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Falling backwards can indicate Parkinson's disease or other issues, your sister needs a medical evaluation. My mother used to fall backwards and she had neuropathy in her feet and legs which caused numbness and not knowing where she was in space, so balance issues. The old shoe man put lifts in her shoes which pitched her body forward a bit. That did help her. It might be worth a try for your sister.
She needs to be in a wheelchair. You can not stop the falls, if she is unstable on her feet. Is she falling backward when sitting on the side of the bed? My husband does that because he doesn't have the strength and balance to sit upright. I just have to hold on to him, and instruct him to lean forward, over his knees, as I place my body in front of him, so he will fall into me if he falls forward. If she is walking, do not try and catch her as she falls! You can both go down, and who's going to help you both up? You could get injured.
Recognize your limitations. Your sister may require more help than you can provide. You do not have to take care of everything for her. Her daughter is not obligated to provide for her either. If you are doing this out of love for your sister, then continue as long as you are able. When it becomes more than you can do, it is time to place her in a care home. Tour a couple, so you know what they are like. It is not as scary as some people imagine. If the cost is a concern, help her to apply for Medicaid. This is through the county health and human services division. If she is eligible, Medicaid can pay for long term care in a nursing home; there are also programs which could pay a family caregiver, so ask about that.
You don't stop the constant falls. Nor do you have to take care of your sister, just because her daughter won't. Her daughter obviously knows her limits when it comes to her moms care and perhaps you may need to learn your limits as well. Sounds like this issue will only continue to get worse and that your sister needs to be in a nursing facility where they will most likely keep her in a wheelchair so she won't keep falling, as a bad fall is often what will take a person out...permenantly.
She should see a neurologist specializing in movement disorders (like Parkinson's, as leolonnie mentioned) and, if there is a wait for that which there probably will be, her primary care doctor asap. Some medications can also cause dizziness or balance issues that lead to falls. Does your sister use a walker or rollator? If not, you should probably get one and transition her to using it.
We aren't doctors so are not able to tell you why she is constantly falling. I agree you need to take her to her primary doctor first and tell the symptoms you are seeing. From there she will hopefully be referred to a specialist.
If she is refusing to use a walker or forgetting to use one, you will not be able to stop her from falling. It may be time to place her, or hire a full-time day aid. My Aunt with advanced dementia had a motion alarm on her so that when she started to get up from her recliner, it would go off and her aid would be there to assist. In the end, my Aunt one night got out of bed and fell (at age 100) broke her hip, went into rehab to attempt to learn how to pivot on it, but continued to get out of bed.
I wish you much wisdom and peace in your heart as you look for care solutions.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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If she is walking, do not try and catch her as she falls! You can both go down, and who's going to help you both up? You could get injured.
Recognize your limitations. Your sister may require more help than you can provide. You do not have to take care of everything for her. Her daughter is not obligated to provide for her either. If you are doing this out of love for your sister, then continue as long as you are able. When it becomes more than you can do, it is time to place her in a care home. Tour a couple, so you know what they are like. It is not as scary as some people imagine.
If the cost is a concern, help her to apply for Medicaid. This is through the county health and human services division. If she is eligible, Medicaid can pay for long term care in a nursing home; there are also programs which could pay a family caregiver, so ask about that.
Sounds like this issue will only continue to get worse and that your sister needs to be in a nursing facility where they will most likely keep her in a wheelchair so she won't keep falling, as a bad fall is often what will take a person out...permenantly.
If she is refusing to use a walker or forgetting to use one, you will not be able to stop her from falling. It may be time to place her, or hire a full-time day aid. My Aunt with advanced dementia had a motion alarm on her so that when she started to get up from her recliner, it would go off and her aid would be there to assist. In the end, my Aunt one night got out of bed and fell (at age 100) broke her hip, went into rehab to attempt to learn how to pivot on it, but continued to get out of bed.
I wish you much wisdom and peace in your heart as you look for care solutions.