-I’m an only child after my sister unexpectedly passed away 5 years ago-Mother is 77 and has health issues like RA, beginning Parkinson’s, anxiety and fibromyalgia.-She has fallen in the past-The neighbors she’s close to are all passing away-Money is not an issue. My parents are well fixed and my mother has excellent health coverage. -Husband and I are childless-Husband works rotating shifts-I don’t work outside the home anymore-Mother is still relatively independent able to drive, care for self, etc.
Are you considering this because you and your husband honestly want your mother to live with you, or because she asked and you feel obligated?