My husband is a retired federal atorney, In the early stages of decline he argues with me that I am being unreasonable. I have been in therapy TWICE because initially, I was convinced that I had a problem, Our income tax had not been filed for a few years and as soon as I sent in some documents he skipped ahead and did the last year. He is refusing to show me the documents.
I am between a rock and ahrd place and it hurts.
One way a spouse can cheat is to delay the refund into the next year. Then, they
receive the refund after the separation and divorce.