I didn't know what to do so I got my dad. Then mom thought he was trying to kill her. Then the imaginary people were trying to kill her. This was the first episode like this. I stay Monday and Tuesday nights at my parents house because the rehab for the broken hip didn't want to release her to just my dad, so we have someone there all of the time. She finally sat in the chair for awhile. And when she talked about the imaginary dogs instead of someone killing her I asked if she wanted to go to bed. We went straight to bed in the t-shirt she was wearing before anything else could happen. I can't deal with this
At the hospital I would speak to a social worker about placement . This is too much to handle at home .
Mom will be likely to have these episodes on and off if she gets UTI’s. And if it turns out it’s not a UTI , then it’s the dementia advancing which also is now too much to handle at home .
Either way , Don’t allow the social worker to talk Dad into bringing her home , you say it’s an “ unsafe discharge “.
Sorry to say but a broken hip often causes a significant decline in someone with dementia, that they do not bounce back from .
The fact that rehab didn’t want to send Mom home without someone there at all times along with Dad is very telling.
Did you mean CLL ? If so , that could be causing oxygen deprivation to her brain due to anemia .
Unfortunately my aunt who helps on Wednesday night has a swollen disc in her back and is not going to be able to help for awhile. I don't know how long that takes to heal, so I am back to 3 nights a week instead of 2 unless someone can find more help.
So very happy that the doctor gave her something that is working.
Did the doctor give her anything for the hallucinations? Or is he waiting to see if a UTI is causing it? I saw nothing about Mom having Dementia just the cancer. Chemo does give people "brain fog". Also, people suffer from Hospital delirium too. I think if was 3 weeks in Rehab, I would have some delirium too. I guess the doctor checked for pneumonia too?
If you have PTO time or vacation you may want to take off a few days. No sleep and no food make for a lousy employee.
But I agree it could be a number of factors causing this . Sounds like that last round of chemo made her very frail , which is not uncommon in causing the beginning of the final decline .
Honestly, it sounds like a total step down due to multiple factors and needs placement .
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