My mom’s dementia was diagnosed 2yrs ago. I don’t get along with my 2 sisters. In the past 2yrs I have asked for help several times, especially to hire caretakers. The (POA) won’t hire more help. They are monitoring her through a Ring Doorbell Cam. Now, I believe they are monitoring me through this cam, which seems very inappropriate. They are not telling her the truth. They continue to lie and make false assumptions. She is continuously losing weight and they cancel doctor/Social Worker appts I make to get help, they talk for my mom. I’m not able to communicate with them anymore, to the point I have had to block them. What else can I do?
And you can always call APS to report a vulnerable adult living by themselves. They will come out and do an assessment of the situation, and if need be take over her care.