Finally dad is ready, last week, we found a group home to move mom to. dad is 2nd guessing the decision, mostly because of how much he wrote a check for. In our mind, it is not an option for mom to go back home, but dad is in charge. this article talks about boundaries, it hits on a few marks. we don't think its an option to move mom again, and yet dad is calling the plan. AND dad calls us when mom is not doing well. we want to strengthen boundaries AND make sure mom is being taken care of well. any other advice?

