anticipated care needs.
I don't know, but they might also be able to connect you to a guardian/representative.
Also, prepare yourself to move to a continuum of care community before you think you need it so that no one needs to battle you into appropriate care in a crisis. Then you get to pick the place and retain control and guarantee you will always have appropriate level of care.
Lots of us plan for physical impairment but we don't like to think about cognitive impairment. And it sneaks up on you, so that you don't recognize it, or deny having it. It makes getting someone into a facility very onerous.