I'm 67 yr old widow, alone, w lupus, just got thru 4 yr colon CA fight, wear diapers, as I have dumping syndrome, I have no help here, in Western, NY, my daughter wants me to move to FL w them, then into a hud Sr apt I was okayed for, but w covid... l own my mobile home, how can I sell, & pack what I want, as sick as I am, & get to Florida, when her & hub can't help cuz work full x w no vacations. I need a packers, sell a lots of stuff but take a lot, sell this, so confused, don't know what to do. In 2 wks I'll have a nice used Subaru suv, that I prob can pack w necessities, rvs, lamps, clothes, sentimental things but not furniture only taking end tables but how do I get rid of all other stuff. How can I do this alone, where do I begin? I do have credit cards, but can't put much on them, as I owe 8000$ already from med bills, prob enough to hire someone to put some important things in a storage where my daughter & husband has one here & eventually must get but I'm even too sick to pack separate important papers. I've been too sick 6 yrs to keep it all straightened out. Pleasee give me advice, I can prob get 12,000 for this then can pay those cards almost off, do I get 1 card at 0% & put them on that from discover, personal loan? I only get SS, how can I move 2500 miles to be healthier (as I was, when I was there Christmas 2 Mos,) with no help, do I sell, leave everything, pay someone to come take it all out begin over, what can I do?
See if they are able to come assess you for needs and which services they might offer that would help you sort this out.
https://aging.ny.gov/
When it comes to hospital bills you may want to consolidate them if not from one place. That way they are paid off and then you pay off the loan with one payment.
As suggested your Office of Aging maybe able to help.