
About two months ago my friend's dad died. I had no clue since I live in Vegas. We have stopped talking. She has my cell number. After my mom passed, I decided to move. She was not very happy about it or excited for me. Before that our friendship was not so great. I tried to do things with her like go to the mall. She just does not like going anywhere so I just stopped. Before I moved, she was weighing me down. I wanted to travel and meet new people and I have. Should I call her about her dad? I have not talked to her in a year. I don’t know if I should. After 30 years of friendship, I haven’t seen her since 2019. I don’t know.
Nothing there says you need to continue to be friends. Just sending condolences.
I agree with JoAnn. You can send a nice card to express your condolences.
Friends come and go in our lives. Some friends last a lifetime and others are temporary.
If you were close at one point and you want her to know that you are thinking of her, send a card and sign it with a personal message inside.
Are you concerned about how she will respond? Most likely she will see your card as a nice gesture.
What do you have to lose by sending her a card? The price of a stamp.
She will probably be very happy that you thought enough of her to send a condolence care.
Maybe you should have someone help you write a personal message to her also.