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My father was in the hospital 2x in the last month. they wanted to put him in a care center but they decided he was cognizant
he is 91 he has a deep wound on his leg he was released from the hospital and rehab because of insurance
sister showed up and took over, hiring a helper who he fired because he is so so evil, people tell me that left and right, he screams in my face all the time
she got a person in place who showed up today but wth knows if she will come back
She did a lot of work but at the end of the day she got a big fat cashiers check from my father for her child's "school" so there you go
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“people tell me that left and right” Let no one tell you anything about this toxic situation, nothing at all. Don’t thrive on the drama, it only eats you the from the inside. You control what you listen to, block the negativity from your life. I wish you peace
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Mary, today I discovered that the government has no record of a pension I started vesting in 38 years ago. That company got bought by another company that went bankrupt. Even if I prove to government I worked there fir the requisite pension, I believe it is unlikely that they will go back through the decades old hr and accounting policies of companies now twice bankrupt to find i indeed am owed this money. It could have been hundreds of thousands, I’ll keep trying to get it, but my internal survival plan already calculated without it.

The reason I bring this up with you is to encourage you to treat any potential inheritance the same way in de-calculating it from your long term survival costs. Leave dad and sis to their own devices. As you said, you don’t care.
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mary543 5 hours ago
I am sorry you had that happen! :(

You are right I have already resolved myself to the fact I won't get anything, it will probably take years to even see any money (and I am not young lol) I just want to give her some grief she has been so mean and he has as well.

BUT I know I should let it go for my own peace of mind and to protect my peace I should let the chips fall where they may and I will

Thanks again
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omg this is so old she has no hold over me and neither does he he has some old dusty will i will have half until she takes it all I DONT CARE
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she is expecting me to pay his bills and install a ring camera on his garage, if I disappear I will forfeit his money? I really don't care
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