We were not sent to a rehab facility after surgery because the surgeon was concerned about infection risk. My father is not able to keep watch of her 24/7. Need ideas for how to support her recovery, his caretaking, and safety for her-especially at night when going to the bathroom.
Sounds to me like both your parents need either Memory Care Assisted Living or Skilled Nursing care now, if mom has advanced dementia and dad needs care as well. What's your plan? The house can be sold and the proceeds used to ginance AL and Memory Care, thrn apply for Medicaid for Skilled Nursing care when those funds run out.
Good luck.
Alternatively, get her in rehab.
Moms doctor should have ordered PT to come to the house and you can hire part-time aides when you feel your mom needs the most help.
Hip replacement surgery isn't nearly as complicated as it once was, so hopefully your mom will recover sooner than later and this will all be be behind you except for her dementia as that will only continue to get worse.