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My 99-year-old mother has lived with my husband and me for 7 years now. I retired at age 65 so I could take care of her since her Alzheimer's had reached the point she could no longer be left alone. I deduct $300 per month from her checking account to cover her expenses--food, diapers, clothes, piddle pads on bed, Christmas gifts, etc. Am I allowed to charge her 1/3rd of our home owner's insurance, electric and water bill, property taxes, xfinity and cable television etc. since our home is now her home, too. (She sold her house when she moved in with us.)

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You needed to draft a caregiver agreement when mom sold her home and moved in, that’s the best way to have your legal ducks in a row. Since that didn’t happen and her Alzheimer’s is more advanced now, making her unable to participate in making a document, it’s best to get legal advice
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Since this crosses tax + elder law + possible future Medicaid look-back issues, this is one of those times where a CPA or elder-law attorney in your state is really worth it. One hour of advice could save a giant mess later. At the end of the day you need to have a very clear and exact paper trail and not make any profit from what you are charging her. You are getting reimbursed dollar-for-dollar for her expenses, not charging her for caregiving (which would be considered income to you).

My Mom lives in a house that we own. I print out a detailed, itemized invoice that shows things like utilities, prop taxes, rental insurance, maintenance (like yard services), cable, a small food cost contribution, etc. I recalc this invoice at the beginning of every year and the invoice doesn't change unless there's some bigger unexpected cost that is hers to cover. These rules can vary by state so it is best to talk to a professional who practices in your home state.
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If you set this up properly with a caregiver contract you won't have to worry about proving where her money went should she ever need to apply for medicaid.
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