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Am interested in learning more about age, as I am here. It seems as though I have stepped into a new world, and now I have to claim it. Everything changes.

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I learned a lot about aging from being close to my grandparents and caregiving for my parents. Now I'm here already at 77. Pain almost daily, but no memory loss (yet). It's interesting that I continuously recognize that my life is going in very similar ways as theirs. I have a very much busier retirement life, with more interests and friends than any of them had, and can't actually find enough time and energy to do all I want. I thought taking care of myself better would allow some avoidance of their physical issues at least. Nope. What I realize is that I WILL need help eventually, but not looking forward to asking for it or paying for it. It scares me if I think too much about it, but losing independence seems just plain awful to me, as it did for my grandparents and parents. I guess what I have to share with you initially, from caring for my parents, is that you may need to ask for more help at some point and at that point you may have to give into other people's ideas of what is best for you, things you may not recognize you even need help with. So, there's this thing called trust. Who do you trust? My parents trusted me and I did my very best for them, especially for my mom after my dad died. The people you trust may not be your eventual caregivers, but they can advise and help you find any care you might need. I hope you can live independently for a very long time, but if there comes a time when you cannot, then admit that to yourself. I'm going to try to take this advice myself and do the same.
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I hope you find someone wonderful to help you
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Forward84, welcome to the forum. I am pushing 80 years myself and yes, it feels like one has stepped into a new world (especially when it comes to electronics that aren't simple to use).


I started on this forum back when trying to care for my aging parents, and even though they have since passed, I have found this forum still very helpful for myself as I am on this uncharted journey for myself.


At the top of this page you will see RESOURCES... click on that... now click on "Caregiving Topics". Now you will see a lot of subjects related to aging and caregiving. Read the ones that relate to yourself. And also be free to ask questions here on the forum. It's a great way to share suggestions and ideas.
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Hello, and Welcome, Forward84!
AgingCare.com can help to connect you with resources. Just click on the FIND CARE link at the top of this page.

You may also do a Google search for home care in your community.

You can contact your local county health and human services department to see if you are eligible for any Home & Community Based Services through Medicaid.

If you are open to moving from your home, consider moving to a continuum of care community, where you would start out as independently as you are able, and the community will provide care and adapt to your needs as they evolve.
For instance, you may go from Assisted Living, which is fairly independent, but with help from aides as needed, and move to the skilled nursing section if and when you need 24 hour care.
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