My sister recently took My father to California with Out warning 3 weeks ago . I have Not had a break in 2 and a half years and have been caring for him and Other relatives for the Past 7 years . Suddenly I realize I have no friends , have no Income , have Not traveled and do not have a boyfriend . I have Lived with my father for 10 years taking care of his properties and rentals . I do not own anything either but a Old 20 year Old Car . A Couple Older woman friends I Met in Maine a few years back warned me of this " You are still young are you going to carry him every where you go ? " So I have sometime to figure a few things Out . When he does return which I am sure he is going to - Do I want to continue this Journey because its been a empty one and I realize right Now I dont have anything . I have to turn my attentions to my own Life Now. How did others cope and come to hard decisions ?
Think about what you really want. What you like. Set some goals. Try new things to figure it out.