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How long has this been going on? Is she taking in fluids? Has any of mom's medications change? Has something major happen? What is being done about her glucose (sugar) level? Can you tell me what is her glucose number is? When did she fracture her 2,3 vertebras? How is her pain being manage?
Have you tried to give her one of her favorite foods? Maybe make one of her favorite meals?
She is old, in pain most of the time, and almost immobile. If she thinks she's had enough, don't be afraid. It's a reasonable decision from the sound of it. Stopping eating is one of the ways to go. Just give her lots of love.
Very true, it sounds like she may want to go be with the Lord. When my grandma had a stroke & woke up in the hospital, she "cussed my mother out", for bringing her to the hospital! That was in the 1960's, but I still respect people's right to die without extreme 'medical' intervention. Peace to your family,✌.
My mom passed yesterday late morning. All of you were so right. She wanted to go and she was tired of all the pain. So she took her last breath and she was gone. We are going to celebrate her birthday fri.
So very sorry for your loss. Happy Birthday to your Mom on Friday! She had already lived her 83 years out. So she gets the credit due her years. What a lovely outlook to celebrate her on her birthday.
This was hard on you, and scary, I am sure. Now that you have reached out, allow others on here who have been where you are today love and support you during this difficult time.
Try some thing she loved, puree it but it will still taste the same I did tramasi dessert her favorite, puree, because she can't chew anymore, but she loved it. It is hard when can eat or chew, puree pot pies, meatballs with gravy or sauce.
Just find foods she loved, make them into puree. Cake, ice cream, favorite meals all can use thick it, be open even if it seems unhealthy, why at this point any food is bad, give her what is bad for her, why hold back now. I tried to be all that but if she wants something why not now. Be open it took me years to let go now aid has her. I can now enjoy her as she is for as long as she is. I have my mom. Dementia takes many forms, my mom is a sweet lady. I know others face the anger and strife. So asking us to unite in a community of mutual understanding, not sure forum yet but if you agree, call for it.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
How long has this been going on?
Is she taking in fluids?
Has any of mom's medications change?
Has something major happen?
What is being done about her glucose (sugar) level?
Can you tell me what is her glucose number is?
When did she fracture her 2,3 vertebras?
How is her pain being manage?
Have you tried to give her one of her favorite foods? Maybe make one of her favorite meals?
We are going to celebrate her birthday fri.
Happy Birthday to your Mom on Friday!
She had already lived her 83 years out. So she gets the credit due her years.
What a lovely outlook to celebrate her on her birthday.
This was hard on you, and scary, I am sure. Now that you have reached out, allow others on here who have been where you are today love and support you during this difficult time.
I did tramasi dessert her favorite, puree, because she can't chew anymore, but she loved it. It is hard when can eat or chew, puree pot pies, meatballs with gravy or sauce.