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My Darling Husband is 76 and knows about his recent diagnosis of mild to moderate late onset AD. He knows he’s a little “fuzzy” but doesn’t agree with the diagnosis and has not told anyone. He has lifelong friends (yes - 75 years!) that he speaks with weekly. They are surely noticing his periodic confusion, repetitive questions and other changes. DH loves his friends and finds joy in their shared memories of ‘back in the day’ growing up in Manhattan. Detailed memories in sharp focus! On one hand I am thinking they have concerns but don't want to “question/embarrass” their friend. On the other hand they might be concerned, or choose not to call because they don’t understand his situation and are uncomfortable.
I am leaning towards telling them something, although I fear notice to his friends would be a betrayal in his eyes. However I also want them to understand and keep in touch.
Have you faced this question? What worked for you with your loved one?

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