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I need to plan for storage for when we move into a facility. Does anyone know what is expexted of the resident?

This is a question for the facility he is being placed. With an Assisted living, you bring their own furniture. Memory care, if private, you may need to. If this is a LTC facility, they provide the furniture.

Storage, once my Mom was placed, it was permanent. I kept what she needed to live at the Assisted Living. I separated her clothes into large totes. She was placed in August, so I put her Winter stuff in totes and changed over in the Winter. The totes were stored at my house. All the rest of her stuff, siblings took what they wanted and the rest was given to thrift stores or thrown out. You could have a yardsale or if she has very good items, sell on a FB yardsale site. I would not go to the expense of storing. I gave furniture to Habitat for humanity.
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Beedevil66 May 6, 2026
Interesting, you would think they would at least provide a bed ( even if a mattress cover and sheets weren't included)
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The facility should give you a list of approved personal items allowed.
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My mom's AL would provide a few basics (a bed, a chair, a dresser) if needed, but otherwise we were expected to furnish it. Using my mom's furniture from home definitely helped her feel more at ease in her room.
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I think this depends on your location. In the last four months I have toured four assisted living facilities, one independent facility, and four memory care facilities and none of them were furnished with anything other than a refrigerator (IL- Apartment size; AL- Dorm size; MC-None). No window coverings, no shower curtains, no furniture, no dishes, no hangers, nothing. I am in the state of Illinois in the United States. From the tours I have taken, it is better to bring personal items that are familiar, especially for those with Dementia. The familiar makes the transition easier. If one spouse is moving into memory care and the other is not, take the familiar things to MC and purchase new for the spouse without cognitive decline. This helps those with Dementia feel less anxious. It provides familiarity rather than total change. For example, when my father moves into MC, we will take the shower curtain where he is now, wash it and hang it in his MC room. Then we will buy a new shower curtain for my mother at home. My mom will understand and appreciate the "new" and my dad will experience a familiar atmosphere in his bathroom. If you can furnish the room with all familiar things, the transition will be easier.
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My MIL's ALF was completely unfurnished except for kitchen appliances. There was a full kitchen which is not allowed in another state that I looked at recently. We brought everything she needed from her home. So much better IMO. Every resident comes from somewhere so why not bring the things you feel at home with.
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My mom's MC facility came with a bed, mattress, pillow, bed linen, side table, lamp, dresser, window blinds and trash can. We were told if we wanted to bring in a TV they would put it on the wall. I brought in photos and trinkets for mom as well as other decorations, but not a lot. Mom is a hoarder and we needed to keep that from getting out of hand. The facility gave mom's room a nice recliner that was left behind when another resident passed away. Both mom and her roommate sit in it. I also had to provide a waterproof mattress cover and I took a lap quilt that she had made.
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My parents' AL apartment was completely unfurnished except for the fridge (small full-sized). I'm trying to remember if the washer and dryer in the apartment is theirs or was furnished...? But they brought everything from home. I'm sure it depends on the facility and what level of care. They put some non-furniture things in storage, otherwise we had an auction company come and sell off the things that were left over after we cleared out all the things the family wanted to keep.
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