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Hey guys! I’m back, so I took all of your advice. I took it upon myself to get the caregiver which they are starting on Monday. And I was going to see how they do and everything for Sundays and Mondays once I felt my mom was comfortable and everything I was going to continue the moving out process. She was on board with everything. Then my brother says why are they coming on Mondays? I say mondays are to give me a break because when I’m not taking her to her appointments and tending to her and the household I’m at work so I never get a break or time to myself. So now he has her back to she don’t need the caregiver and I shouldn’t be moving. At the end of the day I’ve explained myself multiple time on how I felt about everything but no one wants to put themselves in my shoes and understand that I’m physically and mentally tired and tired of doing everything for every body except myself. It’s not right and not fair. So I called my boyfriend and told him basically I told you so. And now he’s like oh ok now I get it. So I’m like if I don’t leave I’m going to be stuck! Am I doing the right thing ?

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Please move. Your mother might out live you if you don't. You deserve a life. I am almost sure your mother lived a full life at your age. Please move while you are almost out the door. It may take some time, but create a life you enjoy. I pray God's blessings, wisdom, insight and clarity to envelope you!
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You must do what is best for you first and foremost, and if that means moving out and getting your life back, then so be it. You know deep down that you need to move out and get on with your life, so don't let anyone stand in your way. You deserve to be happy. Please don't forget that. God bless you.
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You need to leave now. Does not matter what they think or say. You told them you were moving out so you need to follow through.
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YES - if your mom and brother change things - they then take on the responsibility of figuring out how to provide for her needs. Their not choosing to do so does not obligate you to change your plans. Full steam ahead! You matter in this equation also.
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