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The caregiver has made chicken cutlets and pasta and brought in for my parents. She told them she was going to stop and get a cake for them. she has bought tennis balls for my father’s walker. Is this ok?
auntreky20, welcome to the forum. It's not unusual for a hired caregiver to bring in things for their client to enjoy. Especially if the client is easy to work for and really shows signs of appreciation.
My Dad's weekday and also his weekend caregivers were great. The weekday caregiver would stop and get Dad a breakfast meal from a fast-food place. Dad's weekend caregiver would cook from scratch and box up items for the freezer for Dad's weekday caregiver to use. She would also bring over left-overs from their own family dinner, and her sisters would make bake goods for "Mr. Bob" to enjoy. Dad loved all of this :)
I tried to pay for the food, but the caregivers said "no", it was their threat.
Is this a caregiver you have hired? Is she expected to cook for your parents? Does she cook what they want/need and are the groceries provided? I would discuss this with the caregiver or her facility and ask them this question. The tennis ball things is, imho, just a nothing. Anyone might have these available who does care. They are typically used and very cheap. But food is expensive. So again, this is to discuss with her agency if hired through one, or with her.
When you have a caregiver you hire yourself you generally define just what your expectations are of meals, cooking, how much, how often, and what they are comfortable making of the suggest menu. Then the grocery shopping is done by the caregiver with the person they care for, or done as part of hourly duties.
So I think the important thing here is define what YOU WANT THE CAREGIVER TO DO. Or what the caregiver thinks he/she IS doing. Because at the end of month you really don't want a shopping bill landing on the table.
Just openly discuss, good luck, and hope you'll update us.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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My Dad's weekday and also his weekend caregivers were great. The weekday caregiver would stop and get Dad a breakfast meal from a fast-food place. Dad's weekend caregiver would cook from scratch and box up items for the freezer for Dad's weekday caregiver to use. She would also bring over left-overs from their own family dinner, and her sisters would make bake goods for "Mr. Bob" to enjoy. Dad loved all of this :)
I tried to pay for the food, but the caregivers said "no", it was their threat.
Is she expected to cook for your parents?
Does she cook what they want/need and are the groceries provided?
I would discuss this with the caregiver or her facility and ask them this question.
The tennis ball things is, imho, just a nothing. Anyone might have these available who does care. They are typically used and very cheap.
But food is expensive.
So again, this is to discuss with her agency if hired through one, or with her.
When you have a caregiver you hire yourself you generally define just what your expectations are of meals, cooking, how much, how often, and what they are comfortable making of the suggest menu. Then the grocery shopping is done by the caregiver with the person they care for, or done as part of hourly duties.
So I think the important thing here is define what YOU WANT THE CAREGIVER TO DO.
Or what the caregiver thinks he/she IS doing.
Because at the end of month you really don't want a shopping bill landing on the table.
Just openly discuss, good luck, and hope you'll update us.