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Michele...it really doesn't matter what you wanted at this point as your sister who has the POA has the final say as to what is best for your mom.
Now if you want to go to court and file for guardianship over your mom to try and fight this you can. But be prepared to spend many thousands of dollars to do so.
Br grateful that your mom is receiving the 24/7 care she now requires and that you can just go visit her as her loving daughter and not her burned out and overwhelmed caregiver.
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Michele, be grateful that your mother is in a safe place where she can receive appropriate care 24/7; that you are therefore able to live your life freely and visit your mother as often as you want but return home to your own life; and that you won’t be writing to this forum as an overwhelmed and frustrated caregiver whose life has been taken over.
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Few elders look forward to transitioning into care facilities but they are not prisoners or captives: they are there because their PoA decided it is the most appropriate care arrangement for them. Either caring for them in the home became overwhelming or they weren't safe in their home.

Please give us more information for context:

How old is your Mom?
How old are you?
Is your sister your Mom's PoA? If not, is anyone?
Does your Mom have dementia or some other debilitating illness, like Parkinsons?
What was the care arrangement before your Mom before went into facility care?
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funkygrandma59 11 hours ago
Geaton, the OP says that the sister is moms POA.
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OP - You seem very angry, posting in all caps. These are emotional issues. It’s important to take a breath. When we are super angry it is hard to think straight AND it isn’t going to help you communicate effectively with your sister, who your mom put in charge of these decisions.

If you are not able to accept that your sister has the BURDEN of POA and show some respect and gratitude, you will end up shut down and shut out of getting information about your mom or becoming a partner in decision-making. If you were so eager to have her in your home, you should be eager to continue to help your mom and your sister where she is now.

No one with POA wants to hear someone carping on and second guessing difficult decisions. Being POA is not easy and neither is putting your mom in care. So start with an attitude adjustment or you might lose access to your mom completely.
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Michele, can mom afford full time care in your home?
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A lot of people come on this forum with the same question. Your Mom assigned your Sister to be her POA. She must have trusted her to make the correct decisions for her. She must have met the criteria to be placed in a Care Home.

What health problems does Mom have? How old is she? Did you tell your sister you would take Mom in? Which I would not do without POA. Are you from the States?
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How old is your mom? How old are you? What are your mom's health issues? Does she have dementia? Do you realize how expensive at home care is?
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